Nokuba awunaso umhlobo onjalo, onokubakho ubuncinci ibhinqa elinye elihle ngaphandle kwesibini. Inokwenzeka njani le nto, kuba inethuba ngalinye, abaninzi bacinga. Amantombazana anenkangeleko eqhelekileyo ephindiweyo ekhangela ngomona kwabo babhinqileyo anikwa idatha yendalo: Kubonakala ngathi akukho bhinqa lingenakukubonayo ebomini, kwaye ukhona Akukho kususwa kubo. Kwangelo xesha, amantombazana amahle kakhulu akhwankqisiwe ukuba kutheni ummelwane onedatha ethozamileyo sele ungumyeni wesibini kunye nabantwana abaliqela. Kunzima kwiingcali zengqondo ukuba zichaze le meko ilungileyo, kodwa kusekho izizathu ezithile.
Kukholelwa ukuba umfazi omuhle, "obandayo" ngakumbi "
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Ingozi ye-stereotypes
Xa kufikwa kwintombazana entle, ingcinga iphakama ngokukhawuleza malunga ne-carrigicious, iMadame enokungafikeleliyo, engakhathaliyo ukuba ayikho into ngaphandle kwenkqubo elandelayo kwi-salon yobuhle. Ewe, ufumaneka, kodwa akuhlali njalo. Abafazi abahle bahlala benabahlobo, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba aba bantu babe ecaleni kwentombazana yokuzingca, engenanto. Umntu ngamnye unezingcaphetho zayo, kodwa ubuhle babo bubangelwa ngamanye amaxesha.
Intsomi yesibini: Intombazana entle - intombazana esisidenge. Kodwa asiyi kuyilibala loo nto ukuba amantombazana angama-smart ahlala egxeka ngenxa yokungakhathali, ngoku ngokucacileyo kuxhomekeke engqondweni apha.
Ukuba le ntombazana idibanisa ingqondo nobuhle kwintombazana, kunokwenzeka ukuba ichithe ixesha elininzi kwimfundo kunye nokukhula komntu. Abafuni ukuzinikela kusapho basemncinci. Nangona kunjalo, ukuthambisa ngomsebenzi yintonga malunga neziphelo ezibini: Xa intombazana entle ifikelela kwinqanaba eliphezulu, iba nzima ngakumbi ukufumana isangqa samaqabane amaninzi.
Enye intsomi ephilayo, ngeli xesha inqweneleka ngabantu: ukuba intombazana intle, unomntu othile. Amadoda amaninzi aya kuphoswa yintombazana entle ebhetele kunomngcipheko wokuva ukwala. Kule meko, unokucebisa okanye ufumane kuqala, okanye ujonge isibini esisebenzisa abahlobo abaqhelekileyo.
Ngokweenkcukacha-manani, amantombazana alolo anembonakalo eqhelekileyo ayingabi ngaphezu komhle, ngenxa yoko kukhuselekile ukuthi impumelelo kubomi bobuqu ixhomekeke kwimbonakalo kuphela. Kubalulekile ukuba uneempawu ezifunekayo ukwakha ubudlelwane ohambelana noko.
Phuhlisa iimpawu ezintle zobuntu
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Amantombazana amahle ayoyika. Ngoba?
Iingcali zikholelwa ukuba uloyiko lwendoda phambi kwentombazana entle ihambelana kakhulu. Kukho negama lesayensi lolu loyiko - i-hynophobia. Indoda yoyika kakhulu ukufumana ukwala kangangokuba akanakuphela.
Esona sizathu siphambili soloyiko lwamadoda kukungaqiniseki. Ngapha koko, asithethi ngoba abameli abangamadoda abaqulethiweyo, kodwa malunga namadoda ngokuzithemba okuhle, kodwa balahlekile ebuhleni. Yeyona nto inzima kumadoda ukuba umbono kukuba intombazana entle ayinakuba njalo.
Indoda yoyika kakhulu ukuza kuqala
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Enye ingongoma: Amadoda akholelwa ukuba iqabane lentombazana entle imele ibe sisityebi. Ukuba abazigqali ezo, balahla ezinye iingcinga malunga nomntu omaziyo. Isizathu silele ekuqinisekiseni ulwalamano olunzulu lolwalamano ngqo lobuhle kunye nempumelelo yezemali. Izizukulwana zamadoda zihlala nengcinga yokuba umntu osisityebi kufuneka abe neqabane elinethambekileyo, kwaye ngokuchasene - umfazi omuhle akasokuze ajonge kwindoda ephakathi.
Izizathu zokubamba i-Inbulelo
Ngaphambi kokujongana nengxaki, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba kutheni kusenzeka. Umntu obhinqileyo kufuneka aqonde ukuba kwihlabathi lanamhlanje sizama ukubeka umbono wobuxoki wobuhle obuhle kuphela, ingqalelo ibaluleke kakhulu ngaphandle, ingqalelo yangaphakathi ihlawulwe.
Ayingabo bonke abafazi abaqondayo ukuba ubuhle obunye ayisiyo idipozithi yokhuseleko. Ewe, indoda iya "kugoba" kwinkangeleko entle, kodwa kuya kufuneka aphile nomlinganiswa wakho, ke, ngaphandle kwedatha yendalo, akufuneki ulibale malunga nokukhula kweempawu ezintle.
Elinye isizathu esinokubakho liyimfuneko kakhulu kwiimfuno zabagqatswa beesatellite. Ngabo abafazi abamoyikayo abo bakhankanyiweyo ngaphambili. Umfazi onjalo uhlala engenatyala kwaye engafane afezekise ukuphindaphinda okungayiqwalaseli ingqalelo yakhe.
Ukuba isizungu sikunika wena kwaye ufundile kwinkcazo yakho, uphonononge indlela indlela ojonga ngayo abanye, mhlawumbi ebomini bakho kuya kubakho utshintsho, kwaye ekugqibeleni uya kufumana ulonwabo lwakho.