Vumelani, rhoqo ngosuku lokuqala esizityelelwe ziingcinga, uza kuba yintoni ukulala ebhedini? Nanamhlanje, abafazi babhenela kwezi ndlela njengokubala isidima seqabane elinokubakho ngobude beminwe / impumlo kunye nenani lezityalo emzimbeni. Ngaba kufanelekile ukuthi iindlela ezinjalo azinanto ithembisayo ngenyani. Nangona kunjalo, oogqirha bezengqondo batyhila iipatheni ezininzi zokuziphatha ezinokuthi zingathethi malunga nesondo, emva koko inike intetho engumzekelo.
Mna kunye nam
Ngaphandle koluphi uphawu olungenakwenzeka ngesondo esigqwesileyo? Ewe, ngaphandle kokukhathalela amaqabane omnye komnye. Khawufane ucinge ukuba ubuhamba okanye uye kwivenkile yokutyela epholileyo. Kwenzeka ntoni emva koko? Unomdla kuwe, ubuza imibuzo, ufuna ukwazi okungakumbi ngawe? Ukuba kunjalo, unethuba lokuba indoda iya kuba liqabane lokwabelana ngesondo. Kodwa ukuba awukwazi kwaye ufake amagama kwaye uqala ukubonakala ngathi uyenze kwi-Theatre Monologue ye-Hamlet, iindaba ziyadanisa, kwaye oku kubonisa ukuba iya kuba yinto eyodwa yeemvakalelo zakhe.
Nika ingqalelo kwindlela yakhe
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Ungandichukumisi
Nawuphi na umntu onomdla kuwe, njengasemfazini, awoyisayo, uya kuzabalazela ukuba uchukumise, kwaye hayi, ayizukuchukumisa nje, uhlala efuna ubukho bakho. Olu luphawu oluhle. Kodwa xa le ndoda ingabacuphi ukusondela kwakho nangazo zonke iindlela, ayifuni ukungena kufutshane nemihla embalwa, linda iqhinga-kunokuba malunga nokungabikho ngokwesondo okanye inkolo. Njengoko uqonda, iqabane elinjalo alinakulindeleka ukuba likholise ebhedini.
Bonke abafazi bayafana
Awunaxesha lokuqhelana nexesha lokuqhelanisa, kwaye sele uyazi ukuba loluphi uhlobo lomfazi ombi wayengungaphambili? Intsimbi ye-alamu. Akukho siqinisekiso sokuba umntu osoloko ungonelisekanga ngumgangatho wesetyhini awuyi kuqalisa ukubonisa iimvakalelo ezingalunganga kwidilesi yakho. Ukongeza, amagqabaza athembekileyo kwabasetyhini athetha ngokuzithemba zokuzithemba kwaye rhoqo malunga nemeko ye-neurootic. Ngaba ufuna 'ukubamba' kwaye uyakulungela ukuba kwindawo yakhe engendawo elandelayo?
Ndihlala ndenziwa kakuhle
Thetha ngaphantsi, sebenza ngakumbi. Kodwa hayi kwimeko yamadoda anjalo. Umntu ongaphili ngaphandle kokwazi umhlaba ukwazi malunga nezesondo, ngethuba elikhulu alizukumangalisa ebhedini, kuba uninzi lwe "fess zakhe" zigqithisile. Indoda eqinisekile kubuchule bakhe kwaye ayazi kakuhle izakhono zakhe, ngekhe zenze ugxininiso koku, endaweni yoko, uya kuwathandela amalungiselelo akho ngesondo.