Ukufuduswa ligama elingeniswe nguRub. Ukuxelwa kohlobo lwale nkqubo yengqondo bekunamabhongo. Iingxabano, amava, amaphupha afihlakeleyo, esingenzi nabani na, ukungabikho kwengqondo yethu kwi-subconsion. Kwaye yonke le nto yenziwe ukuze sikwazi ukuziqhelanisa nendalo. UFreud, wazakhela ithiyori yakhe malunga nezesondo kunye neempembelelo ze-erotic, wathi khange sibonakalise ngengozi. I-subconsion ithunyelwa kwityala elisenokusenzakalisa, njengokutsala umdla ngokwesondo kubazali kwaye, ngokuchaseneyo, ayamkelekanga kuluntu lwangoku. I-Psychoanyalysis ivele ukusukela ngoko, iziphoso ezininzi zitshintshile kuyo, akufuneki ukuba siphikise ngokucaphukisa ngokucaphukisa. Ewe, kwaye inqaku alikho malunga nalo. Kodwa eyona nto iseleyo oko, luhlobo lokufuduswa. Ukukhuselwa kwengqondo okusivumela ukuba sisuse amava anzima kuthi, sikhawuleze ukugxininisa kubo, ngakumbi xa singenamandla ngokwaneleyo ukuhlangabezana nabo. Yonke into ibiya kulunga, kodwa ingqongqo, oko kuthetha ukuba iingxwabangxwaba zifihlwe apho, zithetha rhoqo nathi. Sinokuhlala siwachukumisa amava ethu onyani, ukuba, umzekelo, ukubamba ngokunyaniseka ukulala kwakho.
Ukucaciswa, thatha imizekelo emibini entsha yamaphupha kubafazi abahlukeneyo.
Iphupha lokuqala laliphuphe ngebhinqa elinendoda yakhe edlula ngoqhawulo-mtshato ukuba kunye naye. Uqhawulo-mtshato kunye nokwahlula-hlula ixesha elide, kuyabaleka. Iphupha lethu liyayazi "izizathu zenjongo". Kwaye kwiphupha ubona isizathu sokwenyani. Amagama, ngendlela, intsomi.
"Ndiphupha ndibonakala ngathi ndibiza igor kwaye ndifumana umnxeba phakathi kwakhe kunye ne-olga (inkosikazi yakhe). Iphuma njengefowuni yenkomfa: Ndiyabava, kwaye abakrokrela ukuba ndiye ndangena kwincoko. Kwaye incoko intle kakhulu, i-Igor ivuma eluthandweni, naye, naye, zonke iintlobo zeMi-Mi. Kulungile, nantsi idyll ethe tye. Ndiyazi ukuba kwangaxeshanye ndisebomini bakhe, undixelela ukuba ulwalamano noOlga lunkwantyo. Ephupheni, andizithethi ngokwam, ndimamele incoko ethambileyo phakathi kwabo. "
Ukulala kubonisa amaphupha ethu ukuba enyanisweni anxulumana nonxibelelwano oluqinileyo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi wakhe. Mhlawumbi ukuze babe naye kubudlelwane, kwafuneka angayikhathaleli imiqondiso yolu nxibelelwano kwakhona. Ewe, kwaye imeko yenkosikazi yethutyana inika imvakalelo ebubuxoki yamandla akhethekileyo, okholwa. Ngapha koko, indoda inyula ngemfazi ephilayo ekufuphi, emva koko unendima ekhethekileyo kunye namalungelo akhethekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ephupheni, iphuma ekunxibelelaneni nolwazi oluntuvelitive ukuba ingeyiyo inombolo yakhe kule ndoda. Uyinkxaso nenkxaso yakhe, kodwa kuphela ukuze ade ade aqhawule phambili kunye nenkosikazi yakhe. Ukulala ngaphandle kwenkuni kubonile ukuba inyani kweli bali. Enjalo unyango lokwenyani ngephupha.
Ukufuduswa yindlela ye-psyche, "amava" angeyomfuneko kwi-subconsion
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Iphupha lesibini lelesinye iphupha. Kufanelekile ukucacisa. Amaphupha ethu ahamba ngoqhawule umtshato kwaye wadibana nendoda eyakhawuleza yaya kuqhawula umtshato nomfazi wokuqala. Kule mtshato kukho intombi. Onke amagama atshintshiwe.
"Uphuphe kwindawo kaMeyi 9. Emva koko bekungebonakale ukuba indoda yam iya esinqeni kwaye ivuthuzelwe ishushu emhlophe. Bendinaye nentombi yakhe kweli lizwe. Ngenye imini wayeyintombi eMoscow kwaye kwafuneka ebuyele ngemini elandelayo, ndahlala ndilinda. Ukuma, watsho ekuseni kufuneka azise imoto ye-fawwood, yabonisa indawo apho baphosa khona.
