Cinga ngokunzulu ngayo, ndandenza ndabona ukuba ndinxibelelana nomntwana wam. Inkwenkwe izamile ukucinezela iqhosha kwi-IKIKIWEYO, Ngesizathu sokuba akazange ayikhanyisekele, ekuphenduleni kuTata, ngokucaphuka, athi: "Awungekhe ucofe i-phila"? Inzala yajonga utata onesidima, kuba kule meko igama elithi "eqhelekileyo" alifakwanga kumyalelo ocacileyo. Inokuba ngamanqabane, kwaye mhlawumbi ngobuthathaka, kwaye mhlawumbi ngawo onke amandla enqindi. Eli tyala likude kakhulu.
Umama kwinye intombi ithi: "Kutheni ungafumani ndoda eqhelekileyo"? Kule meko, "iqhelekile" ngulowo uya kuthanda umama ngokwalo. Kwaye kuthekani ngesibakala sokuba siphile ngapha nangapha ukuba sinentombi?
Masihambe ngakumbi - umakhulu oguqukayo onentlungu entliziyweni yakhe uthetha abazukulwana bakhe: "Beka eqhelekileyo." Isaladi, okokuqala, okwesibini kunye nengqokelela kunye nee-pancakes-kakhulu, inqatha, i-calorie-yile "eqhelekileyo". Ngoku, xa abantu abaninzi belandela ubunyani beemveliso, batya ngokwahlukeneyo, bahlale kuzo zonke iintlobo zokutya, bahlale iilebheli iilebheli, ityiwa, zifundisisa iilebheli ezizukulwaneni zemicimbi yokutya ayiqhelekanga. Ngenxa yesizukulwana esidala-bubusuku, ngokungaqhelekanga, oko kukuthi.
Omnye umzekelo. Ngaba ungayitshicela okanye uncanca kwi-asphalt? Hayi? Kwaye umntu akaboni kwanto iliso labo laboni kwaye cinga ngesiqhelo.
Ewe, ngenxa ye-snack - awuyi kufika engqondweni ukuba utye iqabane lakho emsebenzini kuphela ngenxa yokuba unento "enempompo." Nakwisizwe sali, ukuba kwi-papua New Guinea, yokutya notshaba lwayo kusaqwalaselwa libristi enkulu.
Umzekelo, ndicinga ukuba, kwanele, siphendukela kwizigqibo. Okokuqala, yazi ukuba igama elithi "luqhelekileyo" lifihlwe malunga neebhiliyoni ezisixhenxe ezingamawaka ezigidi- nje abantu abaninzi bahlala kwiplanethi. Elowo unenyaniso, kuba elonyulo, kuba ummelwane wakho wamkelekile, kwakhona, kuyinto eqhelekileyo.
Okwesibini, ngokujonga oko, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukutolikwa kwegama elithi "ngesiqhelo", zilungiselele inyani yokuba uninzi lweempikiswano zabantu ziya kufikelela kwisiseko. Uzama "ukucofa" omnye umntu kwisakhelo sobomi bakho kunye nokungasebenzi, uyacaphuka, unomsindo.
Phambi kokuba kwakhona umntu "abuyisele", zibuze: Unyanisile ukuba ungaphazamisi ubomi bomnye umntu? Umthetho uqwalasela uhlaselo lwentsimi yobunini babucala njengolwaphulo-mthetho, ngaphandle kwento yokuba ungaphula imida yendawo yomntu. Ngokutsho komnye umthetho owonileyo, abazali baphazamisa abantwana, kwaye nabo banako, kubomi babazali, amadoda akhokelela ngezenzo zabafazi, kwaye abafazi babo benza okufanayo.
Ufuna ukuphila ngolonwabo? Phila ubomi bakho kwaye ungazami ukunyanzelisa amagama akho kunye nabanye - kulungile kuphela. Kodwa njengokuba uyazi, "ukuba isiRashiya kulungile, emva koko ukufa kweJamani." Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, sihlonitshwa kwithuba lomnye umntu kwaye singalibali ukukhusela ukuhlasela kwabantu bakho. Kwaye uqikelelo lwe-Astrological yam ngeveki luya kunceda ekufundeni malunga neendlela zeveki yangoku.
Nge-8 Agasti. Ukukwazi ukulalanisa yeyona nto iphambili yempumelelo namhlanje. Ayisebenzi into-thatha inyathelo lokubuyela umva, ukusasazeka, ungangxami kunye nesigqibo. Iphumelele isigulana, ayishukunyiswa.
Agasti 9. Usuku olunemveliso kakhulu kwishishini. Isimo sengqondo seshishini sisebenzisa unxibelelwano, ngoko ndingcatsha izibakala Zama ukuba zicacile kwaye zichanekile kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Nawuphi na umntu ozama isithembiso sokuphumelela.
Agasti 10. Usuku malunga nokuhlala abantu abasebenzayo kunye nokuzibuza. Funa ukuphumelela-ukuba namhlanje. Uhambe kakuhle kwaye uqhelene.
Nge-11 ka-Agasti. Namhlanje ungamvusa umoya wokhuphiswano. Ukuba awukhuphisani nabani na, cela umngeni.
Ngomhla we-12 ka-Agasti. Ukushwankathela namhlanje, ungaphawula ukuba wenze kathathu ngakumbi. Ilungile ngakumbi ukugqiba amatyala ohlisiwe ixesha elide.
Nge-13 ka-Agasti. Sukuba lusizi ukuba uninzi lwezicwangciso zanamhlanje zihlala zingasebenzi. Sukucwangcisa nantoni na ebalulekileyo, la uhambo olude.