Ukuzama ukuxhaphaza ngokusondeleyo, amadoda kunye nabasetyhini bangatshabalalisa ubudlelwane babo. Mininzi imizekelo yokuziphatha okunjalo kuncwadi, umzekelo, kwi "Bhola yewaka nobusuku", apho umfazi asebenzisa ububele bakhe ukusindisa ubomi.
Ukuba uyakhula kwiinkqubo zembali, uya kuqaphela ukuba abantu basebenzise isohlwayo ukuze bafumane imali, abasemagunyeni, kunye nokutshintsha iintshaba zabo.
Abathengi be-psychotherapists bachitha kakhulu abantu ngabona bantu baphila bonke ubomi babo. Kwisikolo esiPhezulu, umfundi ofunda naye wanika iimpawu zokubhalwa, okufanayo uqhubeka kwiZiko. Xa umntu onjalo ekhula, utshatisa umfazi onikezela ngesondo ofuna izinto ozifunayo, nokuba sisipho okanye uhlobo oluthile lomyeni.
Umntu unokuva ubunzima kwimpembelelo yabanye abantu ebomini
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Kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuba ucinge ukuba kuphela amadoda ahlupheka: Umfazi uhlala echukunyiswa. Umzekelo, emva kokuxabana, indoda izama ukutsala umfazi ukuba ulale kunye nabo bonke imikhosi yabo, ngaloo ndlela kuncitshiswa isidanga, ngaloo ndlela kunciphisa isidanga, ngaloo ndlela kuncitshiswa isidanga, ukunika umfazi ukuba alibale isizathu sokuxabana, okanye okhokelela kumzekelo wabafazi bakhe bangaphambili , ngenxa yokuba iqabane lakhe langoku liziva lingakhuselekanga kwaye liya kuzo zonke iimeko.
Ukuqhekeka kwayo nayiphi na indlela yakhe kuhlala kuyiyonakalisa ubudlelwane. Nangona kunjalo, inani lezibini eliqhelisela indlela enjalo aliba ngaphantsi.
Injongo yako nakuphi na ukungabi nalukhuni kukwenza buthathaka intando yeqabane, emva koko isebenzise ubuthathaka bayo. Kwiintloko zabantu bethu, ufakelo luhlala luqinile ukuba kufuneka ube ngumfazi ofanelekileyo / umyeni, kungenjalo unokuphulukana nothando, ube yinto yokugculelwa. Kwaye oku kuthetha ukuba, umntu "kufuneka" angqinelane. Eli qhinga lisebenza kubafazi kunye namadoda anophawu olubuthathaka kwaye aya.
Sixhomekeke kakhulu kwizimvo zoluntu.
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Kwangelo xesha, i-magilator iyamazi "idini" lakhe: Phicodle phi ukuba uza kuyithetha njani into oyifunayo. Ngokwesiqhelo lo mntu wasongela, umchasi wakhe unikezelwa, efuna ukusombulula imeko kunye nomthonyama, kwaye emva koko i-mailliture inika ukhetho lwayo - oko wayekufuna ngokwakhe.
YINTONI XA UQHELEKILE
Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba balixhoba le-wipilator, ukuba baqale, bathathe isigqibo ngendima yakho kubudlelwane bakho. Qinisa ukuba uthatha inxaxheba ngokupheleleyo kubudlelwane kunye neminqweno yakho kunye neemfuno, kwaye ke akukho mntu unelungelo lokunyanzela imida yakho, kwaye unelungelo lokwabelana ngesondo kanye njengoko iqabane lakho lenza lona.
Unelungelo lokuthatha isigqibo sokuba uza kuba nakuphi na ukulala naye
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Sukucinga ukuba onke amadoda abona ukuba ubuchule njengenjongo yobomi. Mhlawumbi indoda yakho yayineengxaki emsebenzini okanye nabahlobo. Yeka ukukhathazeka kwaye uyalila i-sly, thatha nje kwaye uthethe neqabane. Ukuba izenzo zakhe azizi nto, ke unawo onke amathuba okuseka ubudlelwane kwaye uphume kwimeko yexhoba. Nangona kunjalo, kwimeko apho uqala ukucinezela ngokuziphatha, kwaye yinto rhoqo, cinga ngayo, kwaye ngaba ufuna ubudlelwane obuxhomekeke kubo?