Ukuhleka kukaKate Hudson mhlawumbi yeyona ndoda ilungileyo kwi-Olimpus yenkanyezi. Unoncumo aluboni kuphela amabanga anyukayo, kodwa uwe. Kwaye uyathanda umculo. Endaweni yoko, iimvumi. Ukuphelisa ubudlelwane nemvumi chris robis kunye nomphambili weqela leMyuziyam Borli, wafumana ulonwabo olutsha - kunye nomlimi we-dajikava. Ukuzalwa kwentombi yakhe yokuqala uRonnie, ukukhuliswa koonyana kunye nokukwazi ukujonga yonke into ebomini ngokusebenzisa iiglasi ezipinki ezona zihle kakhulu i-blonde yaseMelika ichaza udliwanondlebe.
-U-Kate, evuyisana! Kutshanje uba ngumama okwesithathu. Injani iimvakalelo?
- Kuyamangalisa! Kwaye andiyi kuyifihla. (Uncumo.) Uninzi lwamadories lwenza imfihlo yokuzalwa kwabantwana, abayi kuthumela iifoto zabo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo nasekupheleni kobuso bawo. Kodwa andinazo iinkolelo ezinjalo. Ke ngoko, nje ukuba ndifunde ngokukhulelwa, ndakhawuleza ndayifumana ividiyo ye-Instagram. Kwaye ngoku kuyinto ekuhleni wonke umntu obonisa intombi yakhe kwaye uzive ukhululekile ukuthi sele simnike igama. Usana lwethu lubiza iRonnie ngembeko yotat'omkhulu kwiNdawo yam yeNdawo yaseProni - Ron Fujikava. Wayeyindoda eyoyikisayo, kuthi sonke eso sonke siyaphoswa.
-Yintombi yakho yokuqala. Ngaba umahluko wokukhulelwa kweza ngaphambili?
-Fumana indlela yokunxiba ngayo intombazana engaphantsi kwentliziyo, hayi inkwenkwe? Ewe, akukho mahluko, ngokunyaniseka. Nangona kungekho. Ukanti, ndineminyaka engamashumi amathathu anesithoba ubudala, yaye minyaka le ndifundile ukumamela umzimba wam. Ndicinga ukuba yiyo le nto ukukhulelwa kwesithathu kwenzeka ngokulula. Ndenze i-yoga, andizange ndilale kwaye andikhathalelanga into endiyifunayo. Ewe kunjalo, ngoku kuya kufuneka siphulukane nobunzima, kodwa ayindiphazamisi. Kwaye nkqu nomehluko kukuba ekugqibeleni ndiza kuthenga amantombazana. Le yi-buzz! Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, bendiyinkwenkwe bonke ubomi bam. Xa ndandibizwa ukuba ndidlale unodoli, ndihlala ndiphendula: "Hayi, ndifuna ukubaleka kunye namakhwenkwe!" Ke ngoku ndinentombazana, kwaye yonke loo nto intsha kum. Andazi ukuba mandilindele ntoni. Ukusuka koku kwaye unomdla ngakumbi! Ngaphezulu kweminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu, ndiye ndafika kuphela amasebe amakhwenkwe, kwaye ngoku vula nje umhlaba ongaziwayo. Inzulu, ukuba ucinga, bendingqongwe ngabantu bonke ubomi bam. Ndinabantakwethu abathathu, oonyana ababini kunye nabatshana ababini. Ndiyakhumbula, ndade ndade ndabaleka: "Kuya kufuneka sifumane amantombazana kusapho lwethu."
Kate Hudson - Hollywood
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-Makhe uye kwi-facamed. Ukuba unomntwana wesine kwixesha elizayo, ngubani ongumfana okanye intombazana?
Ewe, andikhathali. Ubuncinci nentombazana enye endinayo, ndaye ndawaqhuba nomsebenzi. (Uhleka.)
- Kwaye nguwuphi umama? Ngaba ingqinile okanye yonke ivumela abantwana?
-Ndiza kuqala ndazala xa ndandineminyaka engamashumi amabini. Bendifuna ukwahlukana, ndingabi yinto yokusondeza. Ke ndingenako ukungqongqo kwengqongqo nangayiphi na indlela. Kwaye andizange ndinyamezele xa ndandisasazwa, indlela yokufundisa abantwana. Ndifuna ukuzifumana. Kwaye xa ndenza iimpazamo, ndazama ukufunda kubo. Ngendlela efanayo, ndifundisa kwaye oonyana bam abahlali kwisiketi sikamama, kodwa bafunda ngokuzimela ihlabathi. Mhlawumbi intombi iya kwahluka. Kodwa umntu uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo-ndiza kuthi kwangoko, kamsinya nje xa sele ekhulile: "Ungaze uvumele abantu ukuba benze ntoni na. Yiya, njengoko intliziyo yakho ixelelayo, kwaye ndiyanixhasa kuyo yonke into. "
- Ipholile ithi! Yeyiphi eyona cebiso ibaluleke kakhulu ikunike umama, golide?
