Bonke abantwana bayathanda ukudlala, kodwa akukho mntu uthanda ukucoca iithoyi emva kwabo. Abanye abazali kufuneka benze wonke umntu oonodoli kunye neemoto ebhasikithini, abanye abayenzi ukuba bazenze - abantwana baqalise ukungasebenzi kakuhle, ke abantu abadala kulula ukwenza yonke into ngokwabo. Ngaba ufuna ukutshintsha imeko? Sikunika iingcebiso ezicetyiswayo ziingcali zengqondo indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlelele.
Veza kumzekelo wakho
Ukuba usetyenziselwa ukuthambisa inkunkuma kwi-engile, usonge ingubo yendawo etyumkileyo, ke musa ukumangaliswa kukuba umntwana uya kwenza okufanayo. Ewe kunjalo, siyazigxininisa ukuba isibuko somntwana sibonisa indlela yokuziphatha yomzali. Iingcali zengqondo zithi eyona ndlela yokutshintsha indlela yokuziphatha komntwana kukutshintsha ngokwakho. Kubalulekile ukubiza izenzo zakho ngaphandle kweminyaka yobudala. Ukuba umntwana wakho uneminyaka emi-1-2 ubudala, uthi: "Umama wonga iithoyi endaweni yokuba igumbi licocekile kwaye lihle." Kwincoko nomntu okwishumi elivisayo, kungcono ukugxininisa ukuba iodolo egumbini ichaphazela imveliso yezifundo nentuthuzelo.
Sukususa iikhotshi ngokwabo
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Phuma kunye
Umoya odibeneyo uyatyhala ngezinto ezenziwayo. Ungaqala ukuphuma komgangatho, kwaye umntwana unikwa ukuba usule uthuli kwaye ugalele iintyatyambo. Ngokuthe ngcembe wandisa "umthwalo", tshintsha uhlobo lomsebenzi. Ke kuya kuba lula kuye ukuba aqhele ukuzalisekiswa kwemisebenzi ejikeleze indlu. Nangona kunjalo, abanye abantwana bathanda okungakumbi, xa imisebenzi ethile ihleli emva kwayo - ukwenza inkunkuma, hlamba izitya okanye i-Iron. Akukho kwimeko awayikhuthazi abantwana ukuba basebenze nemali okanye imvume yokuhamba. Ngaphandle koko, baya kuqhela umntu ukuba abanike "ibhonasi" ngayo nayiphi na imisebenzi enokuthi ubomi bokwenyani bungenakuchaphazeleka. Uncedo lomntwana lusekelwe kuxanduva lomntu kunye nomnqweno wokunceda abazali.
Eyona nto inokwenzeka yokufaka isicelo yi-analogue yemikhwa yetracker. Beka iphepha eliqulathekileyo kwaye uzobe kwiiseli ezilinganayo, zisayine imihla. Kwiiseli ezihambelana nemihla, glulisa izincamathelisi ukuba umntwana uyanceda ngokucocwa. Ndicebisa ukuba ayenze ngokwakho, ngokufuthi abantwana iiklasi ezinjalo.
Sukuhlala kwizenzo ezigqithisileyo
Izisongelo, iingcikivo kunye nokuphosa izinto zomntu phantsi - hayi amanyathelo aphezulu okukhulisa. Abantwana banolwazelelelo, ngakumbi ubudala. Ukophula imida yabo, akuyi kuba ngomnye, kodwa utshaba. Ngubani owathi umzali eyinkokeli? Yiba ngumcebisi kunye nomncedisi, ke uyakufumana ukubuya kakuhle emntwaneni. Izisongelo kwisitayile "ngoku ziya kuza noTata, kwaye ndiza kukuxelela yonke into.
Umntwana kufuneka aqhele ingcinga yokuba ufuna ukucoca ekhaya
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Indumiso phambi kwabanye
Vumelana nezalamane kunye nabahlobo bosapho ukuba baya kugxila koko kucoceko olufanelekileyo kwiNdlu xa beza kutyelela. Kwaye uyabadlala, uya kuphendula ukuba umntwana uyakunceda ngokucoca. Ndikholelwe, kulungile. Ewe, kwaye indumiso evela ebantwini athandayo kwaye ihlonipha, iya kuba yinto eyongezelelweyo yokuqhubeka nokugcina i-odolo egumbini.
Sinethemba lokuba icebiso lethu liya kukunceda ubenzele umkhwa. Yibani neenkani, yonke into iya kuphuma. Ngokuthe ngcembe, umntwana uza kuqhela kwingcinga yokuba iyimfuneko ukucoca igumbi kwigumbi elingasebenzi kakuhle.