Umzali onqabileyo akakulungelanga ukwenza nantoni na umntwana wakhe, nantoni na, nokuba inyanga inyanga ukusuka ezulwini. Sizama konke okusemandleni ethu ukubanika okona kulungileyo, khusela kulo naluphi na ububi, yenza umsebenzi onzima endaweni yabo. Kwaye, kuba oko kuvela, siya kubusisela ubomi bam ngothando lwakho. Oku kuphela koomakhulu nootatomkhulu.
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Khumbula ubuntwana bakho. Sasivunyelwe ukuba siye esikolweni kwaye sibuyele umva, sakhululwa kwintendelezo yokuhambahamba kwaye savumela ukuba siye kutyelela omnye komnye. Ngoku uyandiva: "Ah, ixesha eliyingozi!". Kwaye nantsi indoda eneminyaka eli-12 ubudala esele ingaphezulu koMama entloko, udibana emva kweeklasi kwicandelo lezemidlalo. Asivumeli abantwana ukuba bafumane umngcipheko, nangona oogqirha bezengqondo bekholelwa ukuba ayichanekanga. Sukudidana namakhwenkwe eyadini, ungawa emthini nangebhayisekile, ekubanjeni, umntu uhlala enengxaki kuzo zonke iintlobo zePhobias kunye nezinto ezikhoyo. Umntwana kufuneka afumane amava athile aze asinde aqonde-akukho nto imbi kakhulu kubakhuthazayo.
Vumela umntwana afumane amava akho eentlungu
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Inombolo ye-2.
Sikhawuleza siye sahlangula ngokukhawuleza, sisombulula iingxaki nootitshala nangontangam. Ngenxa yokhathalelo olugqithisileyo, abantwana abayazi indlela yokufumana indlela yokuphuma kwiimeko ezinzima. Kodwa kuya kwenzeka ntoni xa sele ekhulile? Umama akazokwazi ukusombulula ingxabano ngentloko "embi" okanye intombazana engaphelelanga. Siya kuba sakhulisa singafanelekanga ukuba sibe mdala, sikhulise "abalahlekileyo", siphephe incoko enzima.
UNGAQHUTYI UKUZIPHATHA KOKUFUNDA
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Inombolo ye-3.
Ewe, abantwana, kufuneka badumise, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bathimbe, kodwa bangangeni. "Unetalente, unobukrelekrele, akafani nabo bonke abanye," baninzi kakhulu abazali bafuna ukuzithandabuza emntwaneni wabo. Kuphela ukuba awunalo ixesha lokuphelela unyana okanye intombi ngekratshi, ke ngokuhamba kwexesha baya kufumanisa ukuba ngumama kuphela notata "okhethekileyo". Abantu babantu banyanzela iimfuno ezifanayo nakwabanye. Kwaye rhoqo, abathinjwe ngabantwana, ngamanye amaxesha baphulukana xa kuthelekiswa nabo ufunda nabo. Ngenxa yoko, umntu uyakhula, ajonga umhlaba wonke ngokungagungqiyo ngokunxulumene naye.
Izipho kufuneka zifanelwe
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Inombolo ye-4.
Kwiintsapho ezininzi, kukho i-taboo kwincoko malunga nexesha elidlulileyo. Ngenxa yoko, umntwana akabazi ukuba ngoobani ookhokho bakhe kunaleyo. Iingxaki zika-generic ahlala kuzo, kwaye abazali bazama ukubonakala kosizi ongazange ajongene ebomini babo. Ukuba awuzange ubelane naye amava akho amachaphaza kuye, unokukhulisa i-neurasthetik, ukubandezeleka ekubeni netyala phambi kokungafezeki kwakho.
Ungazibeki kwi-peristal
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Inombolo ye-5.
Umzekeliso wesiNgesi uthi: "Musani ukunyusa abantwana, basazakujongeka njengawe. Phakamisa. " Ukuba idoke itshaya njenge-steam locomotive, kwaye utat'omkhulu akakhululi icuba, aze ke angamangalisi ukuba unyana wakho uya kuzama ukutshaya. Kwaye phakamisa apha ngaphandle kwengqondo. Abazali bathi ngokwabo babe ngumzekelo wento abafuna ukuyiphumeza emntwaneni, bafunde owabo umzekelo, hayi ngamazwi.
Kulula umzekelo wakho
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