Sicebisa ukuba uqhelene nemibuzo "enjalo" engangcono yokuphepha incoko.
Unxibelelwano nomntu oqhelene nomntu oqhelene nomntu oqhelene naye okanye umhlobo ocaciswayo kwiimeko zendlela yokuphila yomnye nomnye, nangona kunjalo, nangona kunjalo kukho imida ethile enxulumene nendawo yakho.
Ewe kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuba ujikeleze amanye amaxesha, kodwa kusabalulekile ukufunda indlela yokuqonda ukuba iqale phi imida yomnye umntu.
Hlonipha imida yabanye.
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# 1 kwaye ufumana malini?
Ukuba awungomqeshi, umbuzo onjalo awulunganga kakhulu kwincoko yobuqu. Akukho mntu unyanzelekileyo ukuba anike ingxelo kumvuzo wakho. Mhlawumbi kuphela imeko enjalo, ukuba uza kutshata nomntu kwaye unengqiqo ukuba unexhala malunga nohlahlo-lwabiwo mali lwentsapho eqhelekileyo.
Kukho abantu ababalisa wonke umntu kwaye bakholelwa ukuba kufuneka benze njalo nakwabanye, kodwa kunjalo, awunyanzelekanga ukuba ucinge ukuba wabelana ngengeniso yakho nabahlobo, baya kuyixelela kwangoko malunga ngokwabo. Ngokubanzi, umxholo wemali uphakamileyo, zama ukuyiphepha, ukuze ingabi nangqondo.
# 2 ukhulelwe, okanye yintoni?
Umbuzo ubaphosekile, ngokungathandekiyo. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba umbuzo wokukhulelwa angawuchaphazela kakubi unxibelelwano lwakho nomntu.
Isizathu sokuqala: Ibhinqa lilwa iminyaka emininzi ngokutyeba kakhulu, mhlawumbi ikukhathaza kakhulu yile nto, kwaye ulapha. Kutheni le nto umntu womelele ngakumbi?
Isizathu sesibini: Emva kokuthatha ezinye iziyobisi ukukhuthaza ukusebenza kwee-ovari, ngokomlomo kunokubonwa, ke ngoko, ubuza umbuzo wokukhulelwa, utsala ingqalelo kwiingxaki zayo.
Kwaye isizathu sokugqibela - umfazi unokukhulelwa, kwaye utsala umdla kwabanye kumbuzo wakho, nangona eyedwa ngokwakhe ngekhe acwangcise ukubhengeza.
Kwanendoda yakhe ingafanelekanga ukubuza imibuzo engenabuchule.
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# 3 Xa utshatile?
Emva kweminyaka engama-30, umntu unexesha lokutshata / ukutshata noqhawulo-mtshato. Amava oqhawulo-mtshato akaze ayonwabele, ke imibuzo ngesi sihloko inokudakumba ngakumbi.
Awunokwazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba kutheni umntu engatshatanga. Mhlawumbi ibhekisa kwizinto ezithile ezincinci, ezingenakubhaliswa ngokusemthethweni okwangoku.
Uninzi alunakufumana iqabane lomphefumlo, kwaye umbuzo wakho uza kukukhumbuza ngokusilela kumphambili wothando ngaphambili.
# 4 Kutheni bengenguye abantwana?
Umbuzo uvela kwi "opera" njengomtshato. Qonda ukuba uza kuzala okanye ungalandeli umntwana-imeko yomntu wonke, ingcebiso, imiyalelo yakho, imiyalelo kunye nezinye izinto ezigulayo azifanelekanga.
Ukongeza, umntu unokuthanda ukuba nomntwana, kodwa ayisebenzi ngenxa yezizathu ezizodwa. Ngayiphi na imeko, xa ufuna ukuxela ngako, xelela kwaye ngaphandle kwezicelo zakho.
# 5 Kholelwa kuThixo?
Umntu ngamnye ukhululekile ukulawula unxibelelwano lwayo kunye nokuseka okanye ukungaseki ubudlelwane noThixo. Akadingi inxaxheba yakho kuphela ukuba kuya. Uninzi olungathandekiyo xa behlasela ilizwe labo langaphakathi kwaye baqalise ukumba apho. Umntu unokuphendula ngendlela engathethekiyo, kodwa oku akuthethi ngaye, njengomntu, engenalo kumoya.
# 6 kwaye yimalini igumbi lakho / imoto / i-cottage?
Kwakhona, umbuzo "wemali". Ukuba umntu wagqiba kwelokuba achithe imali, uya kuchitha nabo, ngaphandle kweembono zabanye. Cinga ukuba uza kutshintsha olu lwazi ebomini bakho? Siqinisekile ukuba akukho nto.
Ukuba unomdla kwiinjongo zobuqu, masithi ufuna ukuthenga imoto enye, ndimise emntwini. Biza nje impahla yemoto kwaye ufumanise phaya.
Akukho mntu unyanzelekileyo ukuba anike ingxelo kuwe.
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# 7 Bangaphi abathandi onabo?
Kuya kuba yinto engathandekiyo ukuva nesithandwa sakho, yintoni. Ukuba unomdla kwimbali yezifo ze-venereal yeqabane, emva koko umbuzo wenani leempawu zesini ngokuqinisekileyo azifanelekanga. Kungcono ukuba uhambe ujonge kunye: Kuya kuba buhlungu kakhulu.
Kuyenzeka ukuba nomhlobo wakho osondeleyo okanye intombi yakhe, ephendula umbuzo onjalo, uya kusasazeka nawe ngokwezimvo, kwaye imbambano iya kuqalisa ukuba uninzi lwentombazana "lube nentombazana okanye i-guy. Uxambulisana nje nomhlobo, kodwa ungafiki uluvo ngokubanzi.