Nge-whims kunye neendlela ezicaphukisayo amaqabane, ubuso bonke, nje ukuba ixesha lonyaka loCharm olukhethiweyo lidluliswa emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa zolwalamano. Inye kuphela into engavanga ikhuselo lendlu yangasese kunye ne-cap ukusuka kwizinyo lezinyo kwaye lahluke ngokupheleleyo - ukubonisa indlela yokuziphatha ekhethiweyo. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, ukunyuka kwengqondo yeemvakalelo, kwaye isithandwa sakho sinokuhamba-isizathu sokuba upatshwe ziipateni ezichazwe ngezantsi, wena, kunjalo, ungajongi. Nazi imikhwa emihlanu enokutyhala iqabane lakho kwaye lenze umgama weemvakalelo:
Abagxeki ngaphezulu
I-Psychologist guy Vinci kudliwanondlebe ne-psychology namhlanje ithi i-80 pesenti yenyani yokuba uyibiza ngokunxulumene nalowo unyuliweyo, kufuneka ube ne-20 the tyholo yamagama (umzekelo, "ithuba lakho ngaphandle kwenkunkuma "). Ngamanye amabini, lo mlinganiselo wakhiwa ngokuchasene noko: Awuyi kuxelela indoda kwakhona, njengoko ivumba imimoya okanye indlela ovuya ngayo ukuba ucwangcisa ukungcola kwi-desktop. Xa elinye ilungu lesibini lihlala livakalisa ukungoneliseki kwabanye, inokusidinisa ngokupheleleyo iqabane eliqala ukuziva lingenamsebenzi kwaye elingeyomfuneko kuwe.
Ukugxekwa kwabo bathandekayo kukuthuka iimvakalelo zomntu
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Isango elinye
Ukuxoxa ngeengxaki kunye nokubonisa ukungabikho kusondela nje nje ukuba kuvela, kufuneka wonke umntu. Ingxaki kukuba ayinguye wonke umntu owaziyo ukuba enze le nto: Kwisibini, apho umntu anobukrelekrele, kwaye enye ikhula, iqabane lesibini livakala zero ngexesha lengxabano. Nikela ingqalelo ukuba iyazi na iimvakalelo zakho kwaye zithethe ngokunyaniseka ngazo. Ukuba akukhange kubenjalo, cebisa ukuba uye kwingqondo yengqondo okanye vumela ukuba ungayigwebi ngenxa yobuthathaka, kodwa xhasa umnqweno wokutyhila. Amadoda kunzima ngakumbi ukuvuma ukuba banomsindo, banekhwele, omona, lusizi, njengoko bengabalulekanga kakhulu kwezomfanekiso wendoda, engaqhelekanga kwezo mfanekiso. Ukuba awuwuchithi loo msebenzi, iqabane emva kwengxabano nganye luya kuva ukuba ilahlekile, kwaye oku akufuneki - inyani yoyiswa kwimbambano, hayi igunya.
Akukho luvelwano ngoxinzelelo lweemvakalelo
Xa elinye iqabane linexesha elinzima, kwaye elinye aliqapheli ukubandezeleka kwakhe okanye, kwaye libi, lize lilize 'ixhalabile' okanye "zithathe inxaxheba", amandla awanaphantsi nangaphantsi. Hayi kubahlobo nakwiintsapho, oko kukuthi, kwimkhulu, silinde ukubonakaliswa kwemfesane, nto leyo enokukholelwa kumandla abo. Ukubona ukungakhathali, umntu unesiphumo esivakalayo ongamkhathaleli kwaye ukhathazekile ngobomi bakho.
Ukutyeshela izikhalazo ezibalulekileyo
Nangona ukugxekwa rhoqo, njengoko besitsho ngasentla, siqonde ngokungafanelekanga, nangona kunjalo singazihoyi izikhalazo ezibalulekileyo zeqabane azikwazi. Iya kumenza azive enqatyiwe kwaye ashiywe ngaphandle kwengqwalaselo. Ukuba imigaqo yakho ayiphikisani into efuna umntu esimthandayo, yenza kwaye umnike ukuba athuthuzele ngokweemvakalelo. Ukuba awuvumelani nesicelo, ngaba uyawuthetha ngalo mzuzu kunye neqabane kwaye umyeke aqonde ukuba ungayikhathaleli, kodwa unembono eyahlukileyo.
Yanele ukuxhonywa kwifowuni
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Itekhnoloji
Uninzi lwethu luxhomekeke kwigajethi kwaye ubahlawule ngakumbi kunezihafu zawo yesibini. Unxibelelwano olusisigxina kwinethiwekhi nabanye abantu lubalisa intanda yakho malunga nento oyidinayo naye. Zama ukucima isandi sezaziso zenethiwekhi zentlalontle ubuncinci ngokuhlwa xa uchitha ixesha kunye. Ndikholelwe, kuya kukuxelela malunga nentlonipho yakho nomntu ongaphezulu kokubulela ngesipho okanye inani elingenasiphelo lweefoto ezinesiphene esivela kwintanda yakho.