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Nje ukuba abantu baqiniseke: UThixo wadala indoda nomfazi ukuba bathandane. Kodwa kwakamsinya kwavela ukuba i-homo-sapita-sapitas iqhubeka ifunda le nto kubo bonke abaninzi kubo.
Oku kwenziwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Umntu othile unesidima kubameli besondo labo. Enye i-eyelid ibuyile esidlangalaleni, ayizange iqhubeke ifunyele ukuba icacile, kude kube, oko, kwakunganyanzelwanga ukuba iqaphele ngokusemthethweni ubukho bezishumi elinanye: (yena - , Yena) kunye nokuzibulala (xa unokufuna kunye naye, kwaye nayo).
Kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini eyadlulayo, abanini be-VCRS abawonwabileyo baqala bancothule indawo kwi-Hollywood Hory, apho kwiBlue Oyster badanisa, benamathela omnye komnye, kwaye bancanca imiguba yaphesheya. Emva kwexesha, xa ezinye iiandaba zizivumela ngokugculela ngokucacileyo ubukho besithi "semveli" phakathi kwethu, iseti yabo yemiqondiso yasenziwa kwindawo yethu: I-gay yindlela kwaye ilandelwa ngononophelo ngenkangeleko yakhe, kunye ne-Lesbian - njengenenekazi elinje ngelizwi eliphantsi kunye neenwele ezimfutshane. Ewe, kwaye "bi" iyonke. Abanye abagqirha bezesondo banyanzelisa oko, kwindalo, bonke abantu bayaziswa (oko kukuthi, banokuba neentlobano zesini esahlukileyo, kwaye abayenzi kuphela. Okanye uqikelele, kodwa isimilo soluntu sinika zonke iingqimba zabo kwingcambu. Ngamanye amaxesha, nangona kunjalo, inyani itshabalalisa imifanekiso yomhlaba: Ijacket ye-jacket iguquka ukuba ibe yinto enesitabane, kwaye inenekazi elincinci eliyinto engenatyala elinomsulwa.
Nangona kunjalo, ixesha elitsha liyinto emangalisayo. Kule minyaka ishumi idlulileyo, abalinganiswa abangazange babonwe ngaphambili baqala ukuvela kwimeko yesini yoluntu lwethu. Ekuqaleni, wonke umntu wangcangcazela abantu abathanda abantu, ebusweni, eqinisekile ukuba bazalwe emzimbeni kunye nabantu abanxaxhileyo kwaye abo banxaniweyo batshintsha itshintshelo, ubuncinci ngoncedo lweempahla. Kutshanje, ii-metrosexessis zazidada ekukhanyeni kukaThixo-amadoda anokuphuma ngokulula kwizinimba xa bengabanga ukuba ngamanye amaxesha bafumane ixesha labasetyhini. Ngendlela, kunokwenzeka ukuba olu hlobo lwamadoda lukhona ngamaxesha onke - kodwa njengenayo igama elikhethekileyo. Ngayiphi na imeko, ootat'omakhulu bathathe ngokulula inkcazo yecavalier enjalo - iArcissus (kwintsomi - iqhawe lihlala lincoma ingcinga yakhe). Kwaye inene, iMetrosearials yonke into yabo yasimahla iyazinikezela ukuze inyamekele, abo bathandekayo: Utyelele uSazini, i-Somaric, yenza i-pilla, i-pilared, i-piairtyle kwindawo esenyongweni. Kwaye xa bengabhangiswanga, banyamalala kwiivenkile, apho, bezama kwaye bekukhetha, khetha ukuphuma kunye nezixhobo. Ii-Intanethi ziyakrokrela ukuba nokuba zizidalwa ezimnandi zendoda kwaye zilala ngenye imini kunye nabasetyhini, i-orgasm isafumaneka ngexesha leenwele ezisondeleyo.
Kwaye ngokoqobo kwiminyaka yakutshanje, i-asseials - abantu, oyindoda nebhinqa, ukuxabana ukuba abanamdla wokwabelana ngesondo konke konke. Abemi besi simo siphikisayo sentlekele sinokuphila kwintsapho eqhelekileyo, uthando kwaye sihloniphane, kodwa apha isenzo sothando lwenyama sityholwa. Banokuhlupheka kwityala elinye kuphela, ngenxa yeziko labantwana, abathi ba (kuyamangalisa!) Awunanto.
Imfesane!
Kwaye nantsi inguqu yokwenene! Iingcali ze-West zentshona zityhila uhlobo olutsha lwesifundo sesondo-inyani, ngelixa ikwinqanaba lokusekwa kuphela. Kodwa sele ifumene igama lenzululwazi-iTodalism (ukusuka kwi-Toas yesiNgesi-toad). Okanye nje i-zibhabhasism- ukuba sikwindawo yethu. Oku kutsha nje kufunyenwe kwaye kwachazwa ziinzululwazi (ukuphambuka kwi-slim) kubonakaliswa ngamadoda omnye komnye (ukuya kuthi ga kwi-guntees yesondo), kodwa ngokungafaniyo "nenyani yenyani" ayisekelwanga kwi-selfwation yesondo. . Ukubawa! Ukuqhelaniswa "kwegama lentloko" lidibanisa amadoda awela ngequbuliso kwisakhiwo salolusapho, esaba sisiko loluntu ukusuka kwi-goothi yethu yaphuma emqolombeni kwaye waya kumgama onguMammoti, kwaye intombi yakhe yasusa umlilo, wafuduse ugxile kwaye ulungiselelwe ukutya. I-topesseasials isebenzisa ngokuchasene ne-Stereotype yakudala "yendoda": umbono wokuba le ndoda inyanzelekile ukuba yondle intombi yakhe, icekiseke kakhulu. Kwii-Alphonses zaBantwana, nangona kunjalo, iitonterials zihlulelwe yinyani yokuba azikho kwaphela ukuba zingasamva kweMammoti-abafuni ukubanikaza kunye nebhinqa. Yiyo loo ndlela yendlela elula - kuyimfuneko ukuba uphile kunye nabo baneentamo zabo.
Ubugqwetha ngokuchaseneyo
Ukuba siguqulela kulwimi olusesidlangalaleni, zonke iitoliki zesayensi ezibizwa ngokuba yiDodalism, kuyavela ukuba amadoda afumane ubugqwetha babo ... ngabafazi kuphela! Imibono yokuqala kunye nabasunguli bakaZabisma baqiqa ngelithi. Ukutshata no-Oligarko, kwivenkile yokutyela ngeendleko zomka, izipho ezivela kumyeni wakhe nabathandi - bawo bonke abantu benzakanye? Injalo loo nto, ibhinqa. Ngokuhambelana, zibonelela zonke ezi mpahla ngamadoda kuphela. Kuthekani ukuba uqala ukugcina iintsana-oko kukuthi, ukuba zenzele imali namanye amathuba kuwo na amanye amathuba phezu kwawo, abashiyeleni bakho, macala? Ke, omabini amathuba kunye nezemali ziya kuba ngaphezulu. Kumphefumlo, unokunxibelelana nabo kwaye awufuni izipho (oko kukuthi, kunye nawe ngokufanayo), kunye nemicimbi yesondo ukusombulula ihlabathi lemali.
Baba ngoobani - i-tob ilula
Ndandixelela ugqirha kunye nengcali yabucala ye-rublevsky psychoanalyst pelina k.
- eli tyala lalikwilali yelizwe elincinci, kwiminyaka elishumi eyadlulayo, banyulwa ngabantu abatsha, ngokubhekisele kwi-cottioges entle kunye neendawo ezinento yokwenza neenqaba apho. Lilonke, kukho izindlu, kukho izindlu ezilishumi elinesihlanu: bonke abamelwane babengabahlobo, bada abaninzi baya esixekweni bebusika. Amadoda kufuneka asebenze ezimotweni, kwaye abafazi babo babehleli kwindalo unyaka wonke - owakhulisa abantwana, kwaye ophumle. Kuyahlekisa oko kwabizwa ngokuba yilali - i-gill entsha. Ndazisa umhlobo wexesha elide - ngesicelo sokuphembelela umyeni wakhe. Kule minyaka ilishumi, iintsapho ezilishumi elinesihlanu zeNovobkin zahlala "ucingo olucingweni", uninzi lwabo lwaqhekeka. Ezinye iiTolstosumes ezintsha ze-novobkinsky zikwazile ukuqhawula umtshato kunye neqabane elinye, lizeke omnye umntu - noqhawulo-mtshato kwakhona. Mhlawumbi imozulu kwi-gills ezintsha inegalelo kule nto? Nokuba kungathi kunjalo, kodwa mnye ngokuhlwa, onke amadoda angoovobkinsky ahlanganisana ebhafini, agqiba ngoku, Akunakwazi ukuba ngubani kanye kanye owaba ngumophilo weNovozhubkinsky, kodwa bonke abo babevumile ngapha nangapha ngaphandle kokuba ngaphandle kwabasetyhini - ubomi bulula ngakumbi. Abo babetshatile (kubandakanywa nomyeni womhlobo wam), bathumela indlu yabo ikhokelwa ngumfazi wawo kumagumbi edolophu kwaye wamisela umxholo omncinci wenyanga. Kwaye bona ngokwabo bahlala bengabalindi kwaye bazingcatshwa ukuba akukho nto inguZabisma. Ngoku iNovobbinsky isityebi kakhulu ngalo lonke ixesha asimahla kwishishini liqhutywa kunye. Ebusika, le nkampani yamadoda icocekile ikhwela kwii-handowmobiles, ehlotyeni-kwizithuthuthu kunye nezikhephe, kwaye wonke unyaka ojikelezayo ubethe xa uhlamba kwaye ulungele amakhwenkwe. Ngamanye amaxesha la "madoda akhululekileyo kaZhabok" isihlwele sonke sishiya siphumle kwelinye ilizwe- ngokuqinisekileyo, wonke umntu uzihlawulela, kuba akukho buthathaka ngaphezulu kubo. Ifama inemeyili ye-bid nganye "ye-zubbid yasimahla ye-zubabkina iqinisekiswa ukuba iinkonzo zayo zingcono kakhulu kwaye zixabisa kakhulu kune-hassy yeqabane elisemthethweni. Ewe, kwaye xa amadoda kaNovobkin afuna ukungabi nakhontswana ngekhompyuter omnye komnye, kodwa uthando lwenyama yenyama yenyama, baya kuvakalisa isibini esikwigumbi lokuhlambela kwigumbi lokuhlambela. Kwaye kwakhona, bayaqinisekisa ukuba inkonzo epheleleyo evela kwiPriesteest yothando olukhethekileyo-inoqoqosho ngakumbi kunokubambisa kwaye i-whimp yomfazi wazo! Xa mna, ndicela uncedo lolwazi lwam kwi-Psychology, ndizama ukuvusa umhlobo wam umhlobo wam, wandiphendula njengale: "Umfazi sisidalwa esingapheliyo sokwenza ubomi bomntu. Unganikeli malini, incinane incinci - kwaye imali, kunye nenqanaba, kunye nesondo. Abafazi kunye neenkosana ziphelelwa zii-wallet zethu, kunye nenkqubo yethu yovalo: Ayisifuni nje imali kunye nezipho, kodwa kunye nemikhosi yokomoya, umonde kunye nexeshaKwaye kutheni uphila igazi elivaliweyo kuwe, xa ukufudumala okunoxolo kunye nonxibelelwano kunokunika abahlobo beemali nabazimeleyo abazimeleyo, kwaye iimfuno zomzimba aziwaneliseki nyani zizenzo zazo? " Kwaye ndiye ndaqonda - akunakwenzeka ukumsindisa! I-zbism ye-zubabism sisifo, kwaye i-wandala ngokukhawuleza. Kunye neyona nto imbi kakhulu, ukuba iba sisifo.
Ndifuna ukulindela ukuba uThabism usanyangwa. Kungenjalo, uya kuba nobukrakra ukuba uvume: ngamadoda esinetadi epheleleyo!
Iimpawu ezintathu eziphambili zikaZhaba
Ke, indoda yakho itshisa phambi kwamehlo akhe ukuba:
Ixesha elingakumbi lichitha kwinkampani yamadoda.
Bonke abahlala besenza izipho kwaye yonke into iyathandabuza ukwenza imali, nangona kwiimfuno zam azisindisi ngokupheleleyo.
Ngokongeza, kuyavela isihloko "yonke iBaba - Schlenanaita" kwaye ixhasa ngokuzithandela izimvo zobufazi, ziqinisekisa ukuba umfazi kufuneka aqulunqwe.
Ewe, uthini? Ayisiyo ngamabona-ndenzile kwi-chastushka "ethwele, iBaba - i-hodgepiete yeToad!" Emva koko mababekele! Ngokubanzi, iyeza elihle le-toads labesilisa ngumfazi ofanelekileyo.