Esona sibini sithandwayo kwimifanekiso yaseRashiya - umolut-on-kunye nonina. Kwaye ukuba imbambano ingquzulwano ingumonakalo, ngoko ebomini aba mabini ahlala kungekabikho phambi kokuhleka: Kwaye ukuba isibini sihlala nomyeni onina kwindlu enye, ubudlelwane buyanda kumda. Ke ukuyenza njani loo nto ukuba ungakhethi phakathi kukanina kunye nomyeni wakho?
Kutheni umkhwekazi ongqubana
Kumama, umntwana nawuphi na ubudala uhlala sisidalwa, esingasaphindisileyo, kwakhona, ngokutsalwa kwabazali, sikhathalele kwaye sincede ekwenzeni isigqibo. Ngabafazi abancinci abanokuqonda ngokwaneleyo ukuba intombi yabo yayilindoda endala eye yakwazi ukukhetha indoda kunye nokwakha ulwalamano kunye naye ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka. Ithini into eyenzeka kufutshane nomkhwekazi?
Umfazi uyakholelwa ukuba kwintombazana yakhe, enye into ekwaziyo ukwamkela isigqibo esinexhala malunga noku okanye loo nto, ke ungenelelo luyimfuneko. Kwimeko enjalo, indoda kufuneka ibonakalise umkhwekazi, intombi yakhe yenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo, lixhomekeke kwindoda emntwini onembopheleleko. Nangona kunjalo, kwezinye iimeko, "iingubo" zakho "azichaphazeli umfazi osisiseko.
Umamazala unokubuza ngabom izenzo zomoyeni, kuba zisithi mabanga igunya ekuthini. Kunzima kuye ukwamkela isibakala sokuba intombi yabantu abadala ibona umncedisi kunye nomcebisi ebusweni bomnye umntu.
Kungangathi asilithandi ithuba. Emva koko uqalisa ukukhetha yonke into aya kuyenza indoda. Ibhinqa liyakholelwa ukuba kuphela kukwazi ukukhetha intombi yakhe isibini esitsha, kodwa oko akufunayo ayilunganga naphi na. Intombazana iqala ukuba nomsindo, ivakalise umama wakhe ukuba angakholiswa, ngaloo ndlela ajongana nabantu ababi kakhulu.
Umama unokumoyisa intombi yakhe. Ukuba izithuba ezikhulu zobusuku kubomi bobuqu, uqalisa ukonakalisa obu bomi kunye nezalamane zakhe kwaye uqala, kunye neyona ikufutshane.
Abafazi abaninzi kunzima ukwamkela ukuba intombi sele ikhulile
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Kutheni umkhwenyana ongqubana
Rhoqo, isizathu sokuxabana iba ngumkhwenyana. Umntu ngamnye uneembono kunye nezimvo zalo kwiimeko ezithile kwaye xa umbono wakhe wahluke kakhulu kolunye uluvo, kwimeko yethu - umkhwenyana wethu, umkhwenyana wethu, ungquzulwano alunakuphepheka. Yintoni ebangela amadoda?
Ukuba umntu wayenobunzima, masithi, umama wayesoloko ecinezeleka okanye wambonisa umbono wakhe, nayiphi na intshukumo yomkhwekazi eyazibona kakubi ngunina, ehambisa umfanekiso ombi kamama.
Umnqweno wokulawula. Ewe, kwiLizwe laMadoda ngaphandle kwayo, kodwa ngobomi bosapho, bhetyebhetye kubalulekile. Xa bobabini abaninazala, kwaye umkhwenyana bangabalulekanga abalulekileyo kwaye balukhuni, kwaye bahlala kwintsimi enye, kungekudala baya kuqalisa ukwahlula lo mhlaba.
Ukungahloneli umkhwekazi. Isizathu sengquzulwano elikhutheleyo linokuba yintiyo yobuqu, xa indoda inezizathu ezahlukeneyo ukuqalisa umama womfazi wayo, kwaye iyayenza ekuvuleleni.
Ngamanye amaxesha "uthando" moms kunye nomyeni uphela ngoSuku loMtshato
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Xa umfazi ephazamisa
Ngamanye amaxesha omabini amaqela anokufumaneka ngokupheleleyo de umfazi angenelele. Elona gama linzima - xa umfazi ephila ubomi obuninzi nonina kwaye akakwazi ukwenza izigqibo ngokwakho, kuba idla ngokwenza umntu onegunya. Ngoku, ukuba ngumfazi otshatileyo, uhlala engenamandla kwaye nakweyiphi na imeko engaqondakaliyo inomtsalane kumama, nangona oko kuya kuba kunqweneleka kwindoda yakhe. Ngenxa yoko, esi sibini sihlala ngokwemigaqo kamamazala, nangona le ndoda yatshata nelinye ibhinqa, umama wabo 'uyalawula "endlwini yakhe. Kule meko, umfazi uyacelwa ukuba anxibelelane nengcali yengqondo, kodwa oku kunokwenzeka kuphela ukuba uthe waqonda ubukho bengxaki.
Ukuba ungquzulwano alusonjululwa, luya kukhokelela kuqhawulo mtshato
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Ukungaqondi kwintsapho kuyajika indlu ibe ngumdabi wedabi osisigxina, owaphula ikhondo lobomi oluqhelekileyo. Kwindlu enjalo ayithandeki ukubabuya, bonke abemi banoloyiko, naliphi na igama elingakhathaliyo linokukhula libe sisiko eliqaqambileyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha umfazi kufuneka enze ukhetho: ukuhlala nendoda yakhe, kodwa ukuza kuwa unina noqhawulo-mtshato. Akukho nanye ekukhetho afanele ukuba efanelekile. Kubalulekile ukugcina ubudlelwane kumacala omabini kwaye uzame okungenani kancinci, kodwa ukuzixolelanisa.
Ukuba incoko ayincedi, kwaye umkhwekazi ongumama afudukela kwinqanaba elivulekileyo lentiyo, kwikamva elikufuphi neli-pschologist, kuba ingcali yengqokelela enokungqubana kakhulu de ibe ikhokelwa sisiphumo esibubulumko.