Yiba ngumlingani-isiqubulo, phantsi kwayo hayi isizukulwana sabafana. Ngaphezu koko, umahluko phakathi kwe "ndoda yokwenene" kunye "nendoda yokwenene" wonke umntu eqonda: owokuqala-onobungozi bokuwela kuyo yonke ingxaki Uncedo lweencoko. Ubonakala emhle, ivumba ngathi, ayinazintloni zokuphuma kunye naye. Ukuba ungamkhathalela umntwana. Njengomthetho, abafana abade badelelane byutels kwinto yokuqala: Bakholelwa ukuba zonke ezi venkile zibarber kunye neendlela zefashoni zobudoda ngamaqhinga abafazi abafuna ukuthatha indawo yabo. "Amadoda" AMADODA AYIKHINIKIWEYO AKWENZA INDAWO YOKUXELWA KWAKHONA KUKHANYA NJENGOKO, ngenxa yoko bazama ukubonisa i-masculin yabo ngayo yonke indlela.
Nangona kunjalo, kubomi benene, awuyi kudibana "nommeli we" BUBED "zale ntlobo: Uninzi lwamadoda ludibanisa ngempumelelo amanqaku abo bobabini. Ngamaxesha athile, 'umntu "engaphakathi" ixhoba le "raplomat", kule meko, le ndoda iqala ukubonisa ubundlongondlongo ukubonisa ubuqaqawuli. Le phenomeno ibizwa ngokuba yityhefu yetyhefu. Yakhiwa ubukhulu becala, edale i-stareotypes malunga nendlela "indoda yokwenene" ekufuneka ijonge ngayo kwaye ihlale.
Kwimbono "yendoda yokwenyani" i-barber-venkile kunye nee-boutets azikho
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Kodwa phantse ihlala ingumntu onetyhefu izisa umntu ukubandezeleka okuthile, kuba ukufihla ukungangqinelani kwakhe, okunentloni zokuvula abantu. Amadoda anjalo athambekele kuzo zonke iintlobo zokuphazamiseka, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. Emva kwexesha elithile, baqala ukuphazamisana neentsapho zabo.
Ke yintoni le inika le yeyona ndoda "yecala" endodeni? Zintandathu imiqondiso oya kuba lula ukubala umntu kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokuba ungangena kubulala naye:
Babelana ngemisebenzi ngokungqongqo kumadoda nabafazi
Indoda enjalo ngokuqinisekileyo iqinisekile ukuba le ndoda ineqela lemisebenzi leyo indalo emvumela ukuba aqhubeke, kwaye abanye abakho. Sele imbi. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kuyavela ukuba le ntetho ibeka indoda phambi kwenyaniso yokuba akaceli mngeni. Kwelinye icala, indoda ayisetyenziswanga ukuba ihlawule izithintelo. Imeko enjalo inika ukungakhathalelwa okukhulu kumphefumlo wakhe, onokukhokelela kuxinzelelo olukhawulezileyo, ukuba aluyicombululi ngokukhawuleza.
Akukho nto yoyikekayo ukuba indoda yakho ibiza inkosi, kwaye ayisebenzi kwindlu ngokwayo
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Ungazihoyi iimvakalelo zomfazi wakho
Ayisiyonto eyindoda kukusabela kwiinyembezi zamabhinqa kunye nokukhwaza. Indoda ayifuni kudibana xa umntu obhinqileyo ukuba athethe, ngaloo mntu uba unobangela wengxabano enkulu kunye nokungaqondani. Kwaye oko kunokukhokelela kwisibini, uyaqonda.
Xela ukuba i-polygamy yinto eqhelekileyo
Kuluntu lwamadoda, "indoda yokwenene" isebenza ngesondo. Mayibe ngamazwi, kodwa ukukhankanya oku kwinkampani yamanye "amadoda" yimeko yengcwele.
Ukuba umntu ubonakalisa umdla kwisini esahlukileyo, yena, njengomthetho, ethatha impilo yakhe impilo, kwaye kunzima ukuyiqhuba kugqirha ukuba ahlolwe.
Bane-hobby eyindoda yokwenyani
Amanye amadoda aqokelela i-balcony yeekhilomitha zokuzingela, imiba yamaphephandaba edumileyo kule minyaka ilishumi idlulileyo, iiseti zezixhobo zengcebiso yomhlobo osenyongweni. Kwaye azisoloko ziyifuna ezi "madoda". Indoda inokujongana noluvo lokuzingela, kwaye i-screwdriver yamphalaza.
Myeke aqonde ukuba akukho sizathu sokuba unomdla kwifilimu yombhali okanye ukulinywa kwee-orchids.
Ukuphepha iingxaki zosapho akuyi kukwenza ube nesibindi
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Indoda yokwenyani ibhinqa ayisile mmiselo
Ngokwesiqhelo le meko iqhelekile kwiintsapho apho abantu bengayazi indlela yokucwangcisa ixesha kunye nokudibanisa indawo yobuqu ngemisebenzi ejikeleze indlu. Kule meko, indoda iqala ukufuna inkululeko engakumbi kumfazi wakhe, nokuba akukho sizathu sokufuna.
Indoda ilukhuni
"Indoda ayilila" - elinye ibinzana elikhokelela kwinkqubo etshabalalisayo ye-psyfu, njengendoda igcina yonke into ngaphakathi kwakhe kwaye ayiziniki iimvakalelo zokuphuma. Ngokweengcali, ezona zinto zixhaphakileyo zokufa eUnited States zizibulala. Imalunga neemvakalelo ezixinezelekileyo eziya kuguqulwa zibe yingcingo, ethi ikhokelela kwisiphelo esilusizi.