Ngesimo sengqondo seKhamsky, sajamelana nawo yonke imihla, ubuncinci kangangezihlandlo ezininzi ngeveki ngokuqinisekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, hayi kuphela izithuthi zikawonke-wonke kwaye iindawo zikawonke-wonke zibububi ... oko kukuthi, krwada. Ngaphezulu, abantu esinyanzelekileyo ukuba baphikise abantu esibathandayo, oogxa kunye nabahlobo - abo sinxibelelana nabo rhoqo. Ukuba nomntu ongaqhelekanga ngokwaneleyo ukuphakamisa izwi okanye uthethe into ebukhali, nabahlobo kwaye kufutshane, kuba le "gxila" ayiyi kuba zichanekile ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuthoba indlela yokuziphatha enjalo kwiibhuleki. Kwenziwe ntoni? Sineengcebiso ezimbalwa, indlela yokumthanda umntu angalunganga, kodwa angawonakalisi ubudlelwane.
Yamkela le meko
Kubalulekile ukuba wabelane nabantu onawo hamati. Ukuba uxhomekeke kulomntu emsebenzini, uyaqonda, iziphumo zakho zinokugxothwa. Ngokufanayo nabahlobo onokuphambana naye, ukuba uyaphula isikrelemnqa.
Ngezihlobo kunzima ngakumbi. Konke kuxhomekeke ekubeni abasondelelene njani aba bantu, kwaye nokuba bahlala njani nawo iintsapho zakho zegazi: Apha sithetha ngezalamane zomyeni wakhe okanye umfazi wakhe. Ke, ukuba umkhwekazi ukhonza, unesityhato, kuba unokuyichitha imanyano yakho yomtshato.
Ziphi na, kungekuphela kwizithuthi zikawonke-wonke kuphela
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Kwenziwe ntoni?
-ilinganisa umngcipheko;
-Ndiziva ndiqinisekile ngento yayo elungileyo;
-Angayithandi isando, ungayiphakamisi izwi (ngamatyala anqabileyo).
Nje ukuba uhambile nobabini ngokukhwaza kunye ne-squeal, imbambano yakho iya kulahleka, kwaye kumacala omabini. Ke ngoko, yiba uthandabuze, yenza ngokucacileyo kwaye uzame ukuthambisa ngomntu onjalo.
Indlela kuqala. Iyonke ingahoyi
Hayi, akukho sidingo sokunyamezela isimo sengqondo sokuzinyanisa ngokwakho. Indoda ekunyule "ixhoba" lakhe, iya kuphakama. Veza inkangeleko yakho yonke ukuba ungaphezulu kweScroll kunye nalo mmeli. Ukuba lo mntu uphakamileyo kunawe ngesikhundla kwaye uyakwazi ukuphembelela ukusebenza, kwaye usabela kuphela kwezo zinto zihlaselweyo zenzeka kwimeko, kodwa zibonisa indlela umntu osisidenge ngayo kule meko. I-Hama ihlala idimazekile.
Buza amaqabane athethiweyo ukuba abonise indlela ekufuneka esenza ngayo, ngokoluvo lwakhe, owonileyo
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Umsindo akasayi kuba nako ukuthatha ngokuzolileyo. Kodwa musa ukudidanisa ukungazikhathaleli ngomonde: IHama kufuneka iboniswe kwimpazamo yakhe.
Indlela yesibini. Uncumo
Kunzima ukuncuma ukuphendula izithuko, kodwa indlela intle kakhulu kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi isebenza. Xa sincuma, asiyamkeli indlela yokuziphatha yomchasi, kodwa sicinezela imvakalelo yakhe yobukrelekrele.
Ngokuqinisekileyo uye waqaphela ukuba kufanelekile ukubonisa impendulo engalindelekanga kwinto engalindelekanga, njengomntu uqala ukuya kwizindlu kwaye ucime imbambano evelayo. Kodwa kuya kufuneka uncume ngokuchanekileyo: ayifanele ibe sisigculelo, kungenjalo umngcipheko ukhulisa imbambano.
Indlela yesithathu. Miga
Kule meko uyakufuna imeko yabantu. Inokuba ngabadlula ngendlela. Inqaku kukuhambisa kwakhona umjelo ongalunganga umntu ngamnye okwishumi.
Masithi unomlingane okwenza okukhethileyo kwiintsilelo zakho emsebenzini, kwaye iyakwenza xa impikiswano yakho ibona abanye abantu. Ngokwesiqhelo umntu onjalo ubala ngokuxhasa abanye.
Uncumo lokuphendula kwi-neganer-i-galler ayifuni kuqhubeka nengxabano
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Xa le nto yenzeka, mcele esidla esidlangalaleni ukuba abonise indlela yokwenza. Indlela eya kusebenza ngokugqibeleleyo ukuba uqonde umbuzo ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye ungazichaza amabango am emntwini, ngaloo ndlela uyibeka ngendlela engalunganga. Kwixesha elizayo xa umntu ebonakala, nokuba uza kubambelela kwiqhina.
Indlela yesine. Vumelana ne-HAMOM
Umntu uveza into engeyiyo kwabanye, kuphela xa esazi ukuba akasayi kuphinda. Uyayithanda. Ukuhlutha umnqweno weHama ukuqhubeka nawe wamkelwe, ngandlela zonke vumelana neengxelo zakhe. Nokuba ungcono ukuba uyothusa kule meko, ukubakho okunjalo kuya kuba yinto entle kaHama.
Umzekelo, esinye sezalamane zakho sikuxelela ukuba awuphumelelanga ebomini kwaye, ngokubanzi, ilahlekile. Vumelani kwaye utyale imali kwi "mvume" yakho kangangoko kunokwenzeka, ukuze umntu acace uqonde. Kuwe olinde kuwe ukuqinisekiswa kunye nokuchuma. Ungamvumeli into ayifunayo, kwaye umntu ngokukhawuleza "uyahlangana" kwincoko.