Enye i-Zigmund freud yaphawula ukuba "ulwambatho lwento engeyiyo ukuzalisekiswa kweminqweno lunika ulwaneliseko." Ewe kunjalo, malunga nesondo. Kodwa umsunguli wengqondo wabhala wabhala ngogxininiso kugxininiso lwehlabathi. Ngaphantsi kwale qanda lakhe libonakala likrakra. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kwaye kwabasetyhini, amagama acatshuliweyo ayofanelekile. Nangona kunjalo, nkqu nokukhululwa okwangoku, ukuphunyezwa kwabo kuthunyelwa ngakumbi kwihlabathi lokusetyenziswa kwezinto nokutya, ngokufuthi ukungoneliseki ngokwesondo. ERussia ingakumbi.
Kunye neYurophu kunye neMelika, kwaoko, kudala kudala kubulala ubuqhetseba, kodwa zithengwa. Yintoni umahluko? Inqaku lokuqala lobufazi "ixhoba lomfazi", kwaye lithengwa, intombazana ekuqaleni ikhululekile, iqinisekile kwaye inamandla. Kwaye eyona nto iphambili kuyo kukwazi kwenenekazi lamandla abo ngokwesondo. Oku kugxile kakhulu kunokuba phantse kufezekisiwe uluntu ngokulinganayo. Kubonakala kuyinto enkulu ukuyithatha, kuba amagama avakala eqinisekileyo kwaye ahenda. Ngapha koko, yonke into ayilula kangako. Ubunzima obuphambili ekunyamekeleni ukusuka kwi-stereotype yokucinga.
Ewe. "Ndifuna njengangaphambili: Ukulandela indlu ndibandakanyeke kwabantwana. Onke asebenza ngendoda. "Abasetyhini bakhala kuphela !." Kwaye njalo. Kwisibhakabhaka saseRussia, ezo ngxelo zikhulile ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Kwaye uqinisekisa umgaqo: Iimodeli zokuziphatha zixhomekeke kwiingcambu zentlalo. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, akukho sizinza kwimivuzo yakho yokuzihlaziya, kunye nokukhula kwezoqoqosho kweli lizwe, imeko iya kutshintsha kancinci. Kodwa iya kuba njalo.
Amantombazana lale mihla aba nesibindi
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Ngendlela, malunga "njengangaphambili." Inomdla xa? Kwilizwi labasetyhini, njengoko kunjalo, ngokubanzi baqala ukudlula emva kwemini kuphela kwisiqingatha sesibini se-Xix. Kwaye ke nge-applib enkulu kunye ne-grin. Apha, masitsho, besithi i-Nitzsche: "Entokazi, yonke into iyimfihlakalo. Kodwa zonke iimfihlakalo zakhe zine-fations enye kuphela. Igama lakhe liyamitha! "
Phosa entlokweni yebinzana eliguqulweyo "Njengaphambi" Amagama eLyudmila Gurchenko kakhulu. Ngenye imini, wayethetha ngokupheleleyo ngale nto:
Kodwa ubuyela emva. Inezifundo ezinomdla- ngokwesondo ngokuqinisekileyo. Kutshanje, yagqitywa ngesabelo se-nidezhda tolokova (Pussy Riot): Ngapha koko, inokuzicacisa ngokulula ukuba zeziphi izinto ekufuneka zenziwe kule. Kwaye xa, ngokomgaqo, akoyiki ukuphila ubomi bezesondo obuvulekileyo, ukuba unqwenela ukuba namaqabane aliqela kwaye ungaziva uloyiko lokuba uza kubizwa ngokuba nguRere uza kubizwa ngokuba nguRere. "
Ngokwam, ndiyayithanda le ndlela. Ngapha koko, ukuphosa iindibano, ukulala kubomi bale mihla, mhlawumbi ekuphela komgca apho umntu angakhululwa khona. Ngemeko yokuba ayizukubekwa emgangathweni kuyo. Kwaye ukuba iqonga lobomi lomfazi libandakanya ukuqonda, kunye nomnqweno womqala omtsha emva koqhawulo-mtshato okanye ulwalamano olunzima, kutheni le nto?
Kodwa kwi-storchal yoluntu lwaseSoviet, le nqanaba lenkululeko libalulekile ngokwaneleyo. Njengomzekelo, intengiso yenzwa yophawu lwezemidlalo: "Iinyembezi ngenaliti eyindoda, hlala phantsi ebusweni." Iiyure ezimbini, esi siqubulo sihlala kwindawo ebonakalayo kwaye sasuswa ngokungacacanga. Kwintengiso, ulunge kakhulu, enyanisweni, umdlalo usesango elinye. Kodwa zodwa, masithi, njengenxalenye yokuthumelelana ibhunga kuyasebenza. Umnqweno odlule kwimpembelelo yegama elibi ngokwenyani. Ngakumbi inkanuko yomfazi.
Ngokusondeleyo ayisiyo nje ngokuqhubeka kohlobo
Kwangelo xesha, ukuba uchukumisa iindawo zokuthandana, andikhumbuli ukuba igama elithi "Cunnilis" lifakwe kwiikhwelo kunye neeprofayili zomgangatho obuthathaka. Le yindlela ebonakala ngayo intrabala. Nangona isondo yinxalenye yobomi, kwaye i-cunnilibs yinxalenye (ngamanye amaxesha yanesondo) ngesondo. Kukuphela kwesihloko kufana, ngokungafaniyo ne-blowjob. Nditsho ndikhulule i-sobchak, nangona ndinesibindi, kodwa ndiyayifumana inkcazo: "... kwaye ukuba andifuni ukuhlala ebusweni, kodwa ndifuna ukuxoka kum, xa ndisenza yonke into apha ... "
Ke nana apha sisini esiqinisekileyo-malunga nesimo sengqondo sesondo. Kodwa ibonakalisiwe kwaye idluliselwa kwabanye abantu ngamazwi. Ukuqinisekiswa kwento efunekayo. Ingxoxo ilandelwa yi-ECODDE-Ghlng 'ilahlekile. Logama njengabafazi bavakalisa ngokusondeleyo, amadoda aya kwenza izigqibo: Yintoni enokukwenza, kodwa yintoni engenakungcono kwaye imbi. Ngapha koko, ukuthula kwabasetyhini, 'ngaphambili "kunye' emva" kwesondo Zigqale abathandi bothando.
Abafazi bafunda ngaphandle koloyiko besithi "hayi", lixesha lokuba ufunde kwaye uthi ewe, kodwa ngomoya ophumeleleyo wokwabelana ngesondo.