Xa sicinga nge-daffodils, umfanekiso oqhelekileyo oza engqondweni ngumntu othanda ukuba liziko lokunikela ingqalelo, hambisa amampunge kunye nesidingo esicacileyo sokuqaphela. Nokuba zinjani na iingcango ezivaliweyo, zinokuthathwa ngaphandle kwaye zitsalele abantu kubo. Olu hlobo lwe-narcissus yi-narcissistry. Kukho, nangona kunjalo, olunye uhlobo lwe-narcissus ngulowo ongenakungena kumfanekiso wesibakala sokuba uninzi lwethu luthathela ingqalelo i-narcissist.
I-daffodis engekho mthethweni i-DAFFODS ide ikwangubuhlobo, zihlala zomelele kwaye zivaliwe. Nangona benokukhokelwa ziinkolelo kunye neemfuno ze "Gramary 'Arcissists, eyona nto iphambili kuyo ifihliwe phantsi kweqokobhe elikhuselayo. Ngelixa i-garcissist enkulu ibonakalisa isimo sakhe esidlangalaleni kwaye sikukhusela ngokunxibelelana naye, i-Narcissus esengozini inokwenza i-Smaug, yenzakalisa ngokuzonwabisa kwaye isuswe ziimvakalelo. Njengabaxhasi abaninzi abangamabhongo, i-narcissus engekho mngcipheko ine-ego ebuthathaka, kwaye ifuthe lokugxekwa okanye umnxeba kunokuba nefuthe elinzulu kakhulu kulo. Zonke ezi mpawu zinokwenza kube nzima kubudlelwane kunye neeDaffods ezihlelelekileyo:
Uhlala kwindawo yesibini
Ukuba unobudlelwane ne-DAFFODIL, baya kuhlala bekwindawo yokuqala. Banokutyesheka kakhulu kwaye kuya kufuneka banelise iimfuno zabo. Iimfuno zakho zinokuba ecaleni kwaye zingahoywa. Unokufumanisa ukuba kubudlelwane yonke into ihamba kakuhle ukuba uhlawula iqabane lakho uthando kunye nengqwalaselo apho ayifunayo, kodwa xa ugula okanye uyadingeka okanye ugula. Oku kuzimisela izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka kuthetha ukuba unokufumanisa ukuba iqabane lakho alikuphulanganisi nyani okanye aliyiqondi intsingiselo yento ozama ukuyidlulisela, kwaye idanile kwaye iyingozi kuzinzo lwengqondo kwakho.
Sukuthemba ukuba kanye umntu uya kuzisola
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Inkunkuma engenanto yamandla
Ukufumana ubudlelwane kunye ne-DAFFODIL esengozini yokuba iphele kuba efuna ngokweemvakalelo. I-Arcissist esengozini ifuna ukuba ubancede kwaye uxhase ubuchule babo obuyithandayo. Bahlala bedinga ukuzithemba kunye nengqwalaselo-xa ukufuphi kwaye uyondla ngeemvakalelo zakho, uya kuziphathela ngesiqhelo. Kodwa kufanelekile ukuya kwitheko kunye nabahlobo okanye ukushiya impelaveki yesixeko, njengoko eya kufuna ukuthatha inxaxheba ebomini bakhe, kwaye akazukunika ixesha lokuphumla.
Ukurhoxisa kwiinethiwekhi zakho ezinzima
I-DAFFODS EFLENCYIL zibandakanyeka kwinani lolwalamano olunobuchule kunye nobunzima nosapho kunye nabahlobo. Kwaye ngaphandle, unxibelelwano lwabo luya kubonakala luqinile, kodwa ngencoko esondeleyo phakathi kwakho ufumanisa ukuba umntu akanabuhlobo bakhe uphendula abo sibathandayo - usukele izenzo zabo, iinjongo zobomi, konke oko akuxhalabiyo. Ngelishwa, ezo zinto ziziphatha zihlala ziphawulwa kwiintsapho ezifanayo zesondo-apho umntwana ephakamisa umama okanye umama onomakhulu / umakhulu, ngenxa yoko akanayo imodeli yosapho kunye nolwalamano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Oku kuphakama konke konke ngenxa yoomama "ombi", kodwa, ngokuchasene noko, ukusuka kumnqweno womfazi ukuba amnike umntwana. Uguqula le modeli kubudlelwane bakhe obuzayo, ukukholelwa ngokunyaniseka ukuba umfazi ufanele akhonze. Kubantu abancinci abaselula, kukho isidima phakathi kwezixhobo kwimeko yentlalo kunye nokumelwa kwazo ngokungazi. Intombazana leyo ingazimela, kwaye ixhomekeke kuye, kwaye ibanda, kwaye kwangaxeshanye ngokomoya - kwilizwi, ke loo mntu uya kukhangela iqabane.
ngamanye amaxesha uthando lobuzelwe kakhulu luninzi kakhulu
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Sebenzisa i-tcript zungu
Unxibelelwano ne-DAFFODIL elisengozini inokuba lithuba kunye namava amakhulu. Banokuvuma kuthando olungonaphakade kwaye baxelele malunga nendlela oyifunayo. Nangona sonke sithanda ukuziva sixabisekile, unokuthi ngaxeshanye uzive ubaluleke ngokupheleleyo kwiqabane lakho - kukho ukungqubana phakathi kwamagama kunye nezenzo. Iqabane lakho lingaphembelela uthando kunye nengqwalaselo kwaye iwele ekucaphukiseni ukuba awuvumelani nayo yonke into ayithethayo. Banokwenza amabinzana athi "Ndiyazi ukuba awundithandi," ukuba andikufuni, masihlukane "ukuze sikukhuthaze ukuba siphinde sibuyele kwaye senze into abayifunayo. Ngamanye amagama, baya kukuchaphazela ngokweemvakalelo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokugcina.
Kwimali eseleyo
I-DAFFODS EDLULAMIL inobuthathaka kakhulu ekugxekeni ukuba naliphi na intetho yakho kungquzulwano kunokubakhuthaza ukuba bafumane ukuqhuma - nokuba izimvo zilungile kwaye zinezizathu ezifanelekileyo. Ekuqaleni, amabhinqa afana nokubonakaliswa kweemvakalelo, kuba entlokweni yabo ilingana nobuthathaka kwindoda. Owu, baphilile njani ... emva kwexesha elithile kulwalamano olunjalo uya kukuthambeka ukuba uqhawulwe yonke into oyithethayo ukuba ungabeka emngciphekweni wokuphendula okugqithisileyo. Le mpendulo ayisiyo isalathiso sobudlelwane obunempilo- ukunxibelelana nendoda eqhelekileyo onokuthi unyaniseke kwaye ungangoyiki ukuba naliphi na amabinzana akho aya kuthathwa kwintliziyo yakho.