Ngamanye amaxesha abazali banzima ukujongana neti oyithandayo. Umntwana akafuni kungekuphela nje ukuzalisekisa izicelo zabazali, kodwa aziphulaphule. Ezinye zezi zinto zinxulunyaniswa nengxaki yobudala, enye imeko enjalo iphindaphindwa rhoqo. Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ukuba zikhathalele ingxaki kwangoko ukuze zikwazi ukuphembelela umlinganiswa womntwana, kude kube kudala.
QAPHELA kumagama
Umntwana kufuneka amamele ngononophelo kwaye enze izicelo. Ukuba, umzekelo, ubukele iikhathuni, umbize kwaye uchaze ukuba ufuna ntoni na kuye. Qala incoko kuphela xa ingqalelo iyakugxila kuwe. Thetha ngokuzithemba kwaye usoloko uqhutywa zithembiso zakho, nangewohlwayo "ukohlwaya". Ukuba uxelele umntwana ukuba akasayi kufumana mnandi de wafunda ukususa iithoyi, aze ke azimnike ipipi, ngeyothusa ukuba kungekudala umntwana uya kuyeka ukubona amazwi akho.
Umntwana kufuneka athobele
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Ungaze wandise ilizwi lakho-isikhalo sakho esomisa umntwana kwaye ubangeke inkqubo ye-nervous ukuze ifumaneke kumagama ngokubangela indlela yokuphendula. Thetha ngokuzolileyo nangentlonelo: "UVanya, nceda uqokelele iithoyi zakho." Phinda isicelo izihlandlo ezininzi, ucacisa ukuba kutheni umntwana efanele enze le nto: "Sikunye noTata kwaye unokukhubeka kwiimoto ezisasazekileyo kwaye uwenzekile ngeenkcukacha ezibukhali."
Indumiso yokuthobela
Uninzi lwabantwana kufuneka luqinisekise indlela abaziphatha ngayo. Vumela umntwana avakalelwe kukuba ufuna uncedo lwayo. Enkosi ngezenzo ezilungileyo- mxelele "enkosi", ukudumisa namalungu osapho. Ungafumana ikhalenda encinci, apho izincamathelisi ziya kubhiyozela izenzo ezilungileyo-zincede umama wacela ukuba nengxowa yengxowa, abeke ithole kwiindawo, ngokuzimela owenza umsebenzi wasekhaya. Nikeza umntwana ukuba alubambe izincamathelisi ngokwakho, uyathanda. Khuthaza uncedo lwakhe kumaphulo kwi-cinema, zoo okanye ukuthenga iithoyi. Asikucebisi ukuba ukhuthaze umntwana uneelekese okanye imvume yokwaphula uqeqesho, umzekelo, umdlalo kwikhompyuter ungaphezulu kweyure ngosuku-kuyaphula kuphela.
Amanyathelo okumisela ulawulo
Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba kukho amanyathelo asibhozo ngendlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba athobele. Eyokuqala iqala ngokuzalwa kwaye malunga neminyaka emi-2: ufundisa umntwana kwizakhono ezisisiseko, ulwazi lwendalo kunye nokucela ukubonisa izakhono. Umzekelo, umntwana wafunda ukuthi "Gav-Gav". Umbuza: "Ithini njani inja?". Unoxanduva, oko kuthetha ukuba yanelisa isicelo sakho. Ndikunye nabantwana abadala, ubuchwephesha bahlukile- uphambi kwesenzo sayo ngenyathelo ngalinye. Ngaba uhlala etya isonka ngesobho? Etafileni, ndixelele: "Dima, uthathe iqhekeza lesonka.
Amanyathelo aliqela aya kunceda ukumisa amaqonga
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La manyathelo alandelayo ngumfundi onokufikelela xa uyibiza, ukuxoxa, ukwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho, ukuqonda ", ulawule" imisebenzi yesiqhelo kunye nenkululeko. Inqanaba lokugqibela lihlala lenzeka kwimeko yokufikisa. Okokuqala, umntwana ufuna iingcebiso kunye noncedo lwakho, kwaye emva koko uqale ukujamelana naye, ingabonakala isebenza imisebenzi enzima yokwenza idinga kwaye liye kulwamkelo okanye liye kuNcedo lwe-Gometa.
Yiba ngumhlobo womntwana
Abazali abangama-smart nabanothando abazange banqwenele umntwana okubi kwaye akazukufuna kuye ukuba angaphumelelanga oku, ngakumbi ekwiminyaka yobudala. Xa abazali benxibelelana nabo njengelinganayo, emva koko iingxabano zinokuphepheka. Ewe kunjalo, bonke abantwana baneemvakalelo ezahlukeneyo kunye nokusilela okubenza ukuba babize macala onke kwaye babe yingozi, kodwa baphela. Yiba nenkxaso kunye nenkxaso yomntwana, uyakuqonda oko kufanele ukuba uziphathe ngokunxulumene nawe. Xhasa umnqweno wakhe wokuba ngumntu omdala kwaye ungazilawuli ngokwakho - obu bubomi bakhe, hayi ngenxa yeyakho kunye nezinto onomdla kuzo.
Yiba ngumhlobo womntwana
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