"Ukusuka kuncumo kuya kuba kukukhanya konke!" -Sikhumbuli eli binzana kwikhathuni ukusukela ebuntwaneni. Kodwa njengoko imeko yendlela elungileyo yenzeka ebomini bethu kwiminyaka embalwa eyadlulayo. Ukuba ngaphambili oko bekungaqwalaselwanga ukuba kuvunywa ukuba kulila ubomi obunzima kwaye babelane ngeengxaki nabahlobo, ngoku phantse i-interness - ukuthatha i-gorder yamagxa. Yintoni efihlayo imaski kaGuiinPlane, kuhlala kukho isibonelelo semvakalelo eyakhayo, indlela yokuphucula imeko yakho yemvakalelo kwaye isebenze ukuze ifumane isibonelelo- Siza kuzama ukufumanisa.
Ngexesha lobuntwana bam, umbono oqinisekileyo "awusekho, abantu abachwayitileyo babizwa ngokuba ngamalungelo, abachaseneyo - ii-pussimorists, mhlophe. Awu, umzekelo womntu wam osondeleyo-moms - usete nje ukuba akukho nto yenzekayo kwaye ayikwazanga. Nokuba kukuphola kwabo kudanduluka ngokugqithisileyo, okanye ukulumkela ngokugqithisileyo, "ukhula" naziphi na iigusha: "Ngubani na ongayi kuzama!". Kwimeko, njengommiselo, waxela kwangaphambili uhlobo olubi kakhulu luphuhliso. Kwaye - Ewe, yena oyena mntu wayenolusizi, wasoloko efumana ukungafezeki kwakhe kwihlabathi langaphandle.
Ewe kunjalo, esi sikhundla sibangele ukwaliwa. Mhlawumbi, kwaye udadewethu wayenokuthe cwaka, kodwa oku akwenzekanga. Ngokuchasene noko, yonke loo mizamo yayijolise ekuqinisekiseni indlela umama engalunganga ngayo. "Ayizukusebenza? -Ndiya kwenza! "Akukho mntu ulindileyo? - Kulungile, siya kubona. " Ndicinga ukuba izinto ezityumkileyo kunye ne-adventures enobungozi ebomini bam ziya kuba ngaphantsi ukuba andikwazi ukuxhathisa uluvo olubi kakhulu.
Umntu ocingayo
Iyaqonda ukuba yonke into ebomini sisiphumo sokhetho kunye nezisombululo. Ke ngoko, ayifungi idemon kwaye ayikhalazi. Ayigxili kwiimpazamo zakhe. Njengoko uHenry Ford wathetha, ukusilela kukukwazi ukuqala yonke into kwakhona, sele inobulumko kuphela. Ukuba udiniwe - phumla! Kuyaqonda ukuba kuyo nayiphi na imeko kuya kubakho amaxesha anokusongelwa ngokulungileyo. Ukukhetha indalo esikhuthaza. Indalo yonke yinto evakalayo ephendula ukukhutshwa kwakho amandla. Ukuba wenza okuhle kwaye ukhanyiso, baya kubuyela kuwe ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
I-Napoleon ye-Napoleon
Ndicinga ukuba uninzi lwethu luvumelana nokubona ubomi kunye neziganeko ezizayo kwiqhosha elibi-elingenasiphelo. Ukungakholelwa nokuba izikhalazo zihluthwa amandla e-US kunye nemikhosi, khuthaza ukungasebenzi. Esi sisiphelo esifileyo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba yonke into imbi, kungcono ungaqali konke konke. UDale Carnegie wayengowokuqala ukuthwala umbono "wokucinga okuqinisekileyo" kwindawo kawonke-wonke. "Ulonwabo aluxhomekeki kwiimeko zangaphandle. Kuxhomekeka kwiimeko zomyalelo wangaphakathi. Uyonwabile okanye ungonwabi ngenxa yokuba unayo, kwaye ungakhange udibane nobani, apho ukhoyo okanye wenza ntoni; Ubhale wathi, "Imeko yakho igqitywe yile ucinga ngayo yonke le nto," watsho indlela yokuzoyisa abahlobo kwaye enefuthe kubantu "," indlela yokuyeka ukuzixhalabisa "kwaba yidesktop kubantu abaninzi.
