"Indoda ayingomntwana. Indoda ngumntu okhulileyo, sele yenziwe. Ungatsho kuphela-ndiyayithanda okanye ndinyuke, okanye ndikhangele omnye, "utshilo ugqirha wengqondo uMikhail Labkovsky kolunye udliwanondlebe. Esi sikhundla sesinye sezimvo ngendlela yokufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nomntu. Ukufundiswa kwakhona okanye ukukhuthaza izimvo zakho ngokuqinisekileyo hayi olona khetho lubalaseleyo. Kodwa ukuba uqinisekile ukuba zonke izinto ezingenangqondo ziyinto yethutyana kwaye zichaziwe zizizathu ezithile, kubalulekile ukuba lonke ubudlelwane. Ndiza kukuxelela ukuba zeziphi izinto ozenzayo kunye nento onokuyilindela kwiqabane.
Thetha nemozulu yokungathathi hlangothi
Incoko kwizihloko zomntu ejikelezwe ngabantwana, izalamane, unxibelelwano lokubukela imovie, njengokuqiqa emva kwesondo- ngokuqinisekileyo ayisiyonto ibalaseleyo yokwabelana ngengxaki. Kungcono uye esixekweni, umzekelo, ehlathini, apho unokuhamba khona kwaye uthethe nemiphefumlo. Umoya omtsha unegalelo kuphuhliso lwe-serotonin, eliya kuba nefuthe elihle kwimozulu yomntu kwaye kwangaxeshanye iya kuzola, ikunyanzele ukuba uthembele. Ngaphakathi ngababini apho kungekho mkhwa wokwabelana ngamava abelana ngamava, iingxaki zisenzeka rhoqo - cinga malunga nexesha olichitha kwiincoko zodwa.
Kwimeko engathathi hlangothi yokuthetha ngokulula
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Hlaziya i-Itimeta
Iqabane lakho linokuqonda ukuba udiniwe emsebenzini okanye ekunyamekeleni abantwana, kodwa ukoyisa iimvakalelo zakho kwakhona ziya kuphinda zikwazi. Inkcubeko yotywili iyasinyanzela ukuba unxibelelwano olusondeleyo phakathi kwabantu lusiwa ngesondo kuphela- ayinjalo. Unokwenza umntu othanda umntu owuthandayo okanye ucele ukuba uyenze, hug 'hugst kwaye qabula intloko yakho - cinga ngento ayithandayo nawe. Xa ubambelela umntu onxibelelana naye kufutshane nawe, uziva eqiqe kwaye ekhubekile, ekholelwa ukuba uphoxekile kuye. Nakuphi na ukuxhalaba malunga nexesha lentlekele, xa kunzima kuwe ukuthetha nezihloko ezimnandi, iincoko malunga nenu zingabalulekanga kwiqabane kwaye iguqule imeko yayo ibe ngcono.
Thetha ngawe ngaphandle kokuchaphazela abanye
Ngexesha lokungqubana, naziphi na iimpikiswano ziyahamba: Iinkumbulo ezidlulileyo, ireferensi kwizalamane, amabango okusela ixesha, iqabane elingahambelaniyo njengeyona nto ilungileyo. Zonke ziyimpazamo yezizathu ezibini: Uya kukhokelela umntu, hayi usapho lwakhe, kwaye alililo ikhoboka, kwaye ke ungakhalazi ngeminyaka yelize. Uninzi lwemigodi lufuna ukuya kwisikhundla 'samaxhoba "kunye" noMsindisi "- okokuqala awonelisekanga ngabantu, kodwa abangabasithembi, bafumana isizathu sokungakhathali kwaso nasiphi na isizathu sokwenyama, Eyesibini ifuna ukusindisa intanda kwingxaki yakhe - ukusuka kubunxibo ukuya kumkhwa wokusasaza izandla. Ukuba awukhathali ngokwakho kwezi ntlobo zimbini, kuthetha ukuba ungayichaza ngokufanelekileyo isikhundla sakho kwimbambano, ethetha kuphela ngeemvakalelo zakho, kwaye ungabizi enye. Ukuthetha ngesiqu sakho, unika iqabane ithuba lokuqonda wena kwaye uthethe, ucacisa nje iimvakalelo kunye nezenzo zakho.
zikhathalelene ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo
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Sombulula iingxaki
Ukuzola kwamaqabane abunjiweyo kuchaphazela wonke umntu. Ke, xa umntu emfazweni okanye engakhathali, imeko yeemvakalelo yomnye iya kuba ingazinzanga. Uvelwano olunamandla, kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi umntu oyintanda, xa uza kuhamba uphoxekile. Rhoqo asizixabisi ukuba kutheni bediniwe kakhulu okanye besifunda ukonwabela umhlaba ojikeleze, woyika ukudibana nokungaqondi kweqabane. Kodwa inyathelo lokuqala lokucombulula ingxaki kukwamkelwa kwayo nokwamkelwa kweemvakalelo ezingalunganga. Ungathatha umsebenzi onqeni, ukulungiswa kwendlu yendlu, imoto engathandekiyo okanye ukungabikho kweemvakalelo ezintsha. Sukufunda ukuba waneliseke zincinci, kodwa uphila ngendlela oyifunayo. Kuphela ke uya kuba ngumntu owonwabileyo, kwaye oko kuya kukhokelela-utshintsho kubudlelwane bakho okanye ubahlu-uza kubona kamva. Kuyenzeka ukuba amaphupha amaqabane akho afanayo kwaye owoyike ukuvuma le nto kuwe, kangaka!