Indoda ene-polygamous-intaka yasimahla ene-lizedo elisempilweni. Ibhinqa le-Polygamy-ekhethekileyo ngoxanduva olusezantsi lwentlalo. Kodwa bonke kwihlabathi lanamhlanje bayatshintsha ngesantya esingazange senzeke ngaphambili, kwaye, kubonakala ngathi iziseko ezisisiseko zitshintshile.
Kwacingelwa ukuba abafazi abasindileyo bangabafazi abangagqibekanga, kuba bangabagcini bentliziyo kwaye banyanzelekile ukuba bathembeke kwiqabane labo, bahlale ngefestile.
Kodwa ngaba kukho igalari yomfazi, ukuba ungaya kwiintloko zabasetyhini kwiintloko zabasetyhini?
Ndiqinisekile ukuba "indoda enye yobomi" sisicombululo esingenabangelwa lilungu lomzimba, kodwa liqhagamshelwe ngokukodwa kunye noxinzelelo lwentlalo nemigaqo, njengoko saziyo, labhalwa ngamadoda. Kwimithetho yezi - "yazi indawo yakho, umfazi." Kwaye ndiyichaza le ndawo uyayazi ukuba ngubani.
Ngaphambili, ukuxhomekeka kuluvo loluntu kunye nenqindi likatata onguyise, othe wabetha etafileni xa kungenxa yokungathobeli, wayenamandla kunaso naziphi na izinto, iminqweno kunye nemvelo.
Eli bhinqa lalinoluhlu, elahlukileyo kwizinto zonke, wabeka imikhathi:
- Zikhathalele phambi komtshato;
-Ukhulelwe emva kokusebenza phantse kuwo onke amatyala omtshato;
-I-riga-nokuba impilo-ntle, ukukhulelwa kunye nokuzalwa kwangaphambili;
-Ukunyamekela abantwana, ekhaya kunye nomyeni.
Ukusuka kwi-ovestoes, kwingcinezelo elele emagxeni abo, ekuswelekeni kokuthintela ukukhulelwa komfazi ubeke umnqamlezo ngokwawo kwaye waqonda ukuba ungumsebenzi, umakazi kunye netyala. Uyolo lwentetho kwaye akazange ahambe. Ewe, bekukho amabhinqa ahlala ephulaphule iminqweno yalo kwaye wahamba ngendlela enganyangekiyo - ngaphandle koluntu, engcinezelo yalo, ayekhetha olwabo ulonwabo, ubume babo. Kodwa yayihlala ihlukile kwimithetho.
Amaxesha atshintshile, kwaye abafazi bavakalise amalungelo abo ngakumbi nangaphezulu. Ukubonakala kwezipiko ze-upracepti banika inkululeko kuwo wonke umntu obhinqileyo kwisiphumo esisondeleyo sesondo-ukukhulelwa, osukela ookhokho bethu.
Umfazi ngokwakhe ukhethe iqabane. Mamela iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye usenokuba sele ethetha ngezizathu zokwenyani "ezingekho lula kubalinganiswa" njengonobangela woqhawulo-mtshato-kusenziwa ukuba kubekho ngokwesondo, ukunqongophala kwesondo.
Kwaye okwangoku, njengogqirha wengqondo kunye nogqirha wezesondo, ndibona intsingiselo ebaluleke kakhulu. I-Polygamy ye-Polygamu kwifom yayo ecocekileyo yenzeka ukuba ibe ngamaxesha athile obomi bomfazi kwaye hayi kwinani elikhulu lamatyala. Kwaye apha iimpawu zethu zengqondo zendalo zinendima enkulu engakwaziyo ukulahlwa ngeeakhawunti.
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu evela ebantwini yeyona nto ibopha iqabane lakho ngokwesondo.
Ipesenti encinci yabasetyhini kuphela enokwazi ukwahlula phakathi kweemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo, ukwaneliseka ngokwasemzimbeni kulwaneliseko lokuziphatha. Ndiyayazi imeko xa singavumi ukuxolelwa ngokukhawuleza emva kokuxabana neqela, kuba ityala alizange lidlule kwaye iinkalo azizange zibeneke.
Ke, la madoda akaze asitsho ngalo mcimbi kwaye akayiqondi, kuba akukho nto ilunge ngakumbi kubo kunokulala.
Ukwahlula ngokwesondo kunye nobudlelwane, ukwabelana ngesondo kunye neemvakalelo, ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo kunye neemvakalelo kufunyanwa njengabambalwa, ngenxa yoko ulwalamano lwasimahla, luxhaswe yimpembelelo yomzimba, ayiqhelekanga kubafazi. Ewe, amadoda atshintsha ihafu yesibini kunye nabafazi, kuphela abo badla ngokubotshwa, bathabathela eluthandweni, ekugqibeleni, bahlupheke, kuba le ndoda yayingathethi nto, kwaye ayifanelanga ...
Omnye umzuzwana: Ukuba yonke into icelwe ukwenzelwa ukoneliseka yiminqweno yakho, isini, ke ngoko sazi ukuba eyona nto iphambili ivele xa i-trigger yenzekile, imvakalelo yomnye nomnye. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, i-orgasm yomfazi, ngokungafaniyo nendoda, ayisiyo nje i-mexinic nje kwaye ngaphandle kokuphinda-phinda () ayinakwenzeka nje.
Kwaye ke kuyavela kuphela ukuba iqhume kuphela kwimvakalelo yenkululeko, kwaye konke, hayi ukoneliseka yinjongo, kodwa singathethi nge-monogamy, kodwa apha kungcono ukuba usebenze nengqondo yengqondo, kunokuba ubandakanyeke kugqithiselo lwamaqabane.
Ngokucacileyo inye into-kuba i-US ibalulekile ngokwesini kunye namadoda. Abafazi baphuma kwinkolelo yesidumbu, ukugwetywa, iimvakalelo zomsebenzi kunye nokuthobela okungaboniyo iminyaka emininzi yezinto. Ngaba kubi? Ngaba kulungile? Ibhinqa ngalinye linelungelo lokuzicombulula, mangaphi amahlakani anayo, indlela yokuzikhetha kwaye aphile nabantu abangazihlangabezi iimfuno zakhe okanye bafumana eyona ndlela ifanelekileyo kuyo. Kwaye le nkululeko iyabiza.