Eyona nto imbi kukuba umzimba wethu "uyayithetha ukongeza kwintando yethu-ngentloko ephuma kwiingcinga zethu zangaphakathi kunye neminqweno eyimfihlo. Izimbo zomzimba wethu ezingafezekanga kwaye zihambahamba ziyimiqondiso eyenziwe ngendalo esithumela ngokungazi. Obo bangqongileyo baqondakala kwaye babuza kubo, nabo kwinqanaba elingenaxabiso. Ezi zizinto nje zokuqonda ngequbuliso, ngamanye amaxesha zithi "i-intuition", "Thanda Ngaphambi kokuKhangela", "ukwala ukungasebenzi kakuhle", njl njl. Yiyo le nto iinkonzo ezikhoyo zihlala zisebenza ngononophelo, zitsala ezona ngcalinya zibalaseleyo. Xa ulungiselela "iiarhente 007", bafundiswe kungekuphela nje ekuthinjweni, kodwa nangokusebenza ngokweempawu ze-bodyly kwinto echaziweyo. Apha sinokwazi olunjalo ewe ngaphambili! Ke, zeziphi izinto ezenzekayo kwicandelo lolwimi lomzimba asinike oochwephesha bengqondo kunye noochwephesha?
Chaza. Uhlala ubona umntu onomdla kulo okanye onxibelelana rhoqo, umzekelo, emsebenzini. Ungathanda ukwazi ngakumbi ngakumbi, kodwa ungayiqondi indlela asebenza ngayo kuwe. Apha usengqiqweni: Ngaba kufanelekile ukwenza inyathelo lokuqala? Ngaba kukhona ubudlelwane obusondeleyo? Kuthekani ukuba awumthandi (yena), kodwa unxibelelana ngokukhethekileyo kwimbeko? I-ALI, Rhoqo inyathelo lokuqala alwenzi nto - ukuba nje uloyiko luyaliwe. Ukuthatha ithuba le-crib yethu, ungaqonda ukuba umhle na kwinto yakho, nokuba awukabize ndawonye.
Iimpawu zabasetyhini. Ke, unethuba lokuba emehlweni akho nenekazi ...
Isongelwe. Kule ngcinga yemeko ethile, iintshukumo ezincinci zinokubandakanya - njengempahla ebiyibolekayo, iinwele ezilungisiweyo, zihambisa uthuli olungapheliyo. Ukuba, ukonwabele, umfazi uqalisa ukuzichukumisa ngenkuthalo iinwele zakhe (umzekelo, ehlome i-curl emnwe) - amathuba akho ayaphakama. Ukuchukumisa iinwele ezingacacanga-uphawu lokutsala okuqinileyo.
"I-Warts" wena. Ngokwemvelo, kunokwenzeka kuphela ukuba ubuncinci uqhelene. Izimbo zomzimba "Oonogada" okanye "Abanini" bacwangciselwe kwiDNA yomfazi ngamnye kwaye ekuqaleni ebethwe kwinzala. Ngokwemvelo, ebomini bakhe, umfazi akasisebenzisanga nje emntwaneni, kodwa nakwabo bangenangqondo. Ukuba inenekazi lilungisa i-tie, ityhila isikhafu, isula ijacket okanye ihlambulula iinwele zakho- vuya! Ukwenza isiko lemivalo yohlobo, njengoko bekuya kukutshata, njengommandla wayo, ngaloo ndlela becinga ngezinto.
Izama emlonyeni. Ngayiphi na indlela-incam yomnwe, ukukhonkxa imilebe okanye indawo yokuhlala yepensile yepensile. Zonke ezi zibonisa ukuba umdla wakhe kuwe akanabuhlobo nje.
Imilebe kancinane. I-Foriology eqinileyo! Ngexesha lobuso obusondeleyo kwimilebe, ngenxa yabo kumbulelo, baya ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye ubukho bento yomdla ngokuzenzekelayo buqhutywa emzimbeni womfazi ukufika ngendlela efanayo. Isiphumo: Ekuboneni kwakho, imilebe yakhe iyavuleka kwaye ivulekile ngokucacileyo.
Ukubetha amagxa. Ukuba ukubetha kucotha kwaye kuvakala imvakalelo, ayiyonto ngaphandle komnqweno wayo ongaziyo ukutsala ingqalelo yakho esifubeni sakho. Ewe kunjalo, oku kunokuba ngumsitho kuphela onomdla kuyo njengeqabane elinokubakho.
Igutyungelwe yiblush. Oku ayikukwenza kanye oko. Kanye xa kukho into ekhulayo, iqondo lobushushu lomzimba linyuka. Imiyalezo enokubonakaliswa kwimbonakalo yebrashi okanye kumachaphaza amancinci okubiyela (uhlobo lweSpain) ebusweni. Cinga ngoku: Ukuba kunjalo, lo mfazi phantse akho.
Imiqondiso yamadoda. Ukuba emehlweni akho ...
