Zingaphi iintsomi eziqhubeka ubukho bengqondo yendoda nebhinqileyo, injongo eyahlukileyo kunye nezinye izinto - zonke, ukuba zeziphi na izazinzulu ziphikisana neminina yosuku. Nangona kunjalo, kukho into yokuphikisana ngokungafanelekanga-umahluko kwindlela yokusebenza. Amadoda ahlala enendlela esengqiqweni negazi ebandayo kwishishini, nangona kukho izinto ezinjalo. Sibonisa iimpawu ezimbalwa zomntu ekufuneka zinikezelwe kubantu besini esahlukileyo.
Akukho ziimvakalelo
Abasetyhini bahlala benokwenzeka kwiimvakalelo, ezingamangalisiyo: Sinemvelaphi yehormonial eguqukayo, ebangela ukubonakaliswa ngokukhawuleza kwemfesane. Sidla ngokwenza izigqibo malunga nokudluliselwa kwentliziyo, uxolo obenziweyo kwaye bangene kwisikhundla sayo nawuphi na umsebenzi. Nangona kunjalo, into yokuqala ofanele ukhokelwe ngumsebenzi yingqondo ephangaleleyo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba unyule ngokucacileyo indawo yokuthuthuzela kunye nemida yabanye abantu. Ke abayi kuhlonitshwa kuwe, kodwa abayi kubonisa izicelo, besazi ukuba uya kubawala ukuba bawenze, kuba banomdla kwimicimbi yethu.
UVAVANYO LWEZOQOQOSHO NOKUXHASA
Ukuba kuya kufuneka uqhube isiqalo, tshintsha iqela labadibeneyo okanye thatha esinye isigqibo esibalulekileyo, okokuqala, xabisa imiphumo enokubakho. Phesheya, kulisiko ukwenza imephu yengqondo- le yimephu yeziphumo, zombini ezithandekayo nezingalunganga. Amadoda ahlangabezana kakuhle nemisebenzi enjalo, njengoko edla ngokuqhuba uxanduva lwezinto eziphathekayo, ke iimpazamo nganye ixabisa abo babiza kakhulu kwingqondo yokoqobo neyokomfuziselo. Zifundise ukuze uvavanye amacala omabini kwisigqibo sokuqala komsebenzi - kwikamva elizayo kuya kukunceda unciphise inani leempazamo kwaye likubonise njengomntu onengqiqo. Kwishishini ngaphandle kweqhinga, unokukhawuleza "ukutshisa", ngoko kungcono ukucinga kwangaphambili kwaye uphephe iimpazamo.
Ukwenza imephu yeziphumo ezinokubakho
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Ukukwazi ukugxila ekusebenzeni
Kwintloko yomfazi ophakathi komfazi kwangaxeshanye imisebenzi emininzi: umsebenzi, indlu, usapho, abahlobo. Ungalibali ukuvuyisana nomhla wokuzalwa komntwana wakho woBuntu, thenga umntwana othenjiswe ukuba uyokudlala, thatha idyasi ecociweyo ecociweyo kwaye ngaphezulu - zonke ezi zinto zijikeleza entloko ngexesha elinye. Amadoda ahlala enexhala malunga noxanduva lwasekhaya kunye nokukhulisa abantwana, ke kulula kubo ukususa iingcinga ezongezelelweyo. Thatha umzekelo kubo: Bhala zonke izinto ezibalulekileyo kwidayari ukuba "Khuphela" intloko, ibeke ifowuni kude kwaye wenze kuphela umsebenzi.
Ukusasazwa ngokutsha kwemisebenzi
Eyona ntshaba yelungileyo. Ukufuna ukwenza kube ngcono, sinokuyiphazamisa imeko. Umzekelo, uhlala unceda umntu osebenza naye, ocelwe ukugula komntwana, kunye nabantwana bakho ngexesha le-nanny okanye umakhulu. Akukho sidingo sokwenza njalo. Okokuqala kufuneka ube njalo, kwaye ke osebenza nabo. Ndikholelwe, ubuhlobo bakho abuyonakalisile "Hayi": Kusenokwenzeka ukuba abantu abanobuvila bakwazi ukukuthembeka kwakho kuwe. Ewe, kwaye imisebenzi yawo iya kuba ilungile kwi-Refrix isithethi: Khetha ezona ndlela zintathu zibalulekileyo kwimisebenzi yakho kwaye ugxile kuzo, kwaye ukuphucula abo basebenza boncinci.
Vumelana ngoncedo lwabasebenzi abancinci
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Unxibelelwano kunye nabantu abaphumeleleyo
Amadoda ayayiqonda indlela ekubaluleke ngayo ukujoyina imeko yonxibelelwano kwishishini ngexesha lokwakha unxibelelwano oluqinileyo ukunceda ukuphumelela kwishishini kunye nokuqhubela phambili kwizitepsi zamakhondo omsebenzi. Ngokwesiqhelo ubuhlobo obunjalo buqala kumacandelo ezemidlalo - i-squash, inqaba, ukuqubha, umthambo kunye nabanye. Kwezi ndawo, abantu bagxile ngomndilili owaneleyo, oqonda ukuba inkxalabo yomzimba ilingana nophuhliso lwengqondo. Imidlalo iphucula ukulungelelanisa, yomeleza unxibelelwano lwendalo unoxanduva lwememori, inqanaba lenkqubo kunye nobuchule. Kwakhona nabantu besiphango sakho banokufumaneka kwiminyhadala yeShishini, iintlanganiso kunye nabameli bokuthengisa kunye nemiboniso.