Kwilizwe lanamhlanje kukho ubunzima beendlela zokufumana umntu komnye umzi okanye kwilizwe. Sinxibelelana ngenyameko kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo, yiya kuhambo lweshishini kwaye unethuba kuyo yonke indawo ukuze adibane nalowo uza kubangela uvelwano kunye nothando.
Kukholelwa ukuba ezo mvakalelo azinawo amathemba, ukusukela, ngenxa yokude, abantu abanakuba nezalamane zabo. Nangona kunjalo, iimeko apho inoveli ivele yonwabile, isekwenzeka.
Ulwalamano lwentengiso lunokusebenza kwiinguqulelo ezimbini. Okokuqala, amathuba okuphumelela alungile xa omnye wabathandayo engakhathali ukuba ahambe kwaye aqhubeke kwifomati yexesha elizeleyo. Okwesibini, ukuba sisibini esonwabileyo, esihlala kwizixeko ezahlukeneyo, mhlawumbi abo bangafuniyo ngokudibeneyo, iintsapho kunye nabantwana, kwaye bakulungele ukwaneliseka yimbalelwano, umnxeba kunye.
Ke, ukuba uziva ngathi indoda isuka elunxwemeni usala elunxwemeni uya kumnandi, ungangxami ukwala umnikelo wakhe wokutya. Kuyenzeka ukuba esi sidlo sangokuhlwa siya kuba sisiqalo sobudlelwane obuhle.