Ngaphezu kwendlela abafazi bethu abafihla ngayo kumabhinqa, kunokwenzeka ukuba i-iron malini. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuvala amehlo abo ekuqondeni kokuziphatha kwabasebenzi ngexesha le-rapprochement.
Ingcaciso yenani elinje leqela lentsana okanye elibuthathaka. Kwaye ngengqondo. Kulula ukuvula ixesha elidlulileyo kwaye ujonge umhla wokukhulelwa komntu oneminyaka engama-30 ukuya kwengama-30 ubudala. Umaleko wenkqubo yeSoviet uye wazisa inkululeko endelekileyo. Kodwa hayi kuyo yonke ikwi-plusren: Iziko lomtshato liphumile. Uqhawulo-mtshato yaba yinto eqhelekileyo, kwaye imeko ayiwi. Uninzi lwamadoda anamhlanje lwazisa oomama. Yiyo loo nto yokuziphatha emibini eqhelekileyo: Nokuba ukhangelo lomfazi onamandla, okanye ukwala ukutya okuphilayo ngokuhlala kunye nge-suble of the the the the the the ("umama") etyhala kwingqondo.
Kodwa le yingqondo yengqondo. Kwaye ukuba ujongeka kube lula, emva koko ngaphantsi kwezi ntlobo zintlanu ziqhelekileyo zamadoda. Ingqokelela yahlala ibulela amabali eentombi kunye nengqondo. Ukuthandana kwenzeke kwindawo yokuthandana okanye ebomini. Kodwa izigqibo ziyafana: ngoku, ukuba indoda ithathe inyathelo lokuqala, uphantse wamitha, kwaye ukuba ukwenenjongo elungileyo, ke iqhawe sele.
1. Ikhonkco. Kubonakala ngathi kukwazi ukubiza umhla, ithi malunga nayo yonke into kwaye akukho nto. Ungalibali ukufumana iinkcukacha ebomini bakho. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye akanikeli naluphi na uphawu ngeminqweno yakhe. Akucaci nokuba ufuna nje isondo nje okanye alungiselele ibali lokudlala elinde. Emva kwethuba, inyamalale, okanye iba yinto engathandekiyo yokuphendula kwi-SMS yakhe yemihla ngemihla ngaphandle kweenkcukacha. Ezo zinto zifana nendalo kwiklabhu ye-Gy: Musa ukunika kwaye ungathathi.
Amadoda ayanda alinde amanyathelo avela kumantombazana
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2. Ukubhiyozela. Abajongi mntu, abazisebenzisi. Balindile ngobudenge xa besiya nkqo kwaye bedibene ubuncinci kwintshukumo ethile. Nangona i-bustle intle, ke qwalasela loo nto, ibhaliwe. Amanyathelo avela kubo bangalindi. Bakholiswa yimicimbi yabo etyhidiweyo kunye netywina. Phila ekunikezelweni kwamagumbi, kakuhle, okanye kwiBhajerho yomzali. Kulungile ukutya nabo, ukuba ummangaliso ubazise kwi-rugogs yasekhaya.
3. Ichaphazeleka kwaye ididekile. Kwaye kuloo nto, kwelinye icala, isini. Ezi zifihliwe kwi-Intanethi nakwizicelo zokuthandana. Bazinikela kwi "Molo", okanye baninike ukuba uzinikele. Iingxoxo ezinjalo ziqala ngemibuzo yemibuzo yesondo malunga nokhetho kunye neminqweno engeyiyo. Sele kunomzuzu wesihlanu, umnikelo kufuneka uye kubo ("ngokukhuselekileyo, uyakholelwa ku-"), okanye uthathe iqhawe. Inye "kodwa". Bathetha ngesondo njengokucoca eflethini, kwaye hayi njengesidlo esimnandi. I-prititivism ihlala ibetha umnqweno. Ukudibanisa, ngokuhlekisa, amadoda anjalo akashushu kangako. Bangakhathalelwa kuphela emnqweno we-tick olandelayo (okanye uphawu). Ukuva, imeko kunye nencoko efudumeleyo? Hayi, awuva ...
Kwaye kubonakala ngathi ungumntu, sele ucinga ngandlel 'ithile, kwaye incoko yababini ayibizi ...
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4. Inengxaki. Kwiimeko ezininzi, otshatileyo okanye waseburhulumenteni. Elo luye lo babuza ifoto nu ngokukhula ngokupheleleyo, ifoto inkungu-nude yamalungu omzimba kunye nesiqu kwindlu yangasese. Zinesithukuthezi kungekuphela ekhaya, kodwa emsebenzini. Kwaye wena - ukuzonwabisa kwawo. Ihlala ibonakala. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, baxhomekeke kwixesha. Yaphula kancinane kwaye uvale iminqweno ephakanyisiweyo - ingxaki. Ukuba naphakade, indlela yokuphanga iKarma yakho - hayi ukhetho olufanelekileyo.
5. Ukubulisa iminyaka. Intlanganiso yokuqala kunye nabo ihlala iba eyokugqibela. Inomdla kunxibelelwano lokubhala, ngokuqinisekileyo liyaphuma lizolile. Kwaye ngoku uhleli kwi-cafe, kwaye njengomntu osele esele ungaqhelekanga, kwaye incoko yababini ayikhathazwa. Kwaye usaqonda ukuba ii-scals ecaleni kwakhe awuyi kunxiba (ngenye indlela kwi-Due Carbaret "ye-Cabarey"). Kwaye ukuba uthetha ngento ethile kwaye udumise, emva koko ke into efana nebhinqa elikwintlekele yasekuhlaleni, - malunga nokunxanelwa abantwana abadibeneyo kwaye bebaleka ebaleni abantwana abadibeneyo. Kwaye kubonakala ngathi kuyamkelwa ngandlel 'ithile, kodwa akunjalo kwimeko yosapho olubalaseleyo lokuthula.
Ewe, umthetho ngamnye uyodwa. Kodwa ukusuka kwimveliso yokungahambi: Ukungafikeleli ukuba umntu wakho, kwaye umntu onomdla ngoku ungumsebenzi. Nangona ukuba ifunwa, unyamezelo kunye nokungabikho koloyiko lwesiphumo, nayiphi na imisebenzi iconjululwe. Ewe, kwaye i-rays ezayo yasentwasahlobo iya kuvakala.