Ulwalamano oluhambelana nalo alunakukhiwa ngaphandle kokusebenza kuwo kumacala omabini, kodwa xa elinye lamaqabane linengxaki yokuphazamiseka kwengqondo, kuya kuba nzima ukudala imeko elungileyo. Ngapha koko, ukwamkela i-psychopath kuhlala kulula kangako - umntu uhlala emhle kakhulu kwaye engakrokrela de ungene naye ngokuvalelana naye. Kwaye okwangoku, njani ukwahlula umlinganiswa onzima kwingxaki yokwenyani? Sigqibe kwelokuba sifumanise.
Uzibeka ngaphezulu kwakho
Le psychopath ayiyi kuvumela ukuba iqabane lakhe ligqithe kuye. Uya kuhlala uva amabinzana athi: "Awungekhe wenze nantoni na," "Ngubani ongenguye ngaphandle kwam," njalo njalo. Yonke le nto yenziwe ngenjongo enye, ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho kwaye zikwazise ukuxhomekeka. Wena awuyi kubona indlela owaqala ngayo ukukholisa i-psychopapa yaseSyrimati.
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Uhlolwe ngokungakhathali
Into kuphela, kwaye olo lwalamano lubuhlungu, kunye nolwalamano olunge-tyhuti , kwaye awuyiqondi into eyenzekileyo. Okubi ngakumbi, ukungakhathali kuhlala kuphuma elubulalelweni. Imvakalelo enjalo ngokweemvakalelo intle imbi kakhulu i-psyche.
Akaze ayikhumbuli ityala lakhe
Njengoko besitshoyo, amandla phezu komthendeleko ubalulekile kwi-psychopath, kwaye ukugcina igunya, wayengathandekiyo lokuqonda ubugwenxa nako. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba isiqingatha sakho sesibini sinetyala ngokwenene, kuya kufuneka ugxeke-kuba uyinqambi kwityala kuzo zonke iingxaki kubudlelwane. Lumka kwimizuzwana, kufuneka banilumkise.
Ubuphwela isimo sengqondo esihle
Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, iqabane liya kwenza zonke ii-whims zakho, zinike izipho kwaye zikuvulise nasiphi na isizathu. Nangona kunjalo, musa ukukhawuleza ukuba nemihlali - nje ukuba ubudlelwane bakho bube kufutshane okanye niyamtshato, i-psychopath izakugcwala. Eyona njongo iphambili yokuzama kwakhe ukuphuculwa - ukwenza ukuba uphulukane nokuhlala uphonononga, emva koko uyenze ithobele ngokupheleleyo, xa iya kuba kudala kakhulu ukuba ungayi kuthulula ubudlelwane.
Iya kutshintsha
Umntu ongaqhelananga noqhotyoshelweyo kunye neemvakalelo ezinzulu ngokukhawuleza upholile kwaye uqala ukukhangela "idini" elitsha lokutya iimvakalelo. Njengoko izibalo zibonisa, ngaphezu kwesiqingatha sabo bonke utshintsho lwenzeka kubudlelwane, apho elinye amaqabane yi-psychopath. Ngokukhawuleza xa 'edlala ", inoveli ephilelweyo ayizukufumana, kodwa uya kukhangela kwangoko ukukhangela" amachaphaza amatsha. "