-Onwabile, kwakhona, umbuzo malunga noMama. (Uncumo.) Ukunyaniseka, ndicelwe kuye kuko konke udliwanondlebe. Kodwa emva kwayo yonke loo nto, utata, uKurt Russell, nenkanyezi! Kutheni kungekho mntu ukhumbula ngaye?
UKate Hudson akakoyiki uvavanyo ngembonakalo
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-Ukulinda ...
- Owu, awukwazi ukubuza ukuba kutheni ndibiza i-kurt pope, nangona enyanisweni uluhlu-ntsapho lwam. OKO ayisiyondawo yokubhuka. Ufuna ukubuza ngayo? Ngamafutshane, ndiza kuphendula. (Winks.) Abazali baphambuka xa ndandineminyaka nje nesiqingatha, kodwa ndandikhawuleza kakhulu kubomi bukaMama, uKurt wavela. Waqala ukusivusa, kwaye mna nomntakwethu safunda ukumbona njengotata. Kwaye utata wam wokwenene, uBill Hudson, ebesoloko engazi nakuthi. Ewe, oh kakuhle, masithethe ngomama nombuzo wakho wokuqala. Andikwazi ukwabela icebiso elinye, kuba sonke sithetha ngayo - zombini ubomi bobuqu, kunye nomsebenzi wam, kunye nawo nawuphi na amashishini akho. Ndisoloko ndibuzwa: "Uhlala njani ujongeka ungonwaba ngalo lonke ixesha?" Ewe, siyindalo yonke. Sobabini asingomandla kulo lonke unxano. Esi sisipho esikhethekileyo, kwaye ndiyavuya ukuba waya kwelifa ukusuka kumama. Yonke indawo abayibhalayo ukuba sisondele kakhulu kuye. Kwaye le yinyaniso epheleleyo. Kodwa akukho mntu wenzayo izimanga kuba kutheni. Ngaba ufuna ukwazi umbono wam? Kubonakala kum ukuba sobudlelwane obuhle obuhle, kuba umama wayesoloko endinika inkululeko yokuba nam, engazange adale nantoni na. Ngapha koko, abakaze bafunde isimilo ne-kurt, oko kukuthi, ukubuyela kumbuzo wakho, abazange banike ingcebiso kwilizwi. Sasisoloko sinxibelelana ngokupheleleyo nabantu abadala, apho wonke umntu wavakalisa isikhundla sakhe, kodwa akazange alele ebomini bomnye umntu.
"Ukuba ayingabi ngumama, emva koko uthile waphembelela umsebenzi wakho kwaye wanika ingcebiso ... awuzange uye kuyo yonke into?
-Ngokunyaniseka nokubuza eli cala. Nangona kunjalo, ndakwazi ukusebenza nenani elikhulu labantu abamangalisayo ekwabele umntu omnye - umsebenzi onzima. Kodwa, mhlawumbi, owokuqala owayenempembelelo kum yayingumphathi wamaCameron. Yayinguye owayengoyiki ukundinika indima enkulu kwifilimu "iphantse yaziwa." Uyakhumbula ukuba ndinike umhlaba weGolden? (Winks.) Kodwa, enyanisweni, ayikaze iphelelwe kum. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, osebenza nabani kwaye onokwabelana nabo ngoobani. Ke ngoko, ndinombulelo ongazenzisiyo kwabo badibana nam kwiseti, bonke aba bantu babenempembelelo enkulu kum njengomdlali nendoda.
Ngoku i-Kate yonwabile ngemveliso Danny Fujikava
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-Uyinto entle kakhulu kubo bonke. Kodwa emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kukho neemeko ezingathandekiyo ebomini bakho? Uhlangabezana njani nabo?
-Ndim, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba indlu yam sisifungo sam, apho ndingasoloko ndiphumla kwaye ndiphumla njani. Ndakuba ndixelelwe ukuba, ndisakha ipiramidi yobomi, kuya kufuneka uhlale ulwalamano neqabane lakho, abantwana kunye nabazali ngaphambili. Ke zonke ezinye izinto sele zihamba. Kuphela kule meko, impilo yakho yengqondo iya kuba ngolungelelwano. Kodwa ukuba ukutyhala ubomi bakho kunye nokuncokola nezalamane kwisicwangciso esikude, ke akukho nto ilungileyo iya kuphuma. Kulungile, uya kuhlala kwi-antidepressants. Ke ngoko, ndizama ukuhlala ndinikela ingqalelo kakhulu ebantwaneni bam, indoda nabantwana bam. Kwaye umsebenzi uyalandelwa. Ngapha koko, xa yonke into ihamba kakuhle ekhaya, kwaye isebenza kube lula. Yonke into ibonakala yenzekile yedwa. Kwaye ukuba sithetha ngezinto ezisebenzayo ezininzi, ke ndenzele eyona ndlela iphambili yokulwa ne-gonoting kukucamngca. Yonke imihla.
-Uthetha ntoni ngokuziphilisa? Ngaba uyamazi?
Ewe kunjalo, uqhelene. Kuphela yirobhothi enokuthi uhlala ethembekile, kwaye ndingumntu nje oqhelekileyo nobuthathaka bam. Xa ndiziva ndixhalabile, ndiyazibuza: "Kutheni iqhubeka? Siyintoni isizathu? " Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, enyanisweni, ingcambu ayinakuba kuko konke ukuba ucinga kuqala. Umzekelo, ndoyika kakhulu ukucula ebantwini. Ndikhuhle owoyikekayo, uloyiko olubi! Kwaye kunjalo kanye ndade ndaqala ukuqonda, sisiphi isizathu selabia. Kwaye ndakhumbula indlela ebuntwaneni bam bendidlaka ukucula ngeholide, kwaye ndandinentloni kakhulu. Oko ukusuka apho yonke into ihambile. Ke ndaqala ukucula ezinye iingoma ngelixa ndilungiselela usapho lwangokuhlwa, kwaye uloyiko oluhamba kancinci. Ngoku ndinalo nesitudiyo sam somculo. Ngendlela, umntakwethu u-Oliver uyathanda ukuphinda ukuba ungaqinisekanga ngokwakho - ihlabathi lihlala izigidi zeebhiliyoni zabantu ezisithoba zabantu abakhupha kakhulu. (Uhleka.)
I-Hudson ayifihli ukukhulelwa kwakhe okwesithathu
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-Bantwana abathathu, ikhaya, umsebenzi - unamaxesha onke?
-Ndimele ndavuma ukuba umntu akalawulwa. Qiniseka ukuba uyanceda. Kucacile ukuba andithethi nge-Nyan. Ukuba unemali, awuyi kuziguqula. Kukho kancinci malunga nomhlobo. Ndithetha ukuba abantu, ngamanye amazwi - izalamane nabahlobo. Akukho sidingo sokuba neentloni ukuzisebenzisa. Masithi: Abantu zizilwanyana, ngoko ke simele sikwazi ukuhlala emhlambini. Kwaye akukho sidingo sokuzama ukuba luhlobo lomfazi omangalisayo xa unokucela uncedo. Oku kusebenza nakubantu. Umzekelo, umntakwethu uOliver phantse rhoqo ngempelaveki uza kuqhuba abantwana kum kwaye bakhwele kwishishini. Ndihlala ndimnceda. Kwaye ngendlela efanayo, uya kuza: ukuba ndifuna ukususa, i-ollie iya kufuna umntwana. Ukongeza, sihlala kwimizuzu emihlanu omnye komnye.
- Yeyiphi into yokuqala oyenzayo xa uvuka?
-Undivuke-ndiza kuba ngabantwana. Andikhumbuli konke konke xa ndikwazi ukuzuka. Ke into yokuqala endiyenzayo izama ukuvuka. (Ukuhleka.) Kuluncedo kakhulu kwiiklasi. Ndizama rhoqo kusasa ubuncinci imizuzu elishumi ukuyisebenzisa. Kwaye emva koko ukuqalisa kokuqukwa: Unyana omnye akayi kuxubha amazinyo, owesibini uye wachitha impahla ngaphesheya kwaye akafuni ukubaqokelela, ngoku akongeza intombi ... kwaye ungazenza ndifumane isidlo sakusasa. Kuyinyani, kusafuneka ndilawule ukuze yimperi, hayi into engeyiyo.
-Ukusebenza njani yonke le nto? Ungumnini-moya wokwenene. Ukongeza kumsebenzi osebenzayo ophumeleleyo, usabhala iincwadi, wenza uyilo lwezemidlalo ... aludwelisi nje.
