Khawufane ucinge ababini ofunda nabo esigqibile esikolweni. Enye ayikhuli. Okwesibini kuhlala kuchwayitile, ifuna ukuba ngcono kunayizolo. Yintoni eyahlula kubo omnye komnye? Kuyinyani- umntu osoloko ephucula, uyazi kakuhle ukuba kutheni kunjalo. Ukuze sikwazi ukuzikhusela- sixoxa namhlanje.
1. Usukelo lweenjongo
Ndifuna - ndifumene. Le mfundo ihambelana nomntu obomi oqhubeka nophuhliso kunye nobuchule bayo. Uyayazi into enokwazi kakhulu. Uqinisekisile ukuba wayengaphezulu kwesinye kwaye ukulungele ukwenza okungaphezulu nokuba yintoni. Ukufezekisa iinjongo kuba sisisa esakha, kungenjalo ngesenzo esithile. Ixesha elingaphezulu, iinjongo zalo ziya zisiba ngakumbi, zibonelela ngamathuba amatsha okukhula.
2. Ukuba ngumzekelo
Izazinzulu ziqinisekisile ukuba umzekelo ophilayo uqhuba ngokufanelekileyo kunokuqeqeshwa kwethiyori. Nabani na mnandi xa ujikelezwe ngumntu ofuna ngcono. Kwaye nangona ephucuka ngokuzilungiselela ngokwakhe, uyayiqonda le ndlela enye indlela okanye omnye ngomzekelo wakhe, angayiqondi. Khawufane ucinge ukuba zeziphi iziphumo zabasebenzi, oogxa, abahlobo okanye abantwana bomntu onjalo bafikelelwa. Kwanangoku kuthatha inxaxheba kwakhe kwangoko ekukhuleni kwabo!
I-Ekaterina Shirshikova, umqeqeshi, e-WANGOTARAPY
3. I-Command
Umntu osebenza kuye uvulekile kwaye unomdla. Uqeqesho kunye neekhosi ezikwi-Intanethi zityelelwa rhoqo. Akunakwenzeka ukuba ukhe wambona umntu ofikelele ubomi obuninzi, kodwa akazange azisebenzele kubo. Umntu onjalo ukwindawo ethembisa abantu abanjalo. Le ndawo abayidalayo bayidala. Oku asikuphela nje ukwanda kwesangqa sonxibelelwano, kodwa nenkxaso kubantu abanentliziyo efanayo.
4. Imali
Ukuphuhlisa rhoqo, umntu oguqukayo ngotshintsho olungcono. Uyaguquguquka, afumane imikhwa emitsha kwaye ahlukane noloyiko kunye nokuhenyuza. Kwaye ukuba kuthatha isakhono esitsha sokunyusa umvuzo, kuya kuyenza ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngaphandle kokuxhathisa. Abo basebenzi okanye amaqabane ayaxabiswa kakhulu. Kwaye enkosi ngomnqweno wakhe wokuba ngcono zilungiselele ngomgangatho ophezulu wokuphila.
5. Imincili engapheliyo
Iimpawu ezintsha zokuba nawuphina umntu ovula ngendlela ephambili, evuselela umdla omtsha. Le yinkqubo engenasiphelo elungele ubomi kunye neziganeko, impembelelo kunye namava amatsha. Ngenxa yemidla eyahlukeneyo, umntu uhlala kwilizwi elipheleleyo. Kwaye impilo yakhe ihlala isebenza kwizixhobo. Ukuba akunjalo-Uyayazi indlela yokuhlangabezana nayo.
Qala ukusebenza ngokwakho akunakuphela. Yenza inyathelo lokuqala namhlanje, kwaye uya kuba nombulelo ngayo kwixesha elizayo.