Ekuseni ndibona iphupha elo. Ndivuka ndivela kwingxolo yemoto enenkuni, ndikhangela ngaphandle kwefestile ukusuka kumgangatho wesibini, ndisazi ukuba yayiyinkuni, ezola. Kwaye ndiyabona ukuba iilori ezininzi zifikile, zihamba ziye eyadini kwaye ziqale kwi-asphalt. . Ngaphandle, ndicinga ukuba kufuneka balayishe, hayi i-Asphalt Roll, kufuneka uhle ngokungxamisekileyo kwaye ubaxelele ukuba akuyomfuneko kwi-Asphalt. Kufuneka sitsibe i-asphalt de ibe gqi kakhulu! Uza kuza ke u-Olegi, uya kukubona ukuba uya kuthi! Kwaye ngelixa ndicinga ukuba kufika, le ngcinga iza: "Ngokwenene, le yindlu yakhe le, iyelenqe. Kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba uza apha kwi-asphalt. Ubukhulu becala wabaqesha. Ndifuna ukugubungela i-asphalt, kwaye yintoni eyoyikekayo - ke yintoni? Eli lilungelo lakhe, uliphaphu ukuba enze le nto ayifunayo. " Kwaye ndaba lusizi ngenxa yokuba ubuhle obunjalo butshatyalalisiwe, kodwa ndiyaqonda ukuba andinanto yakwenza nantoni na.
Kum, eli phupha lalingumnxeba wokuba yena enyula ubomi bakhe (okanye, endaweni yoko, ongenabomi) kwaye uya kuyivula kwi-Asphalt - kwaye obu bomi bakhe kwaye buzithandayo nokukhetha kwakhe. Kwaye ndiyakwazi ukubona, ndingacaphukisa, ndingade ndicele ukuba ndicinge nge-asphalt. Kodwa phantsi kwe-asphalt yonke ifudukayo. "
Apha iphupha libonisa umfanekiso opheleleyo kwabo bahlala kufutshane nabantu abaxhomekekileyo. Bakhawuleza ubuhle babo bemvelo ukuba badanduluka, unokukhwaza kwaye ufuna ukuba kuphazamiseka, kodwa enyanisweni, kunzima ukunceda le nto. Kwelinye icala, iphupha malunga ne-Asphalt esingenakuxhomekeka kotywala, kodwa iqabane layo. Kuyo, oku kuthetha ukuba "roll" kwi-asphalt ye-Asphalt malunga nento yokuba kukho into ephosakeleyo ngendoda yakhe. Esi sisiphumo esiqhelekileyo kufutshane nomntu oxhomekekileyo. Babonisa ngokucacileyo, chaza, bafumane izizathu kwaye ungaqapheli nje. Akuzange kube kudala, ndandinomfazi kwindawo yokwamkela, owabona ukuba umyeni wakhe ulinxila, xa umhlobo wakhe weza kwiindwendwe, awayewubona iminyaka eliqela. Intombi emangalisayo ikhwaza: "Injani intombi yakho?" Kwaye kuphela umfazi ngokungathi uvukile e-Bekirgy, ukufumana intombi yakhe encinci idlala kunye neebhotile ezihamba phantsi kwebhiya kunye nevodka. Yayingumzuzu wokutyhala.
Kwenzeka into efanayo namaphupha ethu, atyeshela abaxhotyisiweyo botywala botywala bobutywala baso intanda yakhe. Ke iphupha lethu linethuba lokutsala ulwazi lokuthetha ngokuthe ngqo ukuba lukhawulezisa ubudlelwane kunye notywala, ukufihla le nyaniso.
Kubonakala ngathi akukho ndawo! Lala, njengoko i-freud ibanga, le yindlela yasebukhosini iye kwi-tud. Khumbula kwaye ucime ukulala - eli lilungelo ukwazi nokulawula iingxabano zakho. Ngelixa zingqubana kwintsimi engaziyo, ziyasinceda.
Amaphupha ethu afumana imiyalezo eyinyani malunga nabo kunye nolwalamano lwabo. Ndiyazibuza ukuba baya kulala njani ...
Kwaye kuthi sisifundo esinikele ingqalelo kumaphupha akho kunye nomxholo wawo onyanisekileyo.
Kwaye ngawaphi amaphupha akho? Imizekelo yamaphupha akho ethunyelwa ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupha kulula kakhulu ukuveza ukuba kwileta eya kumhleli uya kubhala iimeko ezingaphambili zobomi, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu - iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga zelixesha lokuvuka kweli phupha.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin