- UTanya, ixesha elide ungakhange ufune abantwana, kwaye kungekudala bazale okwesithathu ...
- ngaphambili, bendicinga ukuba abantwana basisiphelo sobomi.
- Ngoba?
"Utata wayefuna inkwenkwe konke konke." Ekubeni ubuntwana, ndaqhuba ndikhulu, ndangena kwinqaba, ndakhwela emithini. Ukufakelwa ekukhuliseni kwakunjalo: Kodwa loo nxalenye yengqondo yam, eyayinokwazi ngayo umfazi nonina, ayikhuli ngokukodwa, kwaye nayo ayikhuli. Andizange ndicinge ukuba kwakuyimfuneko ukuba ufunde. Ke ngoko, kwabonakala kum ukuba nje ndinomntwana wam, ubomi bam buza kuphela! Ngoku ndiyaxolisa kakhulu: Ndiza kuqala ukuzala ngaphambili, bendiya kuba nabantwana abaninzi. Ukuba ngumama omkhulu lolona lonwabo luphezulu.
-Sinoluvo lokuba emva kwamashumi amathathu ukuzalwa emva kwexesha, oogqirha babiza aba bafazi ngokutya ...
-Udinga ukhangela ogqirha basekunene! Ndiza kuzala ngamashumi amane anenye. Ukukhulelwa yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kumfazi, indlela yokuphefumla, ukulala, utye. Ibhinqa le le le lenzekile. Unayo yonke into yokuthwala kwaye izelwe umntwana osempilweni.
-Benze ukoyika xa walibele okokuqala?
- ULuka wayenzima ngakumbi. Xa wazalwa, inani elikhulu kakhulu noloyiko, kuba wawa phezu kwam. Ndihlale kwi-hysterics yakho kwiinyanga ezimbini, ndandingazi ukuba ndenze ntoni, ndingathini na ukumkhusela kwiLizwe elinobukrakra? Olu thando ndiphantse ndandiphazamisa.
-Kodwa ngaphambi kokuzalwa kukaMartha, ukhe waya kwimizila yamadoda?
Ewe, ziluncedo kakhulu. Saya kwizifundo kunye nomyeni wam uValera. Sele sityelele, kodwa ayisiyiyo yonke le khosi, kodwa kuphela ehambelana nomzuzu wokuzala. Kwaye okwesihlandlo sokuqala, ukuqala kokutya kunye ne-gymnastics, iphele ngokukhathalela umntwana kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi. UValera uthe ufuna ukuya emsebenzini. Emva koko ndacinga ukuba kufuneka siye kwiiklasi apho wayenokuva khona kwaye abone ukuba yonke into eyenzekayo. Ukuba emva koko ujike kwisantya esingasemva, andizukucaphuka. Ngapha koko, kwindoda, la mava, ukuyibeka ngobumnene, ngokugqithileyo, ukuba akuthethi ingozi. Kodwa iValera yonke into idlulile kwaye umqolo awuzange uvule.
Amantombazana eendaba anexhala kakhulu ngomntu ochithiweyo. Ngaba ukhe woyikiswa?
-Ngaba andingobo basetyhini abatshatileyo kumaphephancwadi, bahamba ngepodium kwaye bave ubunzima ngayo yonke imithambo emadolweni abo. Andizange ndisebenze njengomzimba. Ke ngoko, andizange ndingoyiki ukubona amanqaku athile awolula, eselula. Ngaba unexhala lokuba isisu sam asikokungaqondakali, njengangaphambili? Hayi! Oku, kungekudala, kamva, kusenzeka kuwe. Eyona nto imbi kakhulu emhlabeni bubuhle obulupheleyo. UMarlene Fetrich, nangona wayenayo yonke into: bobabini italente, kunye namathuba, evalelekile endlwini, baqhuba bonke abantu, kuba wayengabonakali kubantu bakudala bakudala. Kule meko, amava eebheri zeBrick Bardo ndisondele kakhulu. Andazi ukuba ndigugile kakuhle, kodwa ndiyaqonda ukuba le yinkqubo engenakufikeleleka kwaye kufuneka unombulelo ngento ophila ubomi obude.
I-Tutta larsen, kunye nomyeni wakhe, i-Velery kunye nabantwana uLula noMartha. .
-Ubhaptizelwa ebuntwaneni?
Iminyaka elithoba.
-Uya ecaweni nomyeni wam nabantwana?
