Uninzi lwabasetyhini bazigqala bodwa. Banentembelo nje yokuba bonke ubomi bakhe bube bodwa. Ngapha koko, bona ngokwabo babeka umnqamlezo kubomi babo. Ukuba uhlala nengxelo ongenzi mntu, ke yonke into iya kuba njalo!
Ngokukhawuleza ndifuna ukwenza ugxininiso kwinto yokuba ungazibizi ukuba ulilolo. Ukhululekile, hayi wedwa. Imeko yesizungu luxinzelelo oluqhubekayo, ukungazithandi ngokwabo. Imeko yenkululeko kukuzithemba, umnqweno wokuthatha ubomi obulungileyo, uthando ngobomi ngokubanzi. Ke ngoko, susa ufakelo lwengqondo ukuba ulilolo. Konke oke ukuba ubuzibuze umbuzo ngaphezulu kwesinye: "Kutheni le nto unethamsanqa, kodwa andi?" Mhlawumbi andizukunika impendulo kulo mbuzo. Kodwa ndingatsho ngokuqinisekileyo: Ukuba kukho ingxaki - kukho isigqibo sakhe!
Iphi ingcambu yengxaki? Uye waqaphela ukuba ngamanye amaxesha le ntombazana ayisiyo mbono ibalaseleyo yonwabile ebomini bakhe kwaye akukho sohlwayo esivela ebantwini? Kwaye ubusuku obuhle kunye nobusuku obuhle kunye nobusuku buvakala emqamelo kukungabikho kothando. Inyani yokuba isisombululo sazo zonke iingxaki sihlala ngaphakathi kuthi, kusenokwenzeka ukuba sele uvile kwiingcali ezahlukeneyo zengqondo. Kwaye onke amacebiso abonakala ethandwa ngu, uqiniseke, susa ubunzima 'kwaye ke ... Ngaba ukhe wavuma ukuba ewe. Kodwa le ayisiyonto iphambili .
Njengengcali yeParapsyChologilogist kwaye kanye njengendoda ndiya kuyivula imfihlelo yakho kuwe: umfazi yeyona nto iphambili - eli ngamandla akhe ebhinqileyo. Kum e-ofisini kuhlala kuza nengxaki efanayo yentombazana, entle kakhulu, imnandi kunxibelelwano, kodwa akukho mandla mabhinqa kubo. Kwaye ndiyaqonda: Le yingcambu yeengxaki zabo. Singazithemba izithembiso zethu, ukuqeqesha i-gait kwaye siyikhetha ngeempazamo zexesha elidlulileyo, kodwa ayizukukunceda. Amandla avela ngaphakathi, evela emphefumlweni uqobo. Isiseko semo yesetyhini sithandana. Kumandla akhe okuba nexhala, ixhala, uvelwano ngomnye umntu. Intliziyo yobufazi ayikho kwiingubo ezintle, kodwa kwicandelo lokomoya.
Umfazi othinjiweyo uya kutsala umntu onesidima
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Umfazi obhinqileyo - hlaziya kwaye uzolile. Ayifanelanga ukuba nexhala kwaye lonke ubundlongondlongo ngakumbi. Ukukwazi ukuthemba abantu kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba ukrokrela wonke umntu kwinto embi, akukho mntu uya kukukholelwa. Funda ukumamela, unxibelelane, ugcine iimfihlo. Ukungakhathali kovuyo, uncumo kunye nonxibelelwano olulula luya kukunika amandla obhinqileyo. Inkululeko ikunika ithuba lokuthatha isigqibo sokuba loluphi uhlobo lwendoda ofuna ukuyibona ecaleni kwakho.
Kwangoko ndiza kuthi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ndizihlole ngokuchanekileyo kunye nezicelo zakho. Kufuneka senze inkqubo yengqondo ngokwakho ukuba sidibane nendoda kwisangqa sakho sentlalontle. Kananjalo ayinakuphakanyiswa kubudala bayo. Kukho abafazi abanoloyiko olukhulu ngenxa yokuba bengama-34, kwaye ubomi obuqu abukhuli. Baqinisekile ukuba abadingi nakubani na nakubani na, kwaye kuthintele ukuba baphumle kwaye banandiphe ubomi. Khumbula ukuba ube ngumntu owonwabileyo kwaye ufumane uthando lwakho ngokuqinisekileyo nangaliphi na ubudala. Ngelixa ukhululekile, sebenzisa ixesha lokuphila ngokwakho. Sukuzikhanyeza nantoni na, zenze izinto ozithandayo kwaye uncume rhoqo. Umfazi wasimahla - umfazi owonwabileyo. Kwaye umfazi owonwabileyo uya kutsala umntu onesidima.