Ngokwengxelo yovavanyo lweRosstat "yenani labemi abasisigxina nge-1 kaJanuwari, 2020 kunye ne-Arivery ye-2019, iqondo lokuchuma kwilizwe lethu li-1.7 abantwana abafazi. Oku kuthetha ukuba, ngokomndilili, kwiintsapho zaseRussia, abantwana aba-1-2. Ngapha koko, ngokuphunyezwa kweNkqubo yeNkxaso yoSapho, ikhuphukile kwi-1.2 yabantwana phakathi kwe-2000s. Ke ngoko, umbuzo uphakama malunga nendlela abantwana abaza kuphakamisa ngayo abantwana: Xelela indlela yokwenza ubuhlobo nabantu abancinci.
Chitha ixesha elininzi kunye
Izifundo zokuphucula ubudlelwane phakathi kwabazalwana noodade, eziboniswa yi-Psychology Namhlanje, bonisa utyekelo lokuphucula ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantwana xa zizaliseka ngemisebenzi edibeneyo. Impembelelo entle kakhulu iyaphawuleka kubantwana bamaqela ahlukeneyo kubudala kunye nobushushu obuqhelekileyo. Nikela ingqalelo kwimidlalo edibanisa abantwana, kwaye idibanise. Ke amantombazana athanda ukudlala ivenkile, kunye namakhwenkwe ezimotweni - cwangcisa umdlalo wokudlala kwivenkile yokudlala. Khuthaza abantwana abadibeneyo ngokuthatha inxaxheba kubo nomyeni wakho.
Nika abantwana ukuba baphumle
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Musa ukuphazamisa imidlalo
"Musa ukuba ngamangangamsha ukuba ngokuzola" - bonke abazali kufuneka bakukhumbule eli binzana. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba abantwana babelana ngokwabelana, kubashiye bodwa. Isidlo sasemini kunye nokulala kwemini kuya kulinda de bafake unxibelelwano omnye komnye. Xa bebahlobo abalungileyo, kuya kuba nakho ukulawula ngokungqongqo ubungakanani bosuku. Okwangoku, zama ukwaba ixesha lemidlalo ekuseni emva kwesidlo sakusasa, emva kokulala kade ngokuhlwa kunye ngokuhlwa.
Ukukhuthaza imigodi yehomoni yovuyo
Kwimo elungileyo, gcina unxibelelwano oluhlobo lulula kakhulu. Ikhandlela kunye nokukhokelela abantwana rhoqo, phawula kwaye uhlekise kunye nabo, hamba uhambe ngomoya omtsha okanye uye ehlathini. Faka inkqubo yakho yemihla ngemihla kwiiklasi ezininzi ezinegalelo kwimveliso ye-oxytocin iyadanisa, ukucula, ezemidlalo. Ukuba abantwana badiniwe, banike iilekese kwaye baphumle kwikhathuni - ukuphumla ezolileyo akuyi kunika i-Cortisol ukuba isebenze kwaye iwathume ngokungxama.
Nikeza ukukhathalela omnye komnye
Unxibelelwano oluluqilima phakathi kwabantwana luyimfuneko yokuxhalaba omnye komnye-yiyo loo nto abantwana abanomahluko omkhulu kubudala baninzi kakhulu. Bafundise imigangatho ye-Etiquette: idlulisela kwenye yezinye iindawo, nceda uze nesaladi, galela amanzi kwaye udlulise i-cutlery. Xa omnye wabantwana esenzakaliswe, cela okwesibini ukuba uza kukuzisela i-banded okanye iphakheji ngomkhenkce, unamathele kwi-patch sctch okanye ugalele kuyo. Baxelele ngemithetho yokuziphatha ngokukhuselekileyo esitratweni kwaye bakuqinisekisile ukuba ujongene.
Yiza nephephabhuku lenceba kunye nabantwana
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Yenza i-jerjeeli yoSapho
Iingcali zengqondo zibonelela ngokuqalisa incwadi yenqaku, apho uya kunye nabantwana baya kurekhoda imisebenzi yabo elungileyo omnye komnye. Igama "iphepha lemibeleko yethu yosapho" kwaye ivumele abantwana ukuba bayihombise. Ungaqala ngeekowuti malunga nobubele, umzekelo, uDalai Lama: "Yiba nobubele xa kunokwenzeka. Ihlala inokwenzeka. " Emva koko nikela ingqalelo kwizenzo zobubele phakathi kwabantwana bakho kwaye ubhale phantsi kwidayari kunye nomhla. Umzekelo, "uVanya wabelana ngeebhiskithi zikaMasha", "wanceda i-MASA ukuze aqokelele iithoyi" njalo njalo.