Waqhubeka wavelisa le mbono uNapoleon Hill. Ngokuthengiswa kwakhe okungcono 'Cinga kwaye ube sisityebi ", waqinisekisa abafundi ukuba yonke into abayifunayo ukuze baphumelele kwaye bechuma kukucinga ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ukuba oku akwenzeki kwaye awuzange ufumane ishishini lakho kuphela, imoto eboshwe ngemoto kunye nelizwe elivaliweyo, kwaye unesifo, ukubala inye kuphela: ubungalunganga. Endleleni, uNapoleon ngokwakhe wayelihlwempu - urhulumente wamsa ... ukuthengisa incwadi yakhe. Kodwa sasiyintoni isizathu sokuphumelela kwakhe?
Ukucinga okuqinisekileyo kunika umntu izibonelelo ezibini eziphambili: Akayigxeki ikamva eligwetyiweyo, kodwa uqonde ngokucacileyo iinjongo zayo kwaye ufuna indlela yokufezekisa okufunekayo
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Isimo sengqondo esichanekileyo okanye sisebenza nzima?
UJohn Keokho, uJoe asasaza-ngaphezulu kwababhali banamhlanje - waya phambili nangaphezulu. Kwaye, ebhekisa kwimithetho ye protics ye-wantum, bathetha ukuba kwicandelo le-Qurum, nakuphi na ukukhetha (kubandakanya eyona nto inomdla) iyafumaneka kuthi, iyimfuneko kuphela kwi-radiation yamandla ehambelana noko. Oku kutsala ngathi, umntu ufumana impendulo enjalo kwindalo iphela exela kwangaphambili. Cinga ukuba uyinto egudileyo yomzimba-kakuhle, ifutha liya kuhlala liphosa isiqinisekiso sokungathandeki. Ngokuchasene noko, iimvakalelo ezintle ziya kutsala iminyhadala efanelekileyo. Awukhe uzama ukwenza into, indalo ngokwayo iya kukubonelela ngalo lonke ixesha elinokwenzeka. Ngaba ucinga ukuba uthathe imali yokuvula ishishini okanye uthenge igumbi? Ukuphupha malunga nentlanganiso nomntu onomdla, oqaqambileyo? Khawufane ucinge ukuba sele unazo, uve uyolo nombulelo- kwaye emva kwethuba yonke le nto iya kuza ebomini bakho. Njengoko uqonda, olu khetho alunamsebenzi. Kwaye, ngokoluvo lwam, kukho onke amathuba amathuba ashiyekileyo, anomdla kwi-GREES.
Smirk choker
Inye into ecacileyo: Ukuqulatha imaski yethemba, ukungafihli intlungu engaphakathi. Ngokuchasene noko, akaphanga nokubonakala ngeemvakalelo ezingalunganga, sibaqhuba bengene ngaphakathi kwingingqi yokungazi-kwaye oku kubi kakhulu. Ukuba ubukele imovie "Jooker", uyayibona le nto ndiyithethayo. Inkwenkwe, eyafunyanwa ngumama ukubona ebomini, intembelo kwaye incuma ebantwini ngaphandle kwayo yonke into, yajika yaba sisifo sentloko. "Ukucinga okuhle yintanda-bulumko yohanahaniso, kuba xa ufuna ukulila, ukufundisa ukuba ucule. Kodwa kwingoma enjalo kungayi kubakho ngongoma, kuba ayize izelwe ngentliziyo, kodwa isuka engqondweni, yaza yacinga ngoyena mntu ucekeceke kakhulu kweOsho.
Iimvakalelo ezingalunganga
Sukuzama ukuzibamba. Ke ubabetha kwindawo engathandekiyo, kwaye oku kubi kakhulu. Dubula, ukuba uziva unomsindo, khawula, ukuba kuyakhathaza. Vumela iimvakalelo ezingaphandle, zikhulule kwaye ziphile.
Ukuvuma ukubona kuyo yonke into elungileyo kunye nokungaqapheli imbi, sizama ukuzikhohlisa. I-Cantastrophes, ubhubhane, imfazwe, ubundlobongela - kunzima ukuziqinisekisa ukuba ezi meko zinokubonwa ngesitshixo esihle. Kwaye ke asitshintshi inyani. Ukushiya iingxaki nokukhwela kwindawo yokuhamba kwakhe, ukuqaqamba kunye nokulunga akuyi kufika. Umhlobo wam olungileyo akazange athethe ngeengxaki zabahlobo ababelana nabo - bona ngokwabo kukugxeka, iimvakalelo ezizonakalisayo, iziganeko ezimbi zitsala ubomi babo. Awu, imeko yanamhlanje ehlabathini, isoyikiso, ixhonyiwe ebantwini, yabonisa ngokucacileyo indlela enxulumene nendlela. Ngubani obekek 'ityala ngento eyenzekileyo? Ngubani owayengalunganga? ..
"Ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka, uthando, ububele - bavela phi ukuba akukho kwazi? Kwaye kuphela ngabantu abambalwa (umzekelo, njengoGauxem) kwathi kuqala ukuba bakhule ngokwabo ulwazi, kwaye kuya kuphela inyani yokwenyani kuwe, uthando lokwenyani kunye nemfesane yokwenene. Kodwa ngubani ofuna ukukuqonda oku namhlanje? Sifuna nje ukuba nethemba kuba sizuza. " Le ikwasisicatshulwa esivela kuOsho. Kodwa bhalisa ngokupheleleyo.
Xa iglasi izele
Ngokwenyani yinyani! Aba bantu abafuni nokuba baqiniseke ukuba iglasi igcwele. Ngandlela thile yenzeka ngandlel 'ithile. Intombazana yam i-Elena ivela kwezi. Ndiyakhumbula indlela awayesinda ngayo ukungcatshwa komntu endimthandayo, wabetha esibhedlele, waphulukana nomsebenzi. Kodwa yanika uhlengahlengiso ngokutsha, Fumana eyenye intsimi, thenga indlu yakho. Ngapha koko, xa wayebandakanyeka kwimali mboleko, bekungayiqondi indlela enokuhlawula ngayo imali mboleko, kodwa yonke into yayiphumelele.
Iimeko ezingathandekiyo
Zama kwelona bali linzima kuwe ukubona amacala amahlanu aluncedo. Esikhundleni sokucinga ngale ndlela, uya kuqonda ukuba umhlaba ayisiyi-cinema emnyama nemhlophe. Iluphazamiseka. Kwaye nayiphi na imeko inokusongelwa kuwe.
Ngokutsho kukaCrian Tracy Herist ophuculo, ukucinga okuhle kunika umntu izibonelelo ezibini eziphambili: Akayigxeki imeko ebiyiweyo, kodwa uqonde indlela yokufezekisa oyifunayo. Abantu abanjalo bayakuqonda ukusilela, kuba sisizathu sokukhangela ezinye iindlela onokukhetha kuzo. "Ukusilela lithuba lokuqalisa kwakhona, kodwa sele kunobulumko", utshilo uHenry Ford. "Khange ndinyamezele. Ndifumene nje iindlela ezili-10,000 ezingasebenziyo, "watsho uThomas edison. Kodwa ukukhetha indlela yokuxhathisa, kufuneka uqonde ukuba kukukholwa ngokwako, kuyakufuna unyamezelo, kwaye kukuthanda okukhulu.
Ngokwam, ndichukumisekile yincwadi yokufunda "Ukuthengisa inyani" vadim zeland. Kudala ndifuna ukufunda, kodwa izandla azifikanga. Kodwa ngexesha lokuhlala, eli thuba lazisa. Umbhali ucebisa ukuba angalwi nemimoya, kodwa ukukholosa kwaye ufunde ukuziva ukuhamba kobomi, ukubhekisa kwinto eyenzekayo, ngaphandle kokubaluleka kwakhe. Ukukhutshwa kuya kukhokelela kwizithintelo ezomeleleyo, kwaye amava aya kuwahlula amandla ayimfuneko. Ngokubanzi, njengoko uDalai Lamafundisithi, "Ukuba ingxaki inokusonjululwa, akunyanzelekanga ukuba ikhathazeke ngayo. Ukuba ingxaki ayinambuzane, ayinantsingiselo yokukhathazeka ngayo. " Kodwa ekubeni asingawo sonke sifikelele kwinqanaba elifanayo lokwazisa kunye nokukhanyiselwa, ngezantsi - iindlela ezininzi ezifanelekileyo eziya kunceda ukuba aziyi kukhala ngethemba kwithemba kwelinye icala.
Ngokwe-Esoteic, imvakalelo yombulelo yenye yezona mpembelelo zamandla amandla.
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Volator mulator
Ngokwe-Esoteic, imvakalelo yombulelo yenye yezona mpembelelo zamandla amandla. Zizenzele idayari yendlela elungileyo yokucinga. Rhoqo ngokuhlwa, ngaphambi kokulala, khumbula amaxesha amahlanu amnandi ababesezantsi namhlanje, kwaye ngokunyaniseka enkosi kwindalo iphela. Yiyeke nokuba yinto encinci: umnxeba womhlobo, abangakhange banxibelelane naye ixesha elide, i-hairstyle entsha, umbongo omnandi okanye umdlalo we kitten, owawusenziwa yiTen. Ukuvuselela iirekhodi zakhe zeveki, uya kuqonda ukuba umhlaba awulunganga kangako, kwaye kuya kuhlala kukho isizathu sokuvuya. Kwakhona, ngokwengxelo yengxelo, izenzo ezilungileyo zikwenza ukuba uxabiso, okuhle ebomini bakho kuya kuvela nangaphezulu.
Iindlela ezintlanu "ziyasebenza nakweyiphi na imeko okanye imeko yengxaki. Cinga ngayo kwaye uzame ukufumana amacala amahlanu aluhlaza ukuzenzela. Yiyo loo nto unokubona ukungabi nakukonza buhlungu, kodwa namathuba amatsha. Akukho mntu ukhoyo imfuneko yokuba sekhaya xa ilanga likhanya esitratweni. Ndiyazithuthuzela into yokuba akukho mfuneko yokuba uchithe ixesha endleleni eya emsebenzini, emva koko ndakwazi ukufunda iincwadi ezintsha, ndaye ndakhumbula iwadi, ndakhumbula, iiprojekthi ezinokuthi zivele.
Ukuba ugxothiwe kwingxaki, indlela elungileyo yokuphazamisa loqeqesho lwezemidlalo. Kwaye umzimba uya kubeka ngolungelelwano, kwaye imozulu iya kuphucuka. Ukuzivocavoca kungabizi nje inqanaba le-cortisol (i-hormone, eveliswa ngoxinzelelo), kodwa ikwakhuthaza ukuveliswa kwe-hormone yovuyo lwe-endorphin. Ethetha ngamazwi alula, ezemidlalo inceda ingqondo ibe yomelele kwaye isebenze ngokufanelekileyo.
Amaxesha ovuyo
Zilungiselele. Zizenzele idayari yokucinga okuhle, apho uza kubhala zonke izinto ezintle ezenzekileyo kuwe ngemini. Emva kokufunda iirekhodi emva kwexesha, uyakuqonda ukuba ubomi bunokukhanya kwaye buhle.
Amagama, amagama ... yeyiphi impembelelo abanayo kubomi bethu sisihloko senqaku elahlukileyo. Ukuqonda komntu kubona nayiphi na i-oscillations yesandi. Ukuthetha nantoni na, sidlulisela isithembiso samandla. Amanye amagama ayakwazi ukubiza amandla afanelekileyo, ukukhuthaza abanye-ukwenzakalisa. I-Adress, isisu esibuhlungu sidala ukungalingani, ukugxekwa okungafunekiyo, i-gossoke inkokeli. Zama ukungasebenzisi amagama ngesuntswana "hayi": andikwazi, ayizukusebenza. Babonisa ubuthathaka. Iingxelo zakho kufuneka zinentsingiselo elungileyo. Fumana inani leziqinisekiso ezingalunganga kwaye uzivelele ngexesha elinzima. Ngendlela, isiqinisekiso sinokuvakala njengoko imibuzo echazwe kwiqhosha eliqinisekileyo. "Kutheni le nto abantu bemhle ukunxibelelana nam?", "Kutheni undixabisa umsebenzi wam?" - Le ndlela yenza ukuba isebenze ngendlela yokufumana amandla ayo.
Njengoko besitsho, enokwenza nabani na ukuba akwenze ... kwaye ukuba ujikelezwe yi-whins kunye ne-pessimists, kunzima ukunganikezeli kwimeko ngokubanzi. Abazali abazinyuli, kodwa basebenze nabani ubudlelwane, babe ngabahlobo kwaye basebenze - isigqibo sakho. Ngcono xa indalo ikholisa umzekelo wayo.
Ukubuyela kwiglasi ezele sisiqingatha samanzi, ukucinga okuqinisekileyo akumhambi kwiimvakalelo ezimbi. Umntu ocinga kakuhle akanikeli uqikelelo, kodwa ukhangela indlela yokusebenzisa imeko ngokwenkolelo yayo. Zithathele isigqibo malunga nento yokwenza neglasi kuyo ukongeza amanzi okanye uwaphose kwaye ubeke izitya eshalofini.