Uqhawulo-mtshato luhlala luyinkqubo enzima kwiqela ngalinye. Kweli nqanaba lobomi, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungazenzi iimpazamo ezinokuthi zichaphazele abantwana bakho ababelana nabo kwaye ngokubanzi yenza ukuba ixesha elinzima ngakumbi. Siza kuxela ngento ebalulekileyo ukukhumbula xa uqonda ukuba usapho alusagcinwanga.
Sukuthatha ityala
Enye yezona mpazamo zidumileyo zasetyhini ngexesha, kwaye emva koqhawulo-mtshato, kukubekwa ityala kwinto eyenzekayo kuphela. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba wakha ubudlelwane kunye, okuthetha uxanduva losapho lulele kuwo omabini amaqabane. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba yintoni eza kubudlelwane bakho hayi njengomnye wakho bobabini badlalwa koku. Yiba nenjongo kwaye uyeke ukutyhobolela zonke ngokwakho, ngakumbi ukuba unabo abantwana ekunzima ukubona umama ohlala kwimozulu eyaneleyo.
Sukujonga ukunxibelelana ngokusisigxina
Abasetyhini abahlangabezana nemvakalelo kwiqabane abanakuthatha nje kwaye baphule ubudlelwane obuphelise ngaphezulu konyaka. Njengomthetho, yonke into iqala ngeefowuni. Ibhinqa linokuzama ngokuthe ngcembe ukuzama ukwenza indoda, emva koko uzive kufutshane noBukho bakhe, ubuncinci ngeefowuni kunye nemiyalezo. Ngokwenyani, uqwalasela kuphela iqabane langaphambili ngokwakho, qonda ukuba ukususela ngoku, ngamnye kuni uqhubeka ngendlela yakho.
Fumana amandla ukuba "asebenzise iphepha"
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Yeka iqabane langaphambili
Ngokweenkcukacha-manani, iipesenti ezingama-60 zoqhawulo-mtshato zenzeka ngenxa yokuba elinye lamaqabane lifumana umntu omtsha ngobudlelwane. Kwisiqingatha sesibini, ngakumbi kumfazi, iba sisibetho esikhulu. Uninzi lwabafazi abade alusakwazi ukujamelana neemvakalelo, kwaye ke ngoko ukubhuka kwehlabathi uqala kumyeni wangaphambili: Uvavanyo lwemihla ngemihla lweenethiwekhi zentlalo, umhlobo ufuna ukufunda iinkcukacha ngakumbi. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba emva koqhawulo-mtshato Unethuba lokuqalisa ubomi kwiphepha elicocekileyo, kutheni uchithe isibonelelo esixabisekileyo sokudinwa kwemikhosi yasekhaya kunye nesifo esiqhubekayo kwiqabane lakho lothando. Nje "vula iphepha".
Sukwakha ixhoba
Ukukhangela kweentsilelo zomyeni wangaphambili awukuki kwaye akunike ngecala elingenamntu. Ihlala yenzeka rhoqo ukuba lo mfazi uqalise ukubonisa kubo bonke abaqhelekileyo, ngokungathi yindleko ngokungafanelekanga, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha akunandaba nokuba ngubani ongumqalisi, ixhoba libalulekile ukuba lenza uvelwano ngaphandle kweemeko. Fumana amandla okubulela umyeni wangaphambili kuwo onke amaxesha amnandi owaye nawo kunye, kwaye ungene kwiqabane lakho elaziyo, mhlawumbi iqabane lakho elizayo liya kuba yikamva lakho.