Abazali ngala bantu baya kuhlala benceda umntwana wabo: nceda ngengcebiso okanye amazwi anobubele. Nangona kunjalo, akusoloko kuthatha inxaxheba kubazali ngokwaneleyo, kukho iimeko apho kungakwazi ukujamelana nanxaxheba ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba kwengcali. Kule meko, ugqirha wezengqondo wabantwana uza kunceda.
Uzisa umntwana kwisibhedlele sokufika kwaye iinyanga zokuqala zinikele kuye ubomi bakhe. Dlala naye, thetha, uzama ukubiza uncumo. Lonke eli xesha uya kuqiniswa. Ebudeni bokuqala lixesha xa umntwana ezazi umhlaba ngomdlalo, uqala ukubamba intloko, anyuke ngeenyawo. Abazali bakhathalele umntwana ojikeleze iwotshi, kuba ngeli xesha umntwana akanangqondo.
Imfundo iyafuneka ebutsheni
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Kwaye ke umntwana wenza inyathelo lakhe lokuqala, utsho igama lokuqala. Abazali baya kuba lula, kuba umntwana uqala ukuzikhonza, akusafuneki ukumlungiselela ngokwahlukeneyo. Ngokuthe ngcembe, iba ngumntu owahlukileyo kubazali bakhe, kunye neminqweno kunye nehlabathi elingaphakathi. Umntwana uba nenkululeko enkulu, ayikhusele. Ngeli xesha, kubalulekile ukwenza zonke iinzame zokufundisa ngokufanelekileyo indlalifa, kuba kungenjalo uya kuba nexesha elinzima kakhulu kwikamva, ukuba awuchazi umntwana ngoku, njengoko kufuneka uziphathe.
Abantwana bafana kakhulu nabantu abadala. Ukuphuhliswa kwazo kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abazali kunzima ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kunye nomntwana, njengoko becinga ukuba "bevela kwi-bell tower yabo." Apha uncedo lomdala odidekileyo kunye nogqirha wezengqondo yabantwana.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, abazali banokuyixabisa imeko yomntwana ngokwabo, kodwa kukho iimeko ezithile kunye neemeko apho ingcali kufuneka ingeneleli.
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Abazali baphulukana nolawulo
Owona mntwana uthobela kakhulu unokuqhubeka kwaye ahoye amazwi omntu omdala. Kwenzeka rhoqo kwaye, ukuba akuba ngumkhwa, ungakhathazeki. Nangona kunjalo, xa uziva ngathi awusakwazi ukulawula umntwana, yiya kuthethwano kwingcali eya kukuxelela indlela yokuphuma kule meko inzima.
Imvakalelo yoloyiko
Bonke abantwana baye boyika. Umntu othile uyoyika ubumnyama, abanye-ukuhlala bodwa, qua, kwaye isithathu kunokubangela oovimba beepaki. Le mvakalelo ayinabungozi, njengoko injalo, abazali abaninzi abamniki intsingiselo, bemfundisa umntwana, ecinga ukuba yonke into izakudlula. Ukuba uloyiko luqala ukubamba umntwana, kwaye uziva ngathi luyavalwa ngakumbi, qiniseka ukuba uya kuthatha.
Igqibelele naziphi na iingcebiso zobukrwada
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Iintloni
Ke abantwana banobunzima ekwenzeni ukuqokelelwa. Abanye abantu abaqondi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kwaye baqale ukuhlekisa umntwana. Rhoqo abantu abanjalo abavuyeli lo mgca, ndizisa emdala. Kwimekookubona ukuba umntwana uyanengxaki kule, musa ukutyelela utyelelo kwi-psychologist.
Ubukrakra
I-suhenomeno eqhelekileyo kwihlabathi labantwana. Umntwana unokuhlasela ngequbuliso omnye umntwana okanye enzekalisa inja okanye ikati. Kunzima ukusichonga kwangoko isizathu, kuba ubundlobongela babantwana bunokukhula 'ngezizathu ezininzi. Kuya kufuneka uyeke ingcambu, kungenjalo ukuba ubundlongo buya kuba yinto.
Jonga ukusebenza kwezemfundo
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Umsebenzi ogqithisileyo
I-hyperactivity yingxaki yabazali abaninzi kunye nabasebenzi bamaziko emfundo, anjenge-kindergarten nasezikolweni. Kunzima ukuba umntwana agxile kwinto enye, uqalisa ukuba nomsindo kwaye urhoxile. Kule meko, ugqirha wengqondo uya kukuxelela apho athambelela khona amandla angenakuthelekiswa nawo.
Iimeko ezinzima
Akukho sidingo sokukhumbuza indlela i-pregile yengqondo enobuthathaka. Ebomini bomntu wonke kukho iimeko apho de kwaba abantu abadala bengakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle koncedo lwengcali, umzekelo, ukusweleka kwelinye lamalungu osapho, ugonyamelo, inqanaba elitsha ebomini, elihamba. Ingozi kukuba ekuqaleni akunakwenzeka ukuba uqonde, kubangele enye yeziganeko ezenzakalisa okanye hayi. Kwimeko enjalo, sikucebisa ukuba undwendwele ugqirha wezengqondo ubuncinci kwiinjongo zokuthintela.
Umntwana akanalo ixesha esikolweni
Isikolo sisigaba esinzima ebomini bomntwana, ngakumbi okokuqala. Asingabo bonke abantwana abanokujoyina iqela ukusuka kusuku lokuqala. Kwimeko apho kungqubana nabantu eklasini okanye nootitshala, okokuqala, besombulula ingxaki ngokwabo, bethetha ngawo onke amaqela ukuya kungquzulwano, kodwa ukuba imeko inzima kakhulu, faka utyelelo kwi-psychologistry.