Ingxelo esemthethweni ye-Ben Gomes kunye ne-Jennifer Garner ngoqhawulo-mtshato mhlawumbi ayizange ibe yinto enkulu kakhulu kuluntu: amarhe malunga nokupheliswa kwabo ekupheleni kukaMeyi. Kwaye iinkcukacha ezintsha zobomi bentsapho yesibini esitshatileyo saqala ukuvela kwaye siqinisekise inyani yokuba oku kungafikeleleki.
Ngokutsho komthombo osondeleyo kwiHollywood Cheto, uBen noJennifer babeza kuphelisa umtshato wabo ekuqaleni kuka-2012, xa umongo wakhulelwe umntwana wabo wesithathu. "Ngeli xesha, batyelele ugqirha wezengqondo kwiminyaka eliqela. Kodwa akukho nto incedisayo. Sele belungiselele uqhawulo-mtshato, kodwa apha uSam wazalwa. Kwaye uyazi ukuba kwenzeka njani: umntwana wabonakala kwaye wanyibilika kuwo wonke umahluko. Kodwa okwethutyana kuphela: yayikukuphela kobudlelwane babo. Kwaye akanakubamba iminyaka, "yatsho njalo i-Insingstic.
"UBen wayefuna ngokwenene ukuqonda kwakhe ukuqonda kwakhe usapho. Kwaye unethemba lokuba uya kuphumelela. Ke ngoko, wahlala emtshatweni ixesha elide kunokuba wayefuna. Ngenxa yabantwana kwaye ngenxa yentetho. Kodwa akakwazanga ukugcina usapho. Ityumkile, - iyaqhubeka umthombo. -Omabini alwa nosapho lwabo. Kodwa, ekugqibeleni, kuyavela ukuba ukwahlula yeyona nto banokuyenza ngenxa yabantwana babo kunye nabo.
Abantwana babaluleke kakhulu kubo bobabini abatshatileyo, kwanasemva koqhawulo-mtshato, baya kuhlala kunye - kwindlu yabo yeCalifornia enendawo engaphezulu kwe-800 yeemitha. Ngapha koko, oku kuyenzeka kangangeenyanga ezilishumi: Kuxelwa ukuba i-garner kunye ne-axclecks zipholile omnye komnye ekuweni kulo nyaka uphelileyo. Ke uBen wayesele ekwazile ukuxhobisa i-burgogo yakhe kwenye yeenxalenye zendlu.
Kananjalo egameni lempilo-ntle yenzala yakhe uBen noJen bafuna ukunciphisa ipropathi yokwahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlulahlula-hlulwa. Imeko ye-stellar isibini iqikelelwa kwi- $ 150 yezigidi. Nangona kunjalo, amaqabane akazange agqibe ngemvumelwano yomtshato, kwaye igalelo labo kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali losapho liphantse. Ngokutsho komthetho, igarner ayinakuthembela kwi-alimony ifaphuka. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba inkundla iya kuwa ecaleni kukaJennifer, kwaye iya kuba nakho ukufumana isabelo esikhulu kancinane kunoBen. Inyani yile yokuba iinkwenkwezi zazihlala emtshatweni kangangeminyaka elishumi, kwaye kwiimeko ezinjalo inkundla imisela iqabane elingumlingane lenkxaso mali eyongezelelweyo kumyeni wangaphambili.
Khumbula, uBen Abyleck noJennifer Garner baqhelene kwaye bafumana abahlobo kwifilimu yefilimu "(2001). Abadlali baqalisa ukudibana ngo-2004, kunyaka kamva babhengeza ukubandakanyeka kwabo kwaye batshata ngoJuni 29, 2005. Abaxhasi abantwana abathathu: i-violet yonyaka ubudala, iSeraphene eneminyaka emithandathu kunye noSamuweli oneminyaka emithathu ubudala. Ingxelo esemthethweni yoqhawulo-mtshato lwesibini esitshatileyo senziwe ngoJuni 30, ngosuku olulandelayo emva kwesikhumbuzo seminyaka elishumi sobomi bomtshato. "Emva kwexesha elide, ukulinganisa ngononophelo yonke into, sithathe isigqibo - ukuqhawula umtshato. Sihlala siye komnye abahlobo abalungileyo. Kwaye siya kuqhubeka sinyamekela abantwana bethu, "utshilo uBen noJennifer.