Imeko yosapho, ubudlelwane babazali omnye komnye kunye nabantwana, kunye nokukhula kwabo - sisiseko sobomi bomntu obekwe ebuntwaneni. Ekwakheni usapho lwakho, sisekwe kumava eezalamane zethu kunye nabantu obathandayo, ngoko ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukubeka ezona zinto "zininzi" zobubele, ukuthembana kunye nothando emntwaneni. Iincwadi ezininzi ze-Psychology zibhalwa kwesi sihloko, kodwa mntu ngamnye unamava onyuko, yahlukile. Njengombono malunga nokukhuliswa ngokufanelekileyo. I-Star Mammies Regina Todorenko, Tutta Larsen kunye ne-Nelli yermolaeva zabelana nababhalisi babo.
I-regina todorenko
Umzekeliso weTV odumileyo kunye neBlogger Regina Todorenko yaba ngumama ekupheleni kuka-2018. Unyana wam kunye nomyeni wakhe uVlad Topalov wanika igama iIkhail, igama nguMikayeli. Umama oselula uyavuma ukuba unendlela yayo yokukhulisa indlalifa. Umzekelo, mntwana utshanje waba nomdla kwifowuni yomzali. URurina "njengomama onenkathalo" akazange anike unyana wakhe igajethi, woyike ukuze umntwana angabinakho ukuqwalaselwa. Nangona kunjalo, ukucamngca, kwatshintshe imbono yawo. Uye waqonda ukuba, ukuba ibiya kumnqanda unyana wakhe odlala ngefowuni, iya komeleza umdla kuye. Emva koko intombazana ngokwayo yacebisa ukudlala umntwana, echaza indlela yokusebenzisa le gadget. Njengokuba kwakuyiqonda kakuhle uMichael, kwakuyinto, umdla wakhe ngokuthe ngcembe wancipha, waza watshintsha kwezinye izinto.
"Iingcali zengqondo kuzo zonke iityhubhu ezinobubi obuyingozi ezichaphazela kakubi i-pedid yomntwana ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye kubonakala kum, ububi yiyo yonke loo nto iphela !!! Ngokubanzi, abaninzi bayagwetywa ngenxa yokuba akukho sithintelo sonyana wethu, kodwa isisichazi sam silula- ndivunyelwe ukuba sisasaze iithoyi kwaye ndibavumele ukuba bawaqokelele "(upelo kunye neziphumlisi zababhali balondolozwe, - I-APPERS.
Nelli Emmolaeva
Umamkeli weTV odumileyo, umfazi wasemashishini kunye nelungu langaphambili leprojekthi "dom-2" uNelli Jermolaeva wazala ngokwamazibulo ngo-2018. Inkwenkwe entle ivele kwiLizwe, abazali babizwa ngokuba yiMiron. Ngoku umama oselula ubeka iifoto kunye nevidiyo kunye nonyana wakhe, ethetha ngobomi bakhe bemihla ngemihla kunye neyakhe yonke imihla kunye nomntwana kunye nezabelana nabantu beendlela zokukhuliswa, ezabelwe bona ngeli xesha.
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, ndijongane nelly, le yimbambano yothando nge-chad yakho, ukunxibelelana nomzimba, ukwanga, ukugcoba, kunye namagama athi "ndiyakuthanda." Uyavuma ukuba wayengaphumi ebuntwaneni kangangokuba olona nyango lwabantu kunye nokubonakalisa isisa. Umzekeliso weTV unamathela kwisikhundla sokuba umntwana okhuliswe kwimozulu enjalo uza kuphatha uthando kubo bonke ubomi kwaye kuya kuba lula ukuba anike abantwana bakhe bekamva.
Okwesibini, iNkwenkwezi ithi, kubalulekile ukudumisa abantwana ngokuphumelela nokunceda indlu, mncinci. Uqinisekile ukuba umntwana akasayi kuphangwa koku, ngokuchaseneyo, uya kuyinika inkuthazo eyimfuneko yokuzimela kunye nezinto ezilungileyo.
Kwaye, okwesithathu, i-Ermolaevackergerical ayisamkeli isohlwayo kunye nokukhwaza. Ukholelwa ukuba ngenxa yolwalamano olunjalo, umntwana unokuzivalela ngokwakhe, uya koyika abazali kwaye akazukuziva ezolile kusapho.
Tutta larnin
Intatheli eyaziwayo kunye ne-tv rimenter tutta larch ngumama omkhulu - uphakamisa abantwana abathathu. Phakane, uLuka, ngenye imini yayineminyaka eli-15 ubudala. Intombi yam isayiminyaka eli-9 ubudala, kwaye oyena nonyana omncinci yi-WE-4 iminyaka. I-Tatiana (igama lokwenyani lenkanyezi - i-Act.) Izabelo rhoqo kwi "Instagram" ngamabali avela kubomi bakhe. Rhoqo iphakamisa umxholo wokukhula, uxoxa ngayo ngababhalisi. Inkwenkwezi inezithuba ezininzi kubudlelwane babantwana nabazali.
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukuba mna TOTTA, "Awusoze ubethe, ukhwaze nayiphi na indlela yokuthoba abantwana (ethe tye, ukuthula).
"Ukubetha abantwana-ulwaphulo-mthetho ... ndithetha ngesohlwayo njengesixhobo sempembelelo emntwaneni. Iyintoni inqaku lesohlwayo? Hlaziya? Cinga? Ukuvalwa? Ukuziphindezela Ngokuziphatha kakubi? Akunjalongo noko! Siyabathanda abantwana bethu. Sifuna ukubafundisa! Ke, baqonda into, utshilo uLarsen. Eyona nto iphambili kukucacisa umntwana iziphumo ezithile zezenzo, ukufundisa uxanduva.
Enye inqaku elibalulekileyo lomzekeliso weTV lunxibelelwano nabantwana ngokulinganayo. Uyavuma ukuba ukuba abantwana bambuza ngento "yabantu abadala", akasayi kuyishiya impendulo, kodwa azama ukucacisa umntwana, kunjalo, ngendlela efumaneka kuye. Ukholelwa ukuba ukwakha ubudlelwane kunye nomntwana kuyasebenza njengomntu okhulileyo.
Enye inqaku elibalulekileyo kwimfundo yimfundiso yokuzimela. Kubandakanya malunga nokuzonwabisa. Kusapho lomzekeliso weTV, "abazali ababonwabisi abantwana." Ewe kunjalo, banokuhlangana kwaye badlale imidlalo yeBhodi kunye, bafunde ngokuvakalayo, babukele ifilimu, kodwa ayihambi ngokuhlala evelisa izifundo ezahlukeneyo. "Uxanduva kunye no-Adulties uqala ngale nto: Okokuqala, umntwana ufunda ukuba uyazonwabisa, emva koko asebenze, emva koko afundele kubo, njl .. ..