Thina, abafazi, sidla ngokutyhola amadoda ukuba angabi nathemba kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukungabikho komntu. Kutheni le nto amadoda anjengawe? Imalunga nokukhuliswa, okanye kunokuba, kanye kubazali babonisa inyathelo elihle. Ukuba unonyana omncinci, kuya kuba ntle ukuba isandla sakho kunye noyise banamathele.
Njengoko uyazi, kwiintsapho ezininzi, abantwana bakhuliswa, ubukhulu bomama nootata banomakhulu kunamadoda. Kwanakwiziko lemfundo, abasebenzi ikakhulu bafazi.
Indoda, njengommiselo, ilungiselelwe yindima yomgodi, kunjalo nayo kwaye i-fube igudileyo. Kulula ukuba umntu obhinqileyo aye kuMfundisi ngokwakhe, ukuba umntwana wakhe wenze okuthile, kwaye uthethe nonyana wakhe ukuba awuphazamise umyeni wakhe ekwenzeni imali.
Khuthaza naziphi na izinto ezibonakalisayo zomdla wamadoda
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Nangona kunjalo, unxibelelwano olubaluleke kakhulu phakathi koNyana noBawo ulahlekile. Indoda idlala indima enkulu ekukhuliseni inkwenkwe, ithetha isampulu kwaye, ukuba uyafuna, umzekelo. Ivela kuBawo, kuxhomekeke, inkwenkwe yakhe iya kukhulelwa nguwe ummeli wesini esomeleleyo okanye ubomi bakhe bonke buya kujonga iinkxaso kunye noncedo kwabasetyhini.
Ifanele ikhule njani
Khawufane ucinge
Ukuphela kwemeko: Utata ufanele abe yindoda ngokwakhe, eyokongeza, onoxanduva, omeleleyo, onamandla kwaye angadibani nokuzithemba. Inkwenkwe ifanele iqonde loo nto, egxile kule ndoda, ngokwakhe uya kufezekisa okuninzi ebomini.
Nangona kunjalo, ayikabi kuphela nguyise kuphela ongumzekelo kusapho: utat'omkhulu, umntakwabo, umalume unokuhlangabezana nale ndima.
Qala "imfundo" katata xa ukhulelwe
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Kunye ukonwabela impumelelo kwaye ubonelela ngenkxaso kuyo yonke into
Kuyo nayiphi na umntu, inkxaso yabantu obuthandwayo, kunye nomfana, ukuvunywa kukaBawo kubaluleke kakhulu. Indoda yakho mayingathandi ngamazwi afudumeleyo kuNyana. Amadoda amaninzi akholelwa ukuba ukubonakaliswa kweemvakalelo luphawu lobuthathaka, kodwa kwibhinqa yethu, amandla okutshintsha le mbono. Kukufezekisa kuphela ukuba utata uya kuhlala eyixhasa kwaye aqonde, inkwenkwe iya kukhula ngumntu osebenza naye kunye nomntu omeleleyo.
Fundisa inkwenkwe ukuba uzimele
Kunxibelelwano lukatata nonyana wakhe, kubalulekile ukuba uthathele ingqalelo uluvo lwenkwenkwe, oko kukuthi, kufanele ukuba kubekho amabinzana anjalo kwincoko, "njengoko" ucinga ntoni? "," Uza kwenza ntoni le meko? " Kwaye konke ngale ndlela. Kulumkele ithoni efihlakeleyo, iingxelo ze-Bekigorical, kuba uNyana kufuneka uqinisekisiwe, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu - ukukhuthaza kokokuqala.
Thetha ngobudlelwane nabafazi
Le ndawo yenye yezona zinovelwano: Asinguye wonke umntu othetha nje kwesi sihloko, nokuba nabantwana abadala, ukuba bangathethi abakwishumi elivisayo. Nangona kunjalo, uTata kufuneka enze le nto, kuba isimo sengqondo sendoda ukuya kwibhinqa sisiphawuli sendoda yakhe. Inkwenkwe esele ikwiminyaka engakumbi kufuneka iqonde ukubaluleka kobudlelwane, ukuhlonipha iimvakalelo zomnye umntu kwaye inombono wokunyaniseka.
Kwakhona, inkwenkwe ijonge kuyise kwaye ifunda ukuphatha umzekelo wakhe. Ukuba utata ubhekisa kumama ngentlonipho, enokubakho kunye noNyana uya kulandela umzekelo wakhe kwikamva, xa eqala ukwakha usapho kunye nebhinqa lakhe.
Ukufundisa umsebenzi ngokwakho
Indoda kufuneka kwaye iyahlala ngokwakhe njengomntu, susa iimpawu ezimbi, unika indlela eyakhayo. Apha sithetha kungenjalo malunga neempawu ezingamadoda njengabantu. Kwaye ukuze umntwana abe neqhayiya ngabantu abacinga ngayo kwaye acinge ukuba: "Kodwa uza kufika njani utata wakho kwindawo yam?" Kufuneka usoloko uzisebenzela ngokwakho.
Kuthekani ukuba indoda ayifuni kuthatha inxaxheba ekukhuliseni umntwana:
Ukukhuliswa kukatata kuye kufuneka uqale xa unyana wakho esiya kwibanga leshumi, kodwa xa sele ukhulelwe. Sukukhanyisa kwaye unikezele indoda yakho ibe yimiba yekhosi yokukhulelwa kwakho, xelela malunga neemvakalelo zakho, makava ukubandakanyeka kwakhe.
Xa kuzalwa umntwana, musa ukuyithatha kwindoda. Thatha naluphi na uncedo kumyeni wakhe, ngaloo ndlela ukhokele umdla wakhe kule nkqubo.
Ziyeke zodwa ukuze umyeni nonyana bafumene ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kunye nezinto ozithandayo. Xa beliqela elinye, kuya kuba lula kubo ukufumana ukusombulula iingxaki kwixesha elizayo. Ngokukodwa ekubeni kukho izinto ezinjalo umfazi engaziqondi ngokupheleleyo.
Indoda yakho mayibe ligunya kusapho. Xa indoda ixhaswa, kulula ukuba aqhagamshelane nomntwana anokuzonwabisa ekuchitheni ixesha, echaza umxholo ongaqinisekanga ukuba ngunina.
Shiya uyihlo yedwa nonyana wakho
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Njengoko ubona, akukho mntu uza kuba nguyise ombi kwindalo, baba neemeko ezinjalo, ngamanye amaxesha banxibelelana ngokuthe ngqo nomfazi. Ke ngoko, ngamandla akho okwenza konke konke ukuze bobabini abe ngamadoda akho bafumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kwaye babe ngabahlobo ebomini.