Abafazi bacokisekile ukuba uSherlock Holmes, nangona kunjalo, ubuchule buyenzeka xa kufikwa kwintanda. Iimvakalelo ziyayixabisa ingqondo kwaye ziyakwazi ukususa ezona mpikiswano zilungileyo ngokuchasene nezenzo ezimbi zendoda yakho. Mhlawumbi "Hayi, akafani naloo nto" - olona binzana lihlala libiza njalo. Ngaba ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba ukhetho lwakho lukwenu ngokunyaniseka? Sebenzisa ithuba lecebiso lethu malunga neempawu zokuchonga ixoki:
Iimvakalelo zokukhohlisa
Kukholelwa ukuba amabhinqa ziinkosi zemidlalo kumdlalo kwii-nerves. Kuyinyani, ikho into. Kodwa: Amadoda ayakwazi ukuphatha iimvakalelo zabanyuliweyo akukho mabi ngakumbi. Mhlawumbi into yokuqala abayifundayo kukubuza lo mbuzo: "Ningandikholelwa na?" Abanye abameli besondo elinzima bafakwe entlokweni yentombazana ingcinga yokuba kule meko baya kuphuma kungekudala. Ewe, ngubani ofuna ukuba nolwalamano apho abantu bengathembi? Kodwa isisongelo rhoqo kumsantsa sibonisa ukuba indoda ingakuxabisi-ukulungele ukufumana into entsha yesithintelo ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba ukungathembani kwakho kusekwe kwizibakala ezithile, kwaye ubonakalisa inkxalabo yethu ekuhleni ukuyitshintsha, kwaye le ndoda endaweni yokuxhasa kunye nokulahla ihlazo kusebenza ngobukrelekrele. Umntu onothando akasayi kuyibuyisela ngabom inkosi, kodwa uya kuzama ukufumanisa ukulalanisa.
Amadoda aquka iimvakalelo akukho zibi kunabafazi
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Ubomvu
Ngequbuliso izidukisi ezihlekisayo okanye ukutshintshwa kwamaqhosha athetha malunga neentloni zomntu-ngokuxhomekeka ekubeni kukho ubushushu obukhululekileyo egumbini. Le nkqubo yenkqubo yomzimba: Igazi linamathela kwintloko ukuqinisekisa ukusohlwa kwengqondo, ukuvelisa kwimeko enzima, kwaye kumnceda ukuba afumane isisombululo kwingxaki yokuthuthuzela. Kwakhona, indoda iya kuzama ukufihla kuwe ujongene nempendulo yakhe - ukususa amehlo ukuya ngasekhohlo okanye ngasekhohlo, okukhulu, okukhulu kwengqondo ngokukodwa: i-hemisphere yasekhohlo Inoxanduva lokufumana ingcinga efunekayo ukuzisa iimpikiswano zokukholisa. Emva kwamazwi akhe, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukujonga ukuba uyixabise indlela osabela ngayo ngamazwi akhe.
Ukuba ukulungele ukusombulula imbambano, kwaye akukho mntu, oko kufanelekile ukucinga
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Tyibilika kwabanye abantu
"Ewe, wonke umntu uthi!" - Ibinzana elinjalo lingaviwa emlonyeni wexoki. Kwaye isicelo sokucacisa ukuba ngubani kanye kanye athi, kusenokwenzeka ukuba akasayi kuphendula - ebonisa ukucaphukisa okanye esiya kwesinye isihloko. Isizathu sicacisiwe-le ndoda ayiqinisekanga ngamazwi akhe, ke ngoko, kunzima ukugxininisa nombono onoluvo, ngelixa ungabizi mthombo othile ukuze ungazithobeli. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokukhululeka kwaye ufumanise ukuba ngubani osondeleyo kule ndoda inyuliweyo, emva koko ubeke emngciphekweni wokuloba - kusenokwenzeka ukuba wavuma kwangaphambili ukuba ngabahlobo bakho okanye abasebenza nabo ukuba baphakamile. Ngaba ungathi "ukudlula" kwiintombi zakho? Akunjalongo noko! Ke, ukulindela ukuba inyani ivela kubahlobo bomntu ongenamanzi.
I-Live I-Thando "Ukuguqulela iintolo"
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Amabinzana aphantsi
Amabinzana athi "Nditsho kwakhona", "ndimele ukuthi", "Ndifuna ukuthi" Thetha ngokungazithembi komnxibelelanisi. Kungatsho ukuba ukufihla emva kwabo - owokuqala uya kugxininisa ikamva, kwaye okwesibini neyesithathu - injongo yokuthetha ukuba isithethi asikholelwa kuyo. Yilumkele umzuzu xa indoda iphosa ulwazi olubalulekileyo olunjengokuthi, yayingubani, kodwa intlawulo ephezulu ihlawulwe izinto ezincinci - imozulu okanye inkcazo yamatyala. Ngokubanzi, eyona "Goatre" kwincoko yakho iya kuba kukuba uya kuwuphawula uManeru ongaqhelekanga uManeru - njengoko idla ngokuthetha, okanye ihlala iphefumla okanye igqibe iinwele zakhe. Buza ngqo kutheni esithi ayiqhelekanga njengesiqhelo. Kuyenzeka ukuba le ndoda ixhalabile kwaye ayinayo injongo yokuxoka, kanti wena ubuye nesicwangciso sobuqili sokuvezwa kwayo.
Izimbo zomzimba zihlala zinobuchule
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Ukuqina okukodwa kwiintshukumo
Abantu bathanda ukuthobela ngokugqibeleleyo ngelixa bexoka. Ixoki elinobuchule linokwenza ukuba ubuchule kwaye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukulawula izimbo zomzimba: ukuwela izandla ezifubeni, ukusonga iminwe kwinqaba okanye i-subles. Ukuba ufuna ukufumana iinkcukacha zemeko ethile, phumla kuqala umntu-uthetha naye malunga nendlela eyayisenzeka ngayo, yiza nezicwangciso zeveki kwaye uxelele ibali malunga nabantu obaqhelileyo. Emva kokuba uye enyanisweni unomdla kwimibuzo. Sukwenza umngcipheko othi ukuba indlela enjalo inyanisekile kwintanda, kodwa umfazi onovayo umbi ngakumbi kunempendulo kwimibuzo engakhululekanga.
Ngaphambi kokuba uzame ukubalisela ixoki kwaye uyakrokrela ukukhohlisa okanye okubi ngakumbi, sebenzisana nawe. Kuyenzeka ukuba uloyiko lwakho okanye amava angaphumelelayo kubudlelwane bangaphambili abulele kukukrokrela ukwanda. Zama ukuthetha nonyuliweyo onyanisekileyo nayo yonke into, kuya kubakho ukuzithemba phakathi kwakho. Zive ukhululekile ukuveza iimvakalelo zakho, kuba ndingathanda ukuthi "Ndiyoyika" okanye "andiqinisekanga" kwaye ndithethe nendoda kunokuba ndithethe naye ngentliziyo. Akukho mntu unokufunda iingcinga zethu ngaphandle kwethu. Zonke iingcebiso zeengcali zengqondo kubuxoki buqaphele indalo ekhuthazayo - akukho mntu uqinisekisa ukuba ubale kakuhle ixoki. Ukuba uhlala uthandabuza umntu wakho kwaye ulungiselele ukubambana ngobukhoboka, kungcono ukuqhekeza naye - gcina i-psyche kunye nawe, kwaye ngokwakho. Sebenza kuqala ngokwakho, ke abantu ecaleni kwakho baya kufaneleka kwizicelo zakho.