Ulutsha-Abantu banovelwano kakhulu, bafuna indlela ekhethekileyo, ngakumbi xa kuziwa kwixesha lothando. Zikhumbule ngokwaminyaka, usabele ngokukhawuleza nakuphi na ukuphazanyiswa kubadala. Siqokelele amabinzana asixhenxe, esingakwaziyo ukuba singathethi eluthandweni kunye nomntwana okwishumi elivisayo.
Sukubalusizi
Eli binzana ulibele iimvakalelo zomfana. Ngokwesiqhelo, abazali bazama ukukhusela umntwana wabo kwiimvakalelo ezimbi, kodwa enyanisweni ijika ngokuchaseneyo: umntwana uvala, efumana imbi kumava othando ngaphakathi. Ixesha elingaphezulu, uya kuyeka ukukhathalela incoko kunye nawe kwiimvakalelo zakhe ezingalunganga.
Ifunyenwe ngenxa yokuba ngubani oza kubulala. Iphumelele, mangaphi amantombazana ajikeleze (abafana)
Kwakhona, amabinzana afanayo uyawahlula-hlula ishumi elivisayo. Ndikholelwe, uyazi iintlobo ngeentlobo zamantombazana kunye nabantu kule, kodwa ngelo xesha unomdla kwinye kuphela, ngenxa yoko ingxoxo yakho ayisebenzi. Uphinde wacaphukisa umntwana.
Sukuzilahlisa iimvakalelo zakhe
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Ndikhule kwaye ndifumane ngcono
Vumelani, emva kokuba usindile idrama yothando, andifuni ukucinga ngekamva. Ukuba abazali basabela ngendlela efanayo, umntwana unokuthatha isigqibo sokunganxibelelani nabo ngengcebiso. Zama ukungena kwingxaki enzulu kwaye ungaphumi kumabinzana aqhelekileyo, kuba kumntwana la mava, njengaye nayiphi na enye, ibaluleke kakhulu kumxholo wakho.
Kwiminyaka yakho, cinga ngothando
Owu, zingaphi iimbambano ezicingela phakathi kwabazali nabantwana kwisihloko sobudlelwane nothando ngokubanzi. Usenokubonakala ngathi usemncinci kangaka akanakuthetha ngento ebaluleke kakhulu. Ewe yiyo. Kodwa kumntwana, obu budlelwane buyathetha ihlabathi liphela, ke sukuzibamba kwaye ungaphazamisi iimvakalelo zakhe, kodwa kubhetele xa unamava akho angenakuphumelelayo ebutsha kunye nendlela onamava ngokomoya.
Nokuba usemncinci, unokufumana iimvakalelo ezinzulu.
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Awuthandi, ubonakala nje
Ibinzana elibi kakhulu, elinokuthi live kumzali. Ungacingi ukuba uthando lomntwana okwishumi elivisayo lwahlukile kothando "lwadala". Mhlawumbi kukho iimvakalelo ezithile, kodwa ngokubanzi, iimvakalelo ezikwishumi elivisayo, ziyafana. Nika umntwana wakho ukuba afumanise kwaye athathe isigqibo sokuba uza kuthanda kangakanani. Nina ninceda ukuba anibuze, musani ukugweba.
Jonga, unokufumana omnye umntu
Kwinqanaba elithile, amava akwishumi elivisayo ngothando olungathandekiyo anokulibazisa ixesha elide kunokuba singathanda. Kule meko, akufanelanga nokukhankanya ukulala kwenkululeko yokhetho lwaso ngokuhambelana nomntu wesini esahlukileyo-makuyeke kwaye ahlukane nobudlelwane bangaphambili. Unokusikhumbuza ngobunono malunga nezinto ozonwabisa zomntwana kwaye ubuze, andizukufuna ukwenza oko kutyikisa yonke into enyikimayo.
Xhasa umntwana ngobunzima kuye
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Akafanelanga amava akho
Ngomzuzu onzima, xa ubudlelwane bangaphambili butshabalalisiwe, umntwana okwishumi elivisayo unexhala lokuba akukho mntu unokumthanda njengento edlulileyo yokwahlukana. Kwakhona, amazwi akho malunga nokungakhathali kweziganeko akazukwenza ngcono, kodwa ekubambeni umntwana okwishumi elivisayo kunye neemvakalelo zakhe. Akukho sidingo sokuthetha ukuba iimvakalelo zakhe azincedi nto, njengawo nawaphi na amava, mawuthanda okanye abanye, ayizizo zonke.