Imodeli torso. Esi bulumko sithetha ukuba umntu "wakhela" isikhundla somzimba wakhe kuwe ngendlela ethile. Ukuba awunamdla kuye kwisicwangciso esihle, uqhubeke ityholo kwicala lakho kwaye umbonakalise. Ngamanye amagama, ukuba iphupha lakhe - wena, i-pelvis yakhe kunye nesifuba iya kutyhilwa kuwe, nokuba amehlo akhe ajonge kwelinye icala. Kwakhona, ngokungathangaliyo ukuzama ukubonakala kunomtsalane, le ndoda itsala isisu kwaye ityhila isifuba.
I-Glides ukujonga. Ukuba, ngexesha lengxoxo, jonga ngokuphindaphindiweyo emehlweni akho ukuya emlonyeni kwaye ubuyele emehlweni kwakhona- lo luphawu lokutsala okuqinileyo kakhulu.
Uncumo, thamba intloko yakhe. Ke indoda enqabileyo ibonisa eyona icala, icala elisengozini, elindele uncumo lokuvuma. Esi senzo sinokuthathwa njengombuzo obonakalayo: Ngaba ndiyakuthanda? Ngaba ukulungele ukundithanda?
Ii-nods. Imovie ngokwayo ayinasiseko sesondo. Umbuzo ngobungakanani. Ukuba umntu ungowamntu kuwo onke amazwi, kwenzeke kuye ngokungazi. Kwaye iphakamisa ukuba umbuzo womtsalane wakho sele uthathikele isigqibo kakuhle. Ke ii-nods.
Ukuzama ukukuchukumisa. Coca iinwele zihamba ngamehlo. Xa incoko, ingazinzanga igubungela intende yakho. Ukuvula ucango phambi kwakho, kukuthatha ngaphezulu kwengalo ngaphezulu kwe-elbow okanye uphume emagxeni ... ukusetyenziswa kwalo naluphi na uhlobo lokuchukumisa, luphawu lokuba umntu ufuna ukuya kulwalamano olusondeleyo.
Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zazo zombini izini zibonakalisa uvelwano. Ukwandiswa kwabafundi. Ukuba i-gaze kwezinye iimeko inokuthetha umdla kuwe njengomntu ngokubanzi, lo mqondiso yikhulu leepesenti. Ukuba, xa ujonga, abafundi beVezavi bakho bayanda, umnxibelelanisi akakhathali. Ukwandiswa kwabafundi kukuphendula ngokuzithandela kuza kwi-cortex yengqondo.
Iintsiba zokunciphisa. Akuzange kube kudala kudala kuqatshelwe ukuba abathandi balungile. Xa sibona umntu esimthandayo, iimpawu zobuso bethu ziyatyhafiswa ngokuzithandela, ziba nomtsalane ngakumbi. Imigca ebukhali inyamalala, kwaye amehlo ayabetha. Kwakhona uphawu olucacileyo lokutsala uncumo olukuyo. Mhlawumbi, siqaphele ukuba: ngohlobo lwento enovelwano, umlomo wethu ngokwawo uyolule iindlebe.
Ukupholisa. Ukuba umnxibelelanisi uthandana ngokudibeneyo kutshintsho kwimbonakalo yobuso bakho kunye neentshukumo zakho ngokuxelisa okungaphantsi komhlaba, ithi okanye ufuna nyani. Indoda ebona uvelwano, ngokwemvelo izama 'ukubamba inqatha "lento yakhe kwaye lingene kuye. Oko kukuthi, ukuba okwangoku ngenxa yesizathu silusizi okanye sinobunzima, umntu ocwangcisiweyo kuwe akasayi kuhleka kakhulu, ukukhwela i-jokes okanye ukuzama ukukukhuphela ngohlobo lweengxaki.
Ulawulo. Ibizwa ngokuba yimiqobo yomzimba-uphawu lokungabi naluvelwano kunye nokungafuni ukwazi ukunxibelelana. Ukubamba imiqondiso evela kwabanye, kuba ngcono kubashiya bodwa - abakho kuwe. Kwaye uzilawule: Ungayikhupheli imvakalelo yakho ngaphandle kwesidingo.
Kuthatha inkangeleko. Ukuba amandla okukhula kwezi mbono abonisa umtsalane, ke ukungabikho kwawo kubonakalisa ngokucacileyo ukunxibelelana okubonakalayo. Ngamafutshane, kwabeka ngabom kwinto yakho yokubona i-Eloging ngaphandle kwako konke ukuvuma okungathandekiyo.
Ibambe into esifubeni. Ukuba, ngexesha lengxoxo nawe, i-vesati yakho ibambe phakathi kwakho nasiphi na into (umzekelo, iglasi, umnxeba, ifowuni, icuba, icuba), isuswe imiqobo eyakhiweyo. Lo mbandela wenzelwe ukumkhusela ekunxibelelaneni nawe. Ewe, musa ukunyanzela ...
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