Uhlala ngokuzolileyo kwaye ngequbuliso uqonde: lixesha lokuqalisa umntwana. Hayi, ayenzi njalo. Nokuba uyanda undwendwela umbono wokuqhubeka kohlobo, oku akuthethi ukuba ulixesha lokwandisa usapho lwakho. Nangona kunjalo, iingcali zinyanzelisa ukuba kukho imiqondiso ethile eya kunika impendulo kumbuzo, okanye hayi.
Ubudlelwane obunamandla
Kunokuba bhetele, kodwa umntwana kufuneka abe nabazali ababini. Nokuba yeyiphi na umama kamama kunye nonke "iingcali" egameni labo bonke abafazi behlabathi - umntu osele epheleleyo unokufumana inguphi ngosapho kuphela. Ewe kunjalo, kukho iimeko ezahlukeneyo zokuba umntwana ahlala nomnye wabazali, sithetha ngeemeko xa abafazi benenjongo bayazizala, okanye naziphi na ezinye iimeko ezixhomekeke kumfazi. Kunzima ngakumbi kumakhwenkwe abo, njengoko kusenzeka kwiintsapho ezingaphelelanga, zikhula zijikelezwe ngabafazi. Abaliboni igunya, indoda ilingane. Kuhlala kukho umazi umhlaba wamadoda ngaphandle kwendlu, ehlehlise umnwe kwingqondo yomntwana.
Ke ngoko, ukuba uhlala wedwa okanye uphakanyiwe kwiqabane, cinga izihlandlo ezithathu, nokuba ungathanda ukwenza ubomi bakho, ukuba ubuncinci ngaphambi kokuphumelela kuya kufumana iphi: "Uphi utata wakho?"
Emva kokuzalwa, umntwana uya kuhlala nawe ebomini
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Ukunqongophala kweenjongo ze-mercenary yeemfuno zomntwana ezingenangqondo
Isigqibo sokuqalisa umntwana makwenziwe ngokusekelwe kwiminqweno yamaqabane amabini, hayi njengesiphumo soxinzelelo lweqabane elijikelezileyo okanye lesibini. Ukuba usebenzisa umntwana njengendlela yokuqhelanisa, indlela yokuphucula okanye izakuzala ukuze azinike isicaka sakhululekile kubudala, kungcono ushiye lo mbono. Umntwana uziva esibelekweni, wamkelekile okanye akamkelekile. Okokugqibela, akukho mntu uya konwaba kwiziphumo ezinjalo- nokuba wena okanye intombi yakho yexesha elizayo.
Ukutshintsha indlela yokuphila
Angtyly ngokwaneleyo, kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu oziqondayo ukuba luxanduva olukhulu luwela emagxeni lwabazali. Umntwana akanakubuyiselwa okanye anikezele kwenye indawo ukuba uqalile ukukuphazamisa. Uziswa ekukhanyisweni komntu omtsha oza kuhlala nawe ngobomi, okanye ubuncinci uhlala uzikhumbuza.
Ngokucacileyo, abantu abangalunganga, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha indlela yokuphila eyingozi, kuya kufuneka babuyise iinqobo zokuziphatha kwaye balungiselele izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka.
Kuya kufuneka ulungiselele ukuba ngokufika komntwana, kwaye ubomi beqabane lakho buza kutshintsha engcambu. Kwiminyaka embalwa yokuqala, zinikezele ngokupheleleyo ekukhathaleni umntwana, uya kuyinyusa ixesha elide kakhulu. Into yemidla yakho iya kwimvelaphi, ayinguye wonke umntu okulungele ukunyamezelana nexesha leziganeko.
Cinga ukuba unokubonelela ngeemfuno zakhe
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Ubutyebi bezezimali
Mhlawumbi yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo. Uninzi lwabantu olungakhathaliyo, kwaye lulilize kakhulu. Umntwana yenye yezona zinto zixabisekileyo ebomini bosapho. Cinga ukuba ukulungele ukunika isabelo sengxowa yohlahlo-lwabiwo mali kwiimfuno zomntwana. Inkathalo kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi, zonke iintlobo ze-Mugs, amacandelo, iidiliya zesikolo, uqeqesho kwiZiko, njl njl.
Ukuba ukwimeko yoxinzelelo, cocile le ngxaki ukhulelwe
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Imeko yengqondo ezinzileyo yabazali
Okokuqala, oku kubhekisa kumama, kuba kukunye nomntwana kunye nokuqalisa kwakhe esiphelweni sobomi bakhe. Kwinkqubo yokuphuhliswa kwembungu, imisebenzi ephambili ibekwe kwaye inkqubo ye-nevous ye-fetus iphuhla. Iza kuthi ngqo kuxhomekeke kwimeko kamama. Mhlawumbi uqaphele ezitratweni zokubhalwa kwabantwana kunye nee-moms ezingazange zimangalele. Kucacile ukuba umfazi onengqondo ephazamisayo akanakuze azalwe ngumntwana ozolileyo ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuba ukwimeko yoxinzelelo lwethutyana, kungcono ukuhlehlisa ukukhulelwa amaxesha angcono.