- Kwaye emva koko kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba ndiphantse ndaphantse ndaba namashumi amane. Ndifundile ukufunda indlela yokwakha imida yam. Kubonakala ngathi ndigqitha igunya. Nanny, mzalwana, mama-baya kuhlala bendibeka endaweni yam xa kufuneka ndenze ishishini. Kwaye ndijonga nje kwenye into, kwaye ke andinakundiphazamisa. Ukuba umntu akamlinganisi- zezi ziingxaki zabo. (Ukuhleka.) Izinto ezoyikekayo ziya kuba nexesha lokuba nezinto eziliwaka okwethutyana, kodwa akunakwenzeka. Ke ngoko, akunamsebenzi ukuba ufuna ukuchitha ixesha lam, kodwa kuyimfuneko ukufumana izixhobo zomsebenzi omnye. Ndiyazidinga ngokwakho. Ke ndivakalelwa kukuba ndisebenzisa ebomini. Xa ndidubula kwimovie, ndaye ndavumela ukuba ndiqonde ukuba ngoku ngumsebenzi wam wokuqala. Ke ngokuqinisekileyo ndiza kuhlawula zonke iintsapho, kodwa ngoku ingqalelo igqunywe ngomnye. Ngaphambili, ndandingayazi indlela yokutshintsha, ndihlala ndikhathazeke ukuba ndinemvakalelo, kodwa kwiminyaka edlulileyo ndinazo ezi zakhono.
Kwaye ngoku i-orporess yahlulwe kunye nabalandeli kunye nemifanekiso yentombazana esandul 'ukuzalwa
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-Ndixelele indlela onamava ngayo? Ngapha koko, nonyana wakho bobabini kuotata obahlukeneyo: Rider kwiChris Robinson, noBhingham bavela kuMateyuslah. Kwakunzima ukuqala yonke into ngendlela entsha?
Andizukuxoka kuwe. Ewe, sisanxibelelana noChris noMateyu. Ngenxa yabantwana kufuneka bayenze. Kodwa, kanye, ukuba besinengxaki entle, ngendingazange ndijongane nazo. Kuyavela, zazikho iingxaki, kwaye iingxaki zibaluleke kakhulu kangangokuba asinakuhlala kunye. Kwaye oku kuyaziwa. I-gap ihlala ibuhlungu. Kodwa ukhetha kuphela, fihle ngomsindo okanye uxole kwaye uqhubeke. Ndakhetha yesibini. Xa iMatthews kwaye ndahlukana, savuma ukuba kunye noNyana wayesahlala esala tata kwaye wayenokunxibelelana naye kangangoko afunayo. Andizukuqinisa utata. Uyindoda elungileyo kwaye akazukuyila imbopheleleko, njengoko wayenzile utata. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba iintsapho ezihlala kunye "ngenxa yabantwana" - zisoyika nje ukuqala yonke into esuka kwiphepha elicocekileyo, kwaye kuphela abafihla emva kwabantwana. Abantwana abadingi mama nootata, abangamthandiyo ixesha elide, kodwa babandezeleka kuphela. Kuya kuba ngcono kakhulu ukwazi ukuba abazali bonwabile, indlela kwaye ngokwahlukeneyo kunokuba baphile kwimeko yentiyo kunye noxinzelelo. Ke ngoko, ndathabathela ukuba sijonge ubomi kunye noMateyu kwaye asihambelani kwizimvo zethu kwizimvo ezisisiseko, kwaye ndithathe inyathelo lokuya phambili. Ngokubanzi, yimbuleleni ngokuthe ngqo kubantwana, ndahlukane nabantu. Xa kwazalwa amazibulo am, ekugqibeleni ndafunda ukuba yintoni intsingiselo. Nakuphi na ubudlelwane bufuna umzamo rhoqo. Kunye "nomRoma" nomntwana - hayi. Imvakalelo yam yokukhwela ayisekho, uqhagamshelo lwethu alufuni ukomeleza izipho-zilapho apho, kwaye kunjalo. Kwakuyamanzi kangangokuba ndafumanisa uthando lokwenene.
-Ungathi ngoku wonwabile?
-Ndihlala ndiphindaphinda ukuba ulonwabo lubaluleke kakhulu. Kwimeko yam, inxulumene ngqo nemvakalelo yenkululeko yangaphakathi. Kodwa kwabanye abantu yonke into inokwahluka. Yile nto ndiyibhalayo ezincwadini zam. Into ekufuneka uyifumene eyakho. Ndingaxela kuphela malunga nento endisebenza ngayo, kodwa le ayisiyo iresiphi yethu. Ngamnye kufuneka ufunde "ukulungisa" ubomi bakho ngokwakho.
-Unjani umsebenzi wakho osongelayo. Ngaba uyathanda izinto ezothusayo?
- Ewe, ndiyamangalisa yonke imihla! Kwikomishini esebenzayo ayikho enye indlela. Le mpumelelo, isilele-kwaye kunjalo kwisangqa. Ungaze ucinge ukuba yeyiphi imuvi iya kudubula, kwaye ingozi iyasilela kwi-ofisi yebhokisi. Sele ndiqhele ukungazi kwanto kwangaphambili kwaye ndingakwenzi. Ubomi buya kugweba.