Uninzi lwethu lusebenza kwiqela, kodwa, ngelishwa, hayi kwimozulu nganye yeofisi kufuneka unxibelelane kwaye ubuhlobo. Ukuhleba okusisigxina, ubuso be-nevaus ogoago banokubangela ingozi enkulu kwi-psyche. Kwaye akukho mntu une-inshurensi ngokucinezela nokuxhaphaza kwiqela. Kodwa ufanele benze ntoni, ukuba usaba yinto yokutshutshiswa kwengqondo? Sizamile ukufumanisa.
Abafowunelwa abancinci
Njengomthetho, umxube uzama ukuba uza kungqubana ngeendlela zonke, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba uyenze kuphela ngokudibana rhoqo. Konke kuqalisa kancinci: Okokuqala umntu onobuqhetseba waphula indawo yakho, ezama ukuvuka kuwe "kwinqanaba elinye", umzekelo, nangona umntu enxibelelana nawe ngoogxa bakhe bonke . Nje ukuba uqaphele amaxesha amanye, zama ukudlulisela lonke unxibelelwano ngendlela ebhaliweyo, njengoko usilele ukulala ngokupheleleyo - usasebenza kwinkampani enye kwaye, mhlawumbi kwisebe elinye. Ukongeza, kwimeko yethoni engahloniphili, uya kuba nobungqina obuphambili ngohlobo lwembalelwano yembalelwano yakho.
Zigcine ezandleni zakho
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Sukuvala ngokwakho
Uninzi lwazo, ingca iqinile kwaye ifumane amandla ukuba ixhoba lithe cwaka kwaye alithathi isikolo. Kucacile ukuba akusoloko kulula kakhulu ukuvuma ukuba unengxaki enjalo kwiqela, nangona imeko ibaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba ayinakukwazi ukunyamezela isibheno okanye ubudlelwane obunetyhefu kunye ne-Buller Paunter Primous yomsebenzi wabo ngokufanelekileyo, hayi ibhegi yolawulo. Kwimeko apho umphathi akasebenzi, chaza imeko kwincwadana yemigaqo ephezulu.
Unganikezeli ekuvuseleleni
Njengoko besitshilo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba i-bulleler yokufezekisa iimvakalelo ezivela kuwe (kunjalo, ezingenayo), kwaye ke iya kulinda okomzuzwana xa ufumana eyona meko ixhasayo. Kuya kufuneka uhlale ucinga oku kwaye ulungele into yokuba xa unxibelelana nalo mntu, kufuneka uhlangane kwaye uzigcine ezandleni zakho, nokuba ufuna ukunamathela emqaleni. Musa ukuhlangula umntu ovuthuzayo wolonwabo.
Awunguye unobangela wokuxhuzula
Iingcali zengqondo zihlala zibonisa ukuba abanye abantu bagcine ixhoba lokuziphatha ebomini, ethi umntu onjalo asoloko efumana uxinzelelo oluvela kuwo onke amacala. Nangona kunjalo, kuyimfuneko ukuqonde ukuba ubungayi kuba ngumntu, ngakumbi kwimeko xa ungazami ukhwela kwiRogger, ayinakuba sisizathu sokuziphatha okunjalo kuwe. Khumbula indlela oogxa bakho abaphathwa ngayo kumsebenzi wangaphambili, ukuba akukho tyala lobukrakra ecaleni kwakho, obu bungqina bokuba kukho into engalunganga kwiqela lakho langoku.
Isenzo ngaphandle kokulibazisa
Xa uzifumana "kwinqanaba lokuqala" le-heit, awunakunikela ingqalelo kwinto yokuba umntu osebenza naye ugcobe kakhulu kwicala lakho, wenza intetho endenzele into enjalo emoyeni. Kubonakala ngathi kungcono ukuya, musa ukudala imeko yokungqubana. Ngapha koko, uyakuphela komoni. Ukuba ulwe ngaphandle ngaphandle kokulibazisa, inqanaba lomnqweno wokukulandela uza kuqhubeka nokuqhubeka ngakumbi, kwaye mhlawumbi umntu ovuthayo uya kutshintsha nawe, kuba unokuzimela.