Ebudlelwaneni, umfundi kunye nootitshala bahlala bengaqondanga, kwaye akukho sizathu: Khawufane ucinge ukuba kufuneka ulungiselele iqela labantwana abangama-30, gcina ingqalelo yabo kwaye uchitha isifundo. Umsebenzi akukho lula kwaye ungatyhafi. Akumangalisi ukuba utitshala ekunzima ukunikela ingqalelo kubo bonke, kwaye ukuba sithetha ngabafundi abancinci, umsebenzi unzima kangangezihlandlo ezininzi.
Kuthekani ukuba ungquzulwano lusekho? Masiyifumane.
Funa ukuba ungenelele
Mhlawumbi lolona nani lubuze kakhulu kubuzali bengqondo. Ngapha koko, okuninzi kuxhomekeke kwimeko, umdala kangakanani umntwana nendlela yena ngokwakhe ngokwakhe.
Kukho abazali abakholelwa ukuba umntwana kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo kufuneka azicombulule iingxaki zayo ngokwawo, ngaloo ndlela kuphuhlisa ukuzimela. Ngokubanzi, kulungile, kodwa kuphela njengomntwana ngokwakhe akayi kubuya kuwe. Ukuba ubeka ityala kwimeko yokungqubana, kungcono ukuncedisa ngengcebiso, oko kukuthi, yiya kwaye ucele uxolo ngutitshala. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba kukho ubutshaba kutitshala, othululwa kuvavanyo olungenangqondo kunye novavanyo olungaphantsi kovavanyo, abazali kufuneka bangenelele.
Thetha nomntwana
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Jonga kwimeko
Masithi uthathe isigqibo sokuba isangenelelo, kule meko kubalulekile ukufumana isizathu sokuba ungquzulwano, endaweni yokumangalela utitshala kumnyango. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ungatyhola umntwana kwangoko: Mamela omabini amacala ongquzulwano, khumbula ukuba ungahlala uvumelana ukuba umntu uziphatha ngendlela eqhelekileyo nangezoneleyo. Zama ukungaphakamisi izwi lakho, nxibelelana ngokuzolileyo, awuyi kufumana nasiphi na isizathu sokukhulisa, ngaphandle kwenkani.
Incoko kunye notitshala
Kubalulekile ukuyenza icace into yokuba awuzukuqhuma utitshala eme ngakumbi, usukelo lwakho kukufumanisa ukuba kwenzeka ntoni.
Bagwebe, umzali onomdla uyekhelela indima yomnxibelelanisi kwaye unokubavumelana naye nantoni na.
Ke ngoko, ngaphambi kwentlanganiso, qaphela isicwangciso: Uza, mamelani uluvo lukatitshala ngombandela wokuzonwabisa, emva koko uthelekise uguqulelo oluphezulu.
Ootitshala banzima ukujamelana nabantwana abaninzi
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Kuthekani ukuba impazamo ilele kutitshala
Awudingi ukuba usebenze kuMlawuli kwaye ufune ukugxothwa kwangoko kukatitshala ongafunekiyo kuwe. Yiya ngqo kutitshala, hlala phantsi kwitafile kwaye uzame ukufumana ukulalanisa. Kuwo nawuphi na utitshala kunzima ukuba aqonde ukuba kunzima kuye ukuseka unxibelelwano nomfundi, kuba luxanduva olukhulu, kwaye olu mbaselo lugxininisa kuphela kuphela kunokungakwazi ukwenza ukungakwazi. Chaza ukuba ungathandabuzi konke konke kubungcali bakhe, kodwa abayi kufuna ukuba le meko iphinde iphinde. Ewe kunjalo, ayisiyonyani yokuba utitshala ecela uxolo esidlangalaleni: Kunzima. Kwezi meko, thetha nomntwana kwaye undixelele ukuba wonke umntu uqhelekile kwimpazamo. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana akaphulukanga intlonelo kutitshala,
Kwaye ukuba umntwana ubeka ityala
Kule meko, uya kuba nengxoxo enkulu, kodwa ngeli xesha kwi-chad yakho. Kubalulekile ukubonisa umntwana ngelo xesha wayeziphatha ngayo okuphosakeleyo, ndixelele indlela yokwenza kwiimeko ezinjalo ukuze imbambano ayiphindi.
Kuyinto enqwenelekayo yokuba umntwana exolise utitshala, akunyanzelekanga ukuba enze oku, nokuba ungcono ukuba umntwana uza umntu omdala emva kwesifundo kwaye efuna uxolelo.
Zama ukufumana ukulalanisa kunye notitshala
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Nangona kunjalo, abantwana banenkani kakhulu kwaye abasoloko belungele ukwenza njengoko abadala besitsho, nokuba bayaqonda ukuba ingxaki yelona candelo livunyiwe ngenxa yabo. Kusekuza kufuneka kulandelwe ukuze imbambano ayifumaneki ngakumbi isikali. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana ubeka ityala ngale meko, kungekudala uye wagqiba, nokuba umfundi lowo akasayi kuba nako ukuxolelanisa.