-Siyintsapho ye-orthodox. Rhoqo ngeCawa kwiTempile yeLiturgy. Sizama ukugcina izithuba, ubudlelane babantwana.
- Bayiqonda njani itempile?
- Kwaye uyazi, asinyanzeli ngakumbi nantoni na. Siyahamba, sihamba nathi. Okoko. Kuba bona yindlu! Sine-martuuna, umzekelo, ukuya kwiminyaka emibini ukuya kwababini. Xa kufika iindwendwe, wafihla ngasemva kwethu, wajonga ngaphandle. Kodwa etempileni bekungakwazi ukubamba. Ungaya nabani na, Hlala ecaleni kwebhentshi, khwela. Mhlawumbi xa bengofikisayo, baya kuba noqhanqalazo, kwaye baya kuqalisa ukufuna okwabo isimo sengqondo noThixo. Kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba ikhoboka, elibekwe ngokuzalwa kwintsapho, liya kubanceda nje, bangaphuli kwaye bangaphuli.
-Ukuba ngandlel 'ithile uzama ukuchaza abantwana ukuba kungekudala baya kuba nomzalwana okanye udade?
-Siyicacisile kwitafile yonyaka omtsha. Basiqonda njengesipho. Abantwana abaya etempileni bafumana iinqobo zemveli zosapho zemveli ezisasazwa kwimeko ye-Orthodox. Bayazi ukuba ubukhulu bonwabo, lulonwabo, yintsikelelo kaThixo. Ke ngoko bandibuza, kutheni simbalwa abantwana entsatsheni? Usapho lwethu lumenza, Bawo Alexandra, akabanga mgama, ngoku uMatushka unxibe umntwana wesithandathu. Kwaye xa sithi, silinde umntwana, abonwabile. Abantwana bachukumisa isisu, bave ukuba umntwana utyhile njani apho.
-Baphi abantwana abachitha ixesha elininzi?
-UTata. Ngenxa yentlekele, incinci. Kodwa kukho ixesha lokunxibelelana nabantwana. Umphumo, umzekelo, isaphetha esinjalo okokuqala ngqa kubo bonke abafundi abathathu esikolweni baba ngumfundi ococekileyo, kuba uValera waqala ukwenza umsebenzi wasekhaya. Andinawo umonde owoneleyo okanye amandla. Ndingoyiki.
- Uninzi lwabantu ludidanisa imeko xa umyeni enabantwana kunye nomfazi usebenza?
- Okokuqala, iyasebenza. Okwesibini, kum ngenani lemali eswelekileyo kwiNdlu engazange ilingane nendoda yakhe. Indoda ngumnini ndlu. Indoda elawula indlu, usapho. Ngale ndlela, uValera yikhulu lendoda. Sonke siyamthanda kwaye siyayixabisa, intlonipho.
-Uye abantwana bakho banamagama angaqhelekanga, bavela njani?
-Sinawo onke amagama aqanjwa kwangaphambili. Isibakala sokuba uNyana ubizwa ngokuba yiLuka, ndandisazi kwiminyaka emihlanu edlulileyo ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwakhe. Bendifuna ukumbiza ngotat'omkhulu. Wafa kwakudala. Kwaye xa ndavunwa, ndafunda ngobukho be-ST. LULAMAKICOPsKY. Lawelusi wumbile wangena ubomi bam, kwiiveki zokugqibela zokukhulelwa. Kwakumangalisa. Intlungu yakhe ivakalelwa lixesha. Kwaye uMarfa uphuphayo ngam xa ndandinxiba i-luka. Kwaye kwakungekho mibuzo kwaphela. Kwandula ke yavuma ukuba uValera Prabhabeki Marfa. Waphila ngokulinganayo kunonyaka, wazala kwaye wakhulisa abantwana abalishumi.
- Kwenzeka ntoni ngomnye umntwana - iprojekthi entsha yeTV?
-Ndikhathazekile ekuqaleni kohlobo lwebhlog yevidiyo kwi-Intanethi malunga nobunye nobuntwana. Kodwa oogxa bam kunye namaqabane am bandixelele: Siza kwenza umabonwakude! " Ngenxa yoko, iqela leklasi laqokelelwa, kwaye sadala umabonwakude. Kwaye sifuna ukuthetha ngeli jelo malunga nento exhalabisa apha kwaye ngoku. Kuba okwangoku ndikwisikhundla, inkqubo yokuqala esikhulele abantwana kunye nokuzalwa komntwana.