Njengephupha, ubushushu kunye nokutya, imfuneko enye esisiseko yendoda yesondo. Nokuba awuceli ukuqalisa umntwana, oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uzikhusele kubafowunelwa besini, kuba eyona nto iphambili iphela kudala ukuveliswa ngokukodwa.
Isondo kungekudala okanye kamva kwenzeka ebomini bomntu wonke, amava okuqala ahlala ekukhunjulwa ebomini, kunye nokuphumelela. Rhoqo, la mava kuzisa ukukhathazeka ngakumbi kunolwaneliseko. Siza kunika ingcebiso kwabo bazakuqala nje "indlela yabo yesini", ukuze nikuphephe ukuphoxeka okuninzi.
Kubalulekile ukuba ulungile kwaye ngokwasemzimbeni, nangokwengqondo
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Yintoni ekufuneka uyazi
Uninzi lwabantu abancinci abanalo umbono xa ungangena kwisondo ngaphandle kwengozi yempilo kunye nengqondo. Kuluntu lwethu ukuba kukho uluvo lokuba iminyaka yobudala egqibeleleyo yesondo yokuqala yiminyaka eli-18 ukuya kweli-15 ubudala - eyona nto iphambili yokuzala.
Nangona kunjalo, ngenxa yenkcubeko enkulu, edlulileyo kule minyaka ilishumi idlulileyo isusa imida phakathi kwemvume kunye nefuthe lemveli, iminyaka yamahlakani angena enolwalamano oluphakamileyo Utshintshe kwiinyanga ezintandathu ezidlulileyo. Njengoko ubona, kunzima ukufowunela ingxelo ngqo.
Ukwenzela ukuba kuqale ubunzima obuncinci, kubalulekile ukuba sikulungele ngokwasemzimbeni kwaye, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, yingqondo. Kwindodana, kwaye ngakumbi intombazana, eli va linokuthatha isigqibo: Kuxhomekeke kuye indlela ubomi bomntu obunesondo buza kuba njalo.
Ukudibana kokuziphatha
Abantu abancinci kubalulekile ukuba baqwalasele ngokuziphatha, akunyanzelekanga ukuba bacinge ukuba isondo siqhuba nemiqobo, awudingi mntu ukuba ungqine nantoni na, uyaziyolisa omnye komnye.
Ukuba unexhala kakhulu, zama ukudala umoya ovuthayo: ukwenza le nto, yenza isidlo sangokuhlwa kwisiqingatha sakho sesibini, uphumelele igumbi, thenga ireyitha, inqambi ukukhanya. Unokubandakanya umculo wokuphumla.
Faka ilinen ebhedini, kuyanqweneleka ukuba intle. Ucoceko lomntu lukwabalulekile, ke ungalibali ukuthatha ishawa ngokukhawuleza ngaphambi kokuba inkqubo ngokwayo.
Ubudala bokungenisa ubudlelwane obusondeleyo buncipha
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Mhlawumbi eyona nto ibalulekileyo ibaluleke ngakumbi kunemozulu - ukhuseleko oluthembekileyo. Uninzi luvile ngenyani malunga namantombazana akhulelwe kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, kwaye ngoku kufuneka bajamelane nemiphumo yezenzo zabo ezixhasayo.
Ukuze bangabi ngabazali, hayi kwiminqweno, kwaye okunene, ukuba bangabi nakuphiko lokwamkela i-venogogist, kubalulekile ukuba ukhuseleke. Isisombululo esilula siya kuba ziikhondom. Kodwa nyamekela kwangethuba kwangaphambili ukuze kwangomzuzu wokugqibela awuzukubaleka kwikhemesti, ukwaphula yonke imeko esenyongweni. Umzuzu obalulekileyo: Thenga iikhondom ngokukhethekileyo kwikhemesti, kwaye hayi kwivenkile, kuba iimveliso zekhemesti zitshekishwe ngononophelo.
Yenza imeko yothando
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Yintoni isikhundla sokukhetha
Musa ukuthembela ngesondo, akunakwenzeka ukuba oku kuya kwenzeka, ngakumbi ukuba kungekuphela ngenxa yakho kuphela, kodwa neqabane lakho lo nxibelelwano lwesini ngowokuqala. Unokuzama kancinci emva kwexesha, kodwa okwangoku kukufanele ukuphelisa i-classic, ingumthunywa wevangeli ukuze uphephe ukwenzakala kakhulu.