Ekubeni ubuntwana, siyayazi into onokukhohlisa. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko ebomini bonke, xa kungcono ukufihla into, kunokuthetha inyani, ethi, ngokungafanelekanga, kunokuba yinto engafanelekanga. Ngenxa yoko, lalikho ibinzana elinjalo "isibuxoki ngosindiso". Ke zeziphi iimeko ezincinci (kwaye mhlawumbi hayi) ubuxoki buvumelekile?
Ukuxhasa isigulana
Kuyo nayiphi na intsapho, esi sifo sisondele-uvavanyo olunzima, ngakumbi ngenxa yakhe. Oogqirha bacebisayo ukuba bangaziveze ubuxoki konke omaziyo malunga nesigulo kunye neziphumo zako, ke uya kuthintela impendulo engafunekiyo kwaye uyikhuphe ngomzabalazo wobomi.
Abantwana akukho mfuneko yokwazi inyani yonke
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Xa ubathuthuzela abazali
Ubomi bonke, abazali bafuna ukunika umntwana wabo okona kulungileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo akukho mntu ukhathazekileyo ngawe, ukusilela kwakho njengabo. Abazali kunzima ukwamkela xa bengakwazi ukunceda iingxaki zakho. Ukuze bangakwazi ukuba ngenene abanakuchaphazela ikhosi yeziganeko, kungcono ukukhupha ibali malunga neengxaki zakho, ukuze bangacaphukisi abantu bakho obathandayo, ngakumbi ukuba baluphele.
Xa usaphula ubudlelwane kunye nokuthandana
Ubundlobongela bokuziphatha nabasemzimbeni akufuneki bubekho ebomini bakho, ke umsebenzi wakho kukuyeka obu budlelwane njengababuhlungu. Ubuxoki kule meko iya kuba yindlela yokuphuma kwimeko eyingozi.
Ngexesha lonxibelelwano nabantwana abancinci
Abantwana babuza imibuzo emininzi, kodwa abasoloko belungele ukuva inyaniso. Kwingqondo yabantwana ekhawulezileyo inokuba yomelele kakhulu ngecala elingelilo. Ke into eyoyikekayo ukuba umntwana wakho akafumani ngokukhawuleza ukuba kutheni ndilahla ikati oyithandayo.
Musa ukubhengeza lonke ulwazi kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo.
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Xa becela ityala
Ngokwesiqhelo umbono wemali onakalise ubudlelwane obulungileyo. Ukuba awufuni, musa ukungena kubudlelwane bakho nomhlobo / umhlobo. Akukho sidingo sokuphendula isicelo esingenabungozi ukuze siphelelwe yimali "akukho mali", ngcono cinga ngayo inkunkuma, kodwa ukuze ungamkhubekisi umhlobo. Uya kufumana imali, kodwa ubuhlobo buyakