Ikhona I-2 polacy:
Eyona ixhaphakileyo yile Abazali be-hyperopka . Umntwana akakabikho ixesha lokuzama, fumanisa ukuba umhlaba ujikeleze, kwaye sele iguqulwe macala onke: "Phila i-bolyak! Kuyingozi ... ungaboyiki ... abantwana abalungileyo abafiki, awufuni kucaphukisa uMama? " njl njl. NaMama, ngokukodwa, jikeleza umntwana ngenkxalabo yokuba ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kuye ukufumanisa into ayifunayo. Indlela enjalo icinezela inyathelo lokuqala kwingcambu, yenza umntwana axhomekeke kwaye aziphathe. Kwaye xa ekhula, uziva enomphefumlo wakhe umthwalo wetyala elingabhatali: Umama utyekelelwe kakhulu kuye, ndanika iminyaka ebalaseleyo. Ke ngoko, ngenzondelelo, enokwaziwa, iqala ukunika eli tyala. Ungadibana neentombi ezingama-30, ongavumi ukuba ekulonwabo kwaye uhambo oluya kubahlobo ngeempelaveki ukuze athathe umama kwilizwe, okanye athethe iiyure zemihla ngemihla ngefowuni, ukuze umama anesithukuthezi. Bazalela abantwana babo kwaye banike oomama ukuba baqaqambe imihla ngemihla kwaye baphinde bafumane imfuneko yomntu. Phakathi kwabafazi kunye nabantu sisikhundla esiqhelekileyo. Umama wayenguye kwaye uhleli linombolo. Yena nomhlobo, kunye noMama, kunye neqabane ebomini, nayo yonke into esehlabathini. Uninzi lwabazali lwabazali abalikhule kwigazi alusonjululwa ukuba luqale iintsapho zabo. Ukuze umama adanise imizamo yakho yokwakha ubomi bakho, kwaye uhlala ekhululekile kubazali bakho. Ezinye iintsapho zinokwenza iintsapho zazo, kodwa zihlala zihlala kwixhala, ngalo lonke ixesha itshekhi. Kanci mncinci, bakulungele ukuyeka zonke izinto nokufumana abazali ukubanceda, kwanaxa bengenzi nto ngempilo yabo ephelileyo.
Ukhetho lwesibini Iintsapho apho abantwana basukuma njengabangaphandle . Abazali babexakekile, iingxaki zabo. Oku kuhlala kutsho kwiintsapho ngotywala babazali, iziyobisi, izigulo ezinzima zomzimba okanye zengqondo, ubundlobongela. Ngamanye amaxesha kuyenzeka xa abazali betshintshana. Abantwana bangena kwimvelaphi yokuchasene nobunzima kunye nezicwangciso zokusinda. Ke ngoko, abantwana abanjalo bakhula benentsilelo yothando, ukuthembeka, ukuqonda. Ziqhotyoshelwe ngendlela yazo kubazali babo, kwaye oomama ingakumbi. Bonke ubomi babantu abadala, bafuna ukubonisa ubungqina bokuba kufanelekile olu thando: Yenza imisebenzi enamanyathelo eShensity, i-Science, iCompasi yangaphakathi ihlala ijolise ekufumaneni nasekuhlaleni , Ebuk 'ebuntwaneni baswele. Ngenxa yoko, amadoda nabafazi ababini abaza kuzinikezela kubomi babo babantu abadala. Babotshwe koomama ngokukodwa, bazama ukuba yimfuneko kwaye babaluleke ngokuncama ngobomi babo obuhlukileyo.
Inkqubo Ukwahlula nabazali kunye noMama, ngakumbi, - Eli lelona nqanaba libalulekileyo lokuqulunqa umntu ngokuthanda kwakhe, inyathelo lakhe. Ukuba akahambi, emva koko umendo womntu ebomini uya kuba mthwalo kakhulu yimfuneko yokuthanda umama okanye ufuna uthando lwayo. Kwaye - yeyiphi eyona ufihlakeleyo- kwiimeko ezinjalo ihlala inomsindo. Kwizizwe zakudala kukho izithethe zokuqalisa, ukuzahlulela kwabantwana ekubabeni. Xa abazali beyeka umntwana ukuba baye ngendlela yabo, baqonda ilungelo lakhe lokuphoxeka, ubunzima, ngokwahlukeneyo kubo. Kwangelo xesha njengabazali, bamkhonza ngenkxaso nenkxaso. Akukho zithethe ziqhelekileyo kwihlabathi lanamhlanje. Umama akakhululekanga kwindawo yakho yeentombi zabantu abadala noonyana. Bayivumela ukuba ivutha ngumsindo, ihamba inkohliso yabo. Kwaye uqhubeke nokwenzakalisana.
Ukuba ufumanisa enye yezi nkqansi-umntwana okhulayo okanye umama ongavumiyo kumntwana wakhe ongaphezulu kubomi obuzimeleyo, lixesha lokuba unike eli tyala.
Lixesha lokuthumela iinzame ukuba ungalwi nomnye, kodwa ngeenqobo ezisemgangathweni kunye neeprojekthi ezingasaneleyo ukuba unxibe. Ukugcwalisa ubomi ngentsingiselo yabo, imfuneko yobungqina okanye irisithi yothando kwangoko kwifom ofuna ukugcinwa kwaso.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin