Akukho mfihlakalo yokuba ubomi buyimpumelelo kubalulekile ukuba ube ngumntu ozithembileyo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba kungabi kakhulu ukufezekisa iinjongo zolungelelwaniso lwangaphakathi, kuba umntu ongazinzanga ngabo, akanakuziva xinzelelo rhoqo, akanakubunandipha ubomi. Ungazinceda njani ukuba ufumene ingxaki enjalo?
Kuthekani ukuba uthandabuza ngalo lonke ixesha?
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Kubalulekile ukuba uzihlonele
Umntu ngamnye unezibonelelo zayo kunye nezinto ezingalunganga. Umntu ozithembileyo uyazi indlela yokuthatha ukungafezeki kwakhe kwaye ugxininise iimpawu ezintle. Umntu onjalo kulula ukuseka abafowunelwa, wakhe umsebenzi kwaye unelisa.
Ukuba uhlala uhlala emathandabuzo kwaye ungakujongela phantsi, kunzima kuwe ukuveza amandla akho, awukwazi ukuqagela malunga neempawu ezifihlakeleyo kunye neetalente, kuba awubaniki thuba lokubonisa. Icala elijikayo liyinto yokuzithemba eliphantsi, xa umntu engenakukwazi ukuzibonakalisa ngokufanelekileyo, engena kwiimeko ezingathandekiyo.
Kwimeko yokuqala, kufuneka uthande kwaye, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba uzamkele njengoko unjalo, kunye ne-gockrus yakho yonke ".
Ungazibona njani ukuzithemba okuPhantsi
Ukuba ufumanisa ubuncinci amanqaku amaninzi, kuyavakala ukunikela ingqalelo kwingxaki.
Ukugxekwa kakhulu (ukugqibelela).
Ixhala rhoqo.
Umona kwimpumelelo yabanye.
Umona.
Imo yethemba.
Ubuntununtunu bokugxeka.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba akukho bantu bafanelekileyo, wonke umntu wenza iimpazamo, kodwa abantu abanokuzixhasa ngokungazithembi kakhulu, kubonakala ngathi umhlaba uqalisa ukuwa.
Iingxaki zihlala zihamba ebuntwaneni
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Siyintoni isizathu?
Uloyiko lwabantwana
Mhlawumbi abazali bomntwana ebuntwaneni babeligadwe kakhulu kwaye bethatha inxaxheba kakhulu imigwebo yakhe. Olunye ukhetho-umntwana wayedla ngokutyibilika, wafaka umzekelo wabantwana abangabamelwane, apho waya khona "unyana kaMamina." Kwimeko enjalo, umntwana othile waqhayisa ngokupheleleyo ngokwakhe, uqala ukubathandabuza.
Isangqa sabahlobo
Ngokuqinisekileyo uqaphele ukuba bonke abantu abaphumeleleyo bajikeleze abantu abaphumeleleyo nabanenjongo. Esi sikimu sisebenza kwelinye icala: Ukuba abazali kunye nezihlobo ziyathandana kwaye zikhohlise, nto leyo eyothusayo, yona imangalisiwe kukuba umntwana ekhula ngokufanayo.
Into yangaphandle
Ewe, ayinguye wonke umntu onethamsanqa ngembonakalo: ayikhethwanga ukuzalelwa. Ihlala ingazithembi "" ezelwe "kwiimpawu ezithile zomntu. Umntwana uya kuba nzima ukunxibelelana noontanga, ivala kuye. Abazali bafanele banikele ingqalelo ukuphatha abantwana babo ukuba bayazi malunga neengxaki zesikolo.
Kwenziwe ntoni
Okokuqala, kufuneka uphinde ujonge indawo yakho, abo bantu bakuchaphazela kakhulu. Kuyo nayiphi na inkampani kukho abantu abanetyhefu, kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba bangakanani abantu abanjalo kwisangqa sakho esikufutshane.
Yenza into ebinga
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Yeka rhoqo ngokuthelekisa nabanye. Kuhlala kukho umntu ongcono-ngokukhawuleza. Yiba ngokwakho, kholwa kum, akukho mntu uya kukuphindaphinde.
Qhubeka ngento entsha ngokwakho: Mhlawumbi uhlala ufuna ukutsiba ngeparachute okanye ukuntywila. Kule meko, ukubaluleka kwemvakalelo kubalulekile, okuya kuvumela iimvakalelo ngaphandle kwaye, mhlawumbi, ziya kukuzisela iingcinga eziyimfuneko.
Yenza nje ezemidlalo. Iingcali ziyaphikisana ukuba umdlalo uchaphazele ukungabonakali kuphela, kodwa nakwimeko yengqondo yomzimba. Ngexesha lokuzivocavoca umzimba, i-DoPamine Hormone iveliswa, yaziwa ngokuba yihomoni yovuyo.
Susa iingcinga ezimiselweyo
Ziqonde ngokwakho ukuba yintoni ebalulekileyo kuwe onokuyenza ngcono. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uyakhumbula amaxesha xa udumisa ngaphezulu kwesiqhelo. Ezi ziimpawu kunye nezakhono ekufuneka uphulwe kuzo. Ngapha koko, njengoko besitshoyo, kubalulekile ukuba sizinze kwaye sithembeke kwiimbono kunye neminqweno yakho, uya kuphumelela!