"Phatha uMkhonzi weziyobisi kuphela!"
UAlina Maksimovskaya, iGosa leNkonzo yeNtlalontle "uClene" kunye noNarcodispeanser No. 12. Lowo uqhelekileyo, inkonzo kuphela eMoscow ibandakanyeka " Akukho lula ukungena kwisibhedlele seziyobisi, ayizukusebenza ngemini enye. Nanku umsebenzi ka-Alina - ukunciphisa ngeli xesha ubuncinci.
-Indlela eqhelekileyo awasabela ngayo abazali xa bebona ukuba umntwana wabo usebenzisa ogqirha kunye neefreeppers! " Kukholelwa ukuba emva kwesibhedlele, umntu uya kuba ulungile. Kodwa kuphela ngeendlela zonyango akunakwenzeka ukusombulula ingxaki! Esi sifo sisifo esinzima, sintsonkothileyo, kwaye siyimfuneko ukunyanga kuphela ngokugqibeleleyo: I-Detox, iCounition, iNgcebiso ye-Precturiataltaltaltaltaltionaltaltaltaltaltaltaltaltaltaltaltaltaltionaltaltaltaltaltionaltaltaltionaltational, i-Sodictaus yeziyobisi.
- kwaye ndiza kuqala phi?
-Ukuba abazali, kuya kufuneka ufumane ifowuni yasimahla-ngoku "imigca eshushu" iphakathi koDranson ngamnye weziyobisi. Masithi qaphela ukuba kwenzeka into eyenzekayo - kwizindlu zeNdlu inyamalale, kodwa umntu uyayiphikisa yonke into. Kwaye kuya kufuneka ubhekise kwiingcali kwaye uqonde ukuba kwenzeka ntoni. Ewe, eyona nto ixhomekeke ekubeni iqondeke - nokuba unomnqweno wokuphathwa.
- Mangaphi amaziko onyango lwe-ciscow eMoscow?
-Izibhedlele ezintathu zeNqula - i-MNPC narcology ("ilitye lesibane", isibhedlele Nombolo 19), isibhedlele Nombolo 19), isibhedlele Nombolo 19), isibhedlele № 17 nesebe layo e-Annino. Kukho i-rigor, enyanisweni, enye ne-mnps narcology. Ukufika kulungiso ngaphandle kokupasa kuqala i-distoxtion ayinakwenzeka.
Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuya esibhedlele, ulungiselelwe umatshini we-bureaucral- kufuneka uqokelele amaxwebhu. Seta elandelayo.
Abahlali baseMoscow. Ipasipoti okanye ireferensi, endaweni yayo. Ngaphandle kwepasipoti, awuyi kuthathwa ngonyango. Okulandelayo: I-POPIS okanye iphepha lethutyana elinenombolo eya kuzaliswa yiyo. Isalathiso esivela kwi-narcologist (kodwa kwiziyobisi ze-MNPC, ungafika "ngokwakho" kwaye ubhale ingxelo apho). Iziphumo zohlalutyo lwe-syphilis kunye ne-HIV-kwi-ofisi engaziwayo ayamkelwa! I-Fluorogram okanye ikhuphe kwikhadi kunye neziphumo zophando lokugqibela. Kodwa, ngokomgaqo, ngoku ezibhedlele zezibhedlele ze-narical likho ithuba lokwenza ifluography.
Ukuba kukho ithumba okanye ukulandelwa kongenelelo lotyando lwamva nje - isatifikethi sotyando ukuba akukho zithintelo zokunyangwa. Ukuba lo mfazi ukhulelwe - isatifikethi esivela kwi-gynecologist, ukuba isibhedlele asiphumeleli (kodwa uninzi lwabo aluyi kuthatha ukukhulelwa). Ukuba kukho i-HIV, iskimu sonyango esipeyintiweyo siyafuneka ukuba umntu sele enamayeza. Ngendlela, intsholongwane kaGawulayo ngoku ithatha naliphi na ixesha - kwakutshanje kwabakho izithintelo.
Ukuba awunalo ubhaliso lwe-moscow, masithi uvela kwingingqi yeMoscow. Ukongeza kumaxwebhu adwelisiweyo, ufuna i-T. N. "Ikhuphoni epinki" - Ulwalathiso oluvela kwiSebe lezeMpilo leMoscow. Ukwenza oku, thatha ukhokelo oluvela kwi-narcologist yakho, emva koko uqhagamshelane nesibhedlele i-MOSCOW Narcorical kwaye uthathe ingxelo ofuna uncedo, kwaye ilungele ukubonelela. Kwaye ngale nto, wonke umntu uya kwiSebe lezeMpilo.
I-narcology ayithathi: ngaphandle kwamaxwebhu, kunye nezifo zobushushu kunye nezifo ezingapheliyo: isifo seswekile, isilonda. Abafazi abakhulelweyo.
- Yonke le nto iyimfuneko ukuya kwi-detox. Kwaye ingakanani i-over?
Iintsuku ezingama-21-28. Emva koko umntu ohlelwa nguThixo ukuba awele ekuvuseleleni. Okwangoku, umntu unyango, kuyafuneka ukusebenza nezalamane. Kwaye oku kunzima kakhulu kuneendlela ezixhomekeke kubo. Kwenzekayo kusapho isihloko samachiza sivaliwe kangangokuba sineentloni nokuba kulwazi kulwazi olungenamsebenzi ukuya. ... Inkqubo yemigangatho ephindwe kabini: Utywala - Ngokwesiqhelo, inkohliso - ihlazo.
- Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukuqokelela onke la maphepha?
-Ipesenti enkulu yokuxhomekeka ayifikeleli esibhedlele ngenxa yokungabikho kwabo. Ngokuqinisekileyo la maxwebhu abalulekile. Kodwa ukuba uziqokelela ngokwakho, kuyakuthatha okungenani iintsuku ezintathu-iholide, usuku olungamkelekanga, ungamkeleki ngokukhawuleza kwiphepha. Kwaye kubomi balowo uxhomekeke kwiintsuku ezintathu nantoni na enokwenzeka - ukubanjwa, ukuphanga, ukohlukana ngokweemvakalelo, kwatshintsha nje ingqondo yakhe. Ngakumbi ukuba lo ngumntu okhululekileyo kwaye akanamaxwebhu. Umntu ongoyiki iziyobisi ngaphandle koncedo kunzima ukuba uye kule ndlela iyo yonke. Kodwa kwi-ASH yethu "kukho inkonzo ehambahambayo - unontlalontle uyakunceda ekuqokelele amaxwebhu, ukwenza uhlalutyo, ulukhokelela ngokoqobo umntu esibhedlele.
Iphupha lethu eliluhlaza kukwenza inkqubo yokuhamba ngenyameko igubungela i-moscow ngohlobo "iwindow enye". Ke inani labantu abafumene unyango lweziyobisi, benyukile ngokwenene.
"Ukuzijonga ngokunyaniseka kwaye ube kufutshane"
Intombazana ye-Irina ayisebenzisi iziyobisi iminyaka emi-4. I-Irina ngokwakhe iza kumaqela abazali bezilobisi zeziyobisi "Nan-Abn" nako. Njengalo nawuphi na umzali, ukholelwe ukuba kwakuyimfuneko ukuqalisa ngokukhangela kwiziko lentombi yakhe. Kodwa kuyavela, kwakuyimfuneko ukuqala nam.
- Ndenze ntoni kwaye zeziphi iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo ezenza bazali? Kwaye ke akukho algorithm - xa ndicinga ngam xa ndimamele abanye, ndiyaqonda ukuba wonke umntu unendlela eyahlukileyo. Kodwa xa ndifunda ngokunyaniseka ndizijonga ngokunyaniseka kunye nobomi bam, kuyacaca ngakumbi kum.
-Uyintoni - "Ulindile Ngokunyaniseka"?
-Baninzi abayi kuyiqonda intsingiselo. Ndakhe ndakhatywa, kwaye nam, njengabanye izalamane zabo baxhomekeke, kwakungaqondakali. Kwabonakala kum lolo ncedo kukwenza into, njengommiselo, umntu. Kwaye kufuneka usondele kuye, ungazenzi zonke izinto.
... Kwasekuqaleni, xa ndafumanisa ukuba kuxhomekeke kumntwana wam, wathi: "Mama, awuboni ukuba konke oku akubonakali?" Wayethetha ubomi bethu kunye naye. Kwaye ndandiyidinga iminyaka emininzi ukuze ndijonge ubomi bam kunye nolwalamano lwethu kwaye ndiyazamkela: Ewe, kuninzi kakhulu. Khange ndiqaphele ixesha elide ukuba bekungenakwenzeka ukuba kungaboni, ndenze ukuba yonke into yayiyinto yonke "nangaphantsi." Emva kwexesha ndamangaliswa xa intombi yam ivumile: "Ewe, mama, bendiqinisekile ukuba ndiza kufaka yonke into ezandleni zam!"
Intombi emva kweyona nto ibeka izinto zokuhlaziya, kodwa ngokwenene ubudlelwane bethu buye baqala ukuphucula iliso lam, nje xa ndikhangela ukuba intombi yam ikhule, idla ngokukhulisa imingxunya, ukunciphisa iingxaki. Kwaye, ewe, kwakuba kubi kangangokuba ndaye ndacinga kakuhle. ... Kwaye ngoku ndibona iimeko xa abazali benika imali kwiziyobisi, bona baze bafumane bathi: "Uya kufa ngaphandle kwawo." Intlungu yesifo iyaqhubeka, kwaye abazali baza ngokuziphatha kwabo, nabo, becinga ukuba bayazi kakuhle ... ndibona ukuba, njengam ofileyo, bengazi ukuba benze ntoni.
Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqesha ulwazi oluninzi malunga nesi sifo, malunga nendlela ekuchaphazela ngayo indlela yokuziphatha kwabaxhomekeke kubo nakwiindlela ezikufuphi.
Njengoko ndafunda ukuzijonga ngokunyaniseka, yonke into yaqala ukuphucula. Emva kokuziphindezela, intombi yayixinezelekile kakhulu, kwakunzima kakhulu ixesha. Ndaye ndafunda ngendlela entsha yokuba kufutshane (ngaphandle kolawulo, ukugcinwa, nditsho, ukukhohlisa, njl njl.), Ukubona ngokunyaniseka. Umzekelo, ngesihloko "Kutheni uphila?". Kwakungekho lula kum. Kodwa ukunyaniseka, ubushushu, ukuqonda kwabuyiselwa kulwalamano lwethu. Kum, olu luvuyo olukhulu.
Kwaye ngoku, xa ezinye iingxaki zinengxaki, uyabaleka, kwaye ndimamele ngenyameko, kwaye ndimamele ngenyameko, kwaye ndimamele, kodwa andiyenzi uncedo kwaye andizami ukuba ndizithathe. Ewe, uthatha isigqibo, indlela aqala ngayo ngalo mzuzu. Kodwa kufana nabo bonke abanye. Kukho ukukhula. Umntu uqala ukuhlonela yena, uyavuya kuba unento yokwenza, kwimvakalelo yamandla akhe omntu ohlala.
- Ngaba ikhona icebiso eliqingqiweyo kubazali?
Ewe, ewe, ikho. Ndizama ukuhlala ndibakhumbula, bandinceda kakhulu. Babizwa ngokuba: "Yintoni omele uyenze kwaye angakwenzi ntoni?"
- Zama ukuhlala udibana nakuphi na iziyobisi kwinqanaba lokucela uncedo.
- Khumbula ukuba kufuneka uphephe kwaye ubone okuhle kwabanye abantu nakwisiqu sakho.
-Ungathathi ityala ngezenzo zabanye abantu.
-Angayeki, musa ukuphikisana, ungafundisi isimilo kwaye ungazikhumbuli iimpazamo eziphosakeleyo ngaphambili (nabanye abantu).
-Angazami ukukhusela, gubungela okanye ugcine isikhombisi seziyobisi kwiziphumo.
-Ungayinciphisi ukuzithemba kwakho kwaye ungabi yindwangu esula imilenze.
- Khumbula ukuba isiyobisi sisifo, kunye nokungaphumeleli ngokuziphatha.
-Ndityelele amaqela okunceda izalamane?
- Ewe. "Qalisa inkqubo yokubuyisa ngaphandle kweziyobisi ezichithayo, kodwa ngokwakho. Ndwendwela amaqela e-ATAn kwaye ufunde ukunceda eliziyobisi esongezekayo. "
Ngeliphi na isizathu esithile ukuba andinakufuna okanye ndingafuni ukuya kwiqela, ndazixelela: Apha awungomntu uxhomekekileyo wemichiza, kodwa ungayi kwiqela. Ungalinda njani umntu oxhomekeke kubuchwephesha ukuba afumane kwakhona ?! Kwaye le (njalo!) Indincedile ukuba ndoyise ubuvila, ukungafuni, ukudana, ukungakhathali, ukungakhathali. Zonke zixhunyiwe.
- Ngaba kulula ukuba 'singayithathi uxanduva'?
-Ixhala liyingozi. Ndigxothe iingcinga ezingathandekiyo ngalo lonke ixesha kunokuba ndikhumbule ukuba bobabini bendinayo nomntwana wam wayenendlela yakhe. Ndaphazamisa ixhala kakhulu. Ndacinga yonke into: "Kuthekani ukuba kukho into eyenzekileyo!" Kodwa kwenzekayo. Ke, ixhala alincedanga.
-Bazali mabangakuqondi: kwenzeka njani ukuba bayeke ukukhathazeka?
-Ekufanele ukuba kubekho ixesha lokufezekisa iimpazamo zakho. Kwaye banengcambu enzulu kakhulu. Amaqela amaninzi akhumbule ukuba yayinjani kwiintsapho zabo, njengoko babexhomekeke kubazali babo.
- Kwaye uyakhumbula ukuba banjani bona kwiminyaka emi-4 eyadlulayo?
Ewe, ndikhumbula kakuhle kakhulu. Ukutshayela ngokupheleleyo, ukuphelelwa lithemba, isizungu, isizungu, imvakalelo embi yengxaki kunye netyala ... ndikhumbula ngalo lonke ixesha ndibona umntu okokuqala. Kodwa, njengoko besitsho, "akukho ngxaki ingenakupheliswa, kwaye akukho meko ingenakuphuculwa." Ukusuka emazantsi entliziyo yam ndifuna ukwabelana ngethemba nabo bafuna uncedo! Awuwedwa, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuyifumana!