Mhlawumbi, umzali ngamnye wafumana i-hssteries yasekuseni, xa kufuneka usebenze iyure, kwaye umntwana akayeki ngaphandle komlo kwaye akavumi ukuya egadini. Ukuba uzama ukubeka uxinzelelo kumntwana, akukho nto ngaphandle kwe-hysteria enkulu awuyi kuyiphumeza. Ke ihamba njani yonke imihla kwi-kindergargarten kwaye igcine umntwana kuxinzelelo? Namhlanje sizame ukufumanisa.
Lungiselela umntwana kwangaphambili
Ngaphambi kokuba uthumele umntwana uye egadini, ngakumbi ukuba oku kuyenzeka ebomini bakhe okokuqala, lungisa igadi. Umntwana ufanele azi ukuba akukho nto imbi ngaphakathi kwegadi kwaye ingenzeki kumhlaba wayo. Ngokwenyani, sixelele ukuba yintoni anokudlala ngayo nabantwana phantse imini. Yenza ugxile kumaxesha amnandi kwaye ungazami ukoyikisa umntwana.
Mdumise umntwana
Kubalulekile ukuba ukweyisela usana ukuhayikha abancinane kunceda wayikhangelisa abadala, ngenxa yokuba abantwana becala sizama ukuba kubonakale abadala kunabo, nakuba ixesha analo lifutshane. Xa ukwinkampani yabanye abantu abadala, yenza ugxininiso kwinto yokuba umntwana sele eza kumnandi kwaye athethe ngayo ngengcinga enekratshi ukuze intembelo idluliselwe kwaye umntwana.
Kwi-kindergarten unokufumana abahlobo abahle
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Cacisa imithetho yegadi yabantwana
Yinto enye, ukuba umntwana uya kufunda yonke into kumava akhe kwiimeko zoxinzelelo, kwaye wahluke ngokupheleleyo ukuba uya kwazi kwangaphambili ukuba kukho iyure yokuthula, ukundixelela ukuba ngubani owenzayo kwi-kindergarten kwaye uxanduva lwakho Intoni. Okukhona umntwana uza kuyazi, i-walller iya kuvakalelwa, ngakumbi ukuba sithetha ngomntwana omoyikayo.
Sixelele ngempumelelo
Kwiimeko ezininzi, abantwana bangabahlobo abakhawulezileyo abangabahlobo abaneminyaka esixhenxe ubudala, ngoko ke ukuvuselela umntwana, ngoko nangoko umntwana okufumana abahlobo abatsha abanokuba luncedo oluhle kakhulu kwiimpatho ezimnandi ekuseni. Nangona kunjalo, kukho abantwana abangafuniyo ukunxibelelana, kule meko kunyanzelekile ukuba bacacisele umntwana ukuba yonke into izakulunga kwaye abantwana bafuna ngokwenene ukudibana naye kwaye benze abahlobo.
Chaza ukuba ngubani utitshala
Kubantu abaninzi, utitshala ubonakala ku-anti ongumnye umntu, awawumlalayo umama, kwaye uya kubuya okanye angaziwa. Kubalulekile ukuba uthethe nomntwana kwaye uxele ukuba utitshala ubandakanyeke kwi-kindergarten, njengoko unokuqhagamshelana naye kunye nento enokubuzwa. Chaza kwakhona ukuba kuba abantwana kwiqela labaninzi, utitshala akanakukwazi ukunikela ingqalelo kuye ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ke ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka alinde de kube ukhululwe.