Abazali ababesoloko besondele ebantwaneni, akukho nto itshintshayo neminyaka yokufikisa. Kungakwazi ukukhululeka ngakumbi kwaye ivuselele ukukhusela imida yakho, kodwa iya kuqhubeka nokuthetha ngobomi bakhe kubazali kwaye wabelane ngamava kubo. Ukuba uneengxaki ezinkulu, jonga nzulu-kuhlala kuluncedo ukuhamba kunye kwi-psychologisty eya kulawula kwimbambano. Wafunda uluvo lweengcali malunga noku.
Yahlula umdla wakhe
"Uhlala ntoni apho emva kwekhompyuter yakho, yiya kungcono uhambe!" -Uhlala uxelela abantwana abazali abaqhelene nelemidlalo yekhompyuter. Uphosakele: Ngoku abakwishumi elivisayo badlala kwi-Intanethi, apho banokufumana khona abahlobo kwaye baqhelene nabantu abatsha. Bambalwa abantu ngoku esitratweni kwaye badibana nabahlobo apho. Imidlalo - into efanayo yoluntu ekwishumi elivisayo. Oku kusebenza kwezinye izinto ezinomdla, nokuba ngumdlalo oxhaphakileyo, ukupeyinta okanye umnqweno wokufunda umhlaba uphela kwi-Classics-Thetha nomntwana malunga nesi sifundo kwaye kutheni ehlawula ixesha lakhe.
Sukumshiya umntwana
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Fumana i-hugging eqhelekileyo
Khumbula ukuba uyakuthanda ukwenza kunye xa umntwana esemncinci-ukupheka, enyamekela igadi, ekhwela iibhayisikile? Mnike ukuba akhumbule ukuba kunjani, kwaye uchithe iiyure ezimbalwa kunye. Emva komsebenzi oqhelekileyo kulula ukuqala incoko kwaye uvule unxibelelwano, njengoko imbono yakho iya kwahlulwa ebusweni besithethi ngeli xesha, kwaye ke akukho ndawo yethandabuza kwaye izame ukukhohlisa. Nokuba awuzifumani iiklasi ezinjalo, yiza ngokwakho - unokwenza i-albhamu yosapho i-albhamu, ihombisa igumbi leholide okanye ubhalisele iklasi enkulu.
Nceda usixelele ngesiqu sakho
Ukuba awukaze wabiwa kunye nomntwana ohlekisayo kunye namaxesha okuba ebuntwaneni, lixesha lokuba uxelele ngazo. Ke uyakuqonda ukuba awulunganga kunaye kwaye awuyi kuzifihla kuwe iinkcukacha zamaqela kunye nabahlobo okanye imihla esimthandayo. Yayiloyiko lokuphoxeka kwabazali okanye ukuba agwetywe ukuze abantwana bafihle ubomi bakho. Thetha nomntwana malunga nomxholo wemida yobuqu kunye nento yokuba akanyanzelekanga ukuba azise iinkcukacha zomhla wakhe ukuba ufuna ukushiya into emfihlakalweni. Inkxaso ngokunika iqela elilandelayo ekhaya okanye lokumema abahlobo ukuba batyelele isidlo sangokuhlwa.
Nikeza izizathu zokundwendwela
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Bonisa imvume
Kukufikelelwa ukuba abantwana baqalise ukuzigxeka kumaqhinga- eli lixesha lokukhula ngokusesikweni ngokuzithelekisa nabanye abantu. Kubonakala kubo ukuba abamhle, bathambile, bakrelekrele, bomelele kwaye baqhubeke noluhlu. Ungalibali ukuthetha nabantwana ukuba ubathanda kwaye uneqhayiya ngabo, nokuba impumelelo yabo ixhomekeke ekusebenzeni ngempumelelo kuthutho okanye kuvavanyo oluhle lolawulo esikolweni. Yenza iincombo xa ubona ukuba umntwana uzama ukunxiba ipati. Cebisa uncedo ngokukhetha i-wizard kwiinwele nakumntu ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha umfanekiso. Ngokubanzi, zama ukungayigxeki i-chado, kodwa ukuyigcina ngamandla amabini.