Umlingane woe Saldanyy, umculi wase-Italiya wase-Italiya wathatha igama lomfazi wakhe waza waba nguMarco Saldan. Nangona kunjalo, esi sisigqibo somtshato siqiniseke kakhulu siqonde kakhulu uluntu.
Inkanyezi yefilimu ithi: "Ndizamile ukumhlukumeza," utsho inkwenkwezi yefilimu "kunye" nabagcini beGalari ". "Ndamxelela:" Ukuba uthatha ifani yam, uya kubizwa ngokuba nguBharbhine osebenza kwakho, izicaka zakho-amaTaliyane, ihlabathi liphela. " Kodwa wandijonga waphendula wathi: "Ah, Zowa, andikhathali ngayo!"
Kodwa kwaza kwenzeka into efanayo, kwaye uMarco wagwetywa ngento awayeyihambela phambili nezithethe. Kwaye emva koko uZoe uzima ngokunyaniseka ukuzikhusela kwendoda yakhe. "Oonyana, bonyana, bazalwana, Akuyi kuyeka ukuba ngamadoda, ukuba uthatha igama lomfazi wam, nokuba akayi kuzithabatha, ahlale ezakhe. Ndinekratshi ukuba umyeni wam uthathe ifani yam. Ekuqaleni ndabelana naye malunga nale ngxelo, kodwa wandibuza: "Kutheni kungenjalo? Uyoyika ntoni? "Ndaza ndacinga, ngenene, ndisoyika? -Ukuthobela iSaldan. "Kutheni le nto imangalisa kakhulu, yothusa, yoyikisa ukuba indoda ithathe igama leqabane?" Abafazi abaze babuze ukuba bangathini ukuze batyeshelwe iifani zabo. Kutheni le nto engaxoxwa kwiindaba? Amadoda, awuyi kuyeka ukuba uthatha igama leqabane lakho. Ngokuchasene noko, uyakukhumbula njengomntu oxhasa utshintsho. Ndiyazi, oonyana bethu baya kubahlonela kwaye babe neqhayiya ngotata wabo, kuba usebenzisa umzekelo. Manene, ndiyakubongoza ukuba ungacingi itemplate. Masinike inkcazo entsha ye-masculinety. Indoda yokwenene ihamba ngokuhambelana nesiqingatha sakhe. Indoda yokwenene ithatha ukubulawa kwakhe. Indoda yokwenene iyavuma ukuba akukho nto inokwenziwa yedwa. Yonke le ngxolo ikhuliswe kwimithombo yeendaba iscethuthuzela ukuba itshintshe, kumnqweno wokususa ii-stereotypes ezixelwe kwangaphambili kwaye zibone eyona nto ibaluleke ngayo kuthi. "
Kwaye yonke le hype yaqala kwimithombo yeendaba ngenxa yokuba ayizange yamkelwe eUnited States ukuba umyeni angathatha igama lomfazi wakhe. Le yeyona nkqubo inzima kakhulu. Xa uqukumbela umtshato, abantu abatshati abatshati abazibuza ukuba ithini ifani abafuna ukuyinxiba emva komtshato. Ngokungagqibekanga, kukholelwa ukuba into ikholelwa kwifani yendoda yakhe, okanye ihleli yeyakhe. Ukuba umntu ufuna ukuthatha ifani yomfazi wakhe, kuya kufuneka ahlawulele ukutshintsha kwefani amaxesha amane ngaphezulu komfazi, kuba le nkqubo ilingana notshintsho lwegama, kwaye ayibonelelwa lutshintsho lwegama xa ukuqukumbela umtshato.
Nangona kunjalo, uMarco Vern ubude kakhulu kwisigqibo sakhe.
- I-Bayonce Jes Zis Zis, Nee Senoh Carter, emva kokuba umtshato wathatha ifani yomfazi waza waba nguSean Kohlz Carter.
- Amaqabane e-John Lennon noYoko batshintshana nabo amagama abo okugqibela kwaye baba nguJohn Winston. NguLennon noLekon noLeokonon.
- U-Lorenzo Lamas, otshatileyo ngo-2011 kwi-Shag yaseCraig, watshintsha igama lakhe eLorenzo Lamas Craig.
- UJack kunye ne-meg mhlophe ukusuka kwi "Imivimbo Emhlophe" iqela laya liphosakele ngomntakwabo nodadewabo. Ngapha koko, ngamaqabane. UJack Gillis, otshatileyo ngo-1996 kwi-meg emhlophe, wathabatha ifani yakhe. Ngo-2000, baqhawule umtshato.