Akukho xesha libekiweyo ngokucacileyo ukuba uchithe kunye nabantu obathandayo-abantu bafuna iiyure ezimbalwa ngosuku, ngelixa umntu enesiqingatha seyure ngefowuni. Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, sikucebisa ukuba uzijonge ngokwakho emva koko kwabanye. Sukuzibekela ityala kwi-egossism, kuba izinto ezinqabileyo zobuntu bakho yinto enokuthi isondele, kwaye ingazami ukulungisa. Jonga abantu abayakuqonda ukunqwenela kwakho umsebenzi kunye nokuziphucula, kwaye akuyi kunyanzela ngamandla okuhlala kwisofa. Kwaye kunye nokuphumla sikucebisa ukuba unxibelelane ngeendlela:
Fumana inkxaso kusapho
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Chonga imida yakho
Khawufane ucinge ukuba kukho inqaba kunye neendonga zayo ekufuneka uzilondoloze. Inqaba yakho kukuba sesichengeni sakho, kwaye iindonga yimida yobuqu. Nje ukuba umntu owodwa asondela, enze isilumkiso kwifomu ezolileyo. Ndixelele: "Esi sihloko asithandeki kum, makhe siyitshintshe kwinto esinomdla kuzo zombini." Iindawo ezisemngciphekweni zamagumbi esebenzayo zihlala zisisikhumbuzo seminyaka yobudala kunye nenyani yobomi bobuqu ongazange wonwabe, ukungakwazi ukuphumla nokuhamba namabali, njengoko babebhalwa kwiholide kunye ne-imeyile. Ukuba umntu akazange aqonde okwesihlandlo sokuqala, phinda. Kwisihlandlo sesithathu, incoko ye-tie- uya kucaphuka kuphela kuphela kukuthanda ukwazi kunye nokungabikho kwesakhono sokufunda ngobuchule kwiimvakalelo zomntu onomdla.
Cima isandi kwifowuni
Ngamalungu osapho, ulawulo lonxibelelwano kwiwotshi elikhethekileyo lokugqitywa komsebenzi wakho kwaye ufowuza kuphela kwiimeko ezingxamisekileyo kufakwe nje ngokulula. Kufutshane nokuqonda ukuba uchitha ixesha elininzi malunga noxanduva lokusebenza-ngenxa yokuzikhethela kunye nekamva elikhuselweyo. Kwisetingi yefowuni, shiya isandi kuphela kwiminxeba yabo, kokuphumla, cima izaziso. Akukho mibuzo ingenako isonjululwe kwiiyure ezimbalwa kamva, kodwa izaziso eziqhubekayo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo zinokukroba ngaphandle kwe-rut kwaye yolule ngobugcisa usuku olusebenzayo.
Baleka kwiphupha lakho
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Zijonge kuwe
Ukuba usebenzela umvuzo omncinci kwaye ungaboni ithemba, emva koko i-Ofisi ye-Ooellism inokugwetyelwa kuphela ngokomfanelo kuwe. Enye into xa upeyinta isicwangciso seminyaka ezayo kwaye uqonde ukuba inyathelo lakho ngalinye likhokelela kulo. Okanye udibanisa ngaxeshanye umsebenzi ophambili kunye neprojekthi yakho ofuna ukubeka ezinyaweni zakho kwaye ungene kwimidlalo yasimahla. Ukusebenzisa indlela esengqiqweni, uya kuba ungabinakho ukugculelwa kwabahlobo abangasiqondiyo ukuba kutheni ufika emcingeni kwaye ungaseli, sithethe ngomso siye eofisini siya eofisini. Kuyenzeka ukuba nendawo okusingqongileyo iya kutshintsha ngaphakathi ngokwabo - abantu bayakuqonda oko uhambayo kwaye kuqinisekisile unyamezelo lwakho.
Sikwacebisa ukuba usebenze esi sihloko kunye nogqirha wezengqondo kunye nokuqeqesha kwishishini, okanye uthethe nomntu ovela kwisangqa sabafundisi-ntsapho. Umntu ngamnye unomhlobo omthandayo. Ngumntu onokuba yimpembelelo yakho ukuba ungaphoseli uqalise kwaye ungajongi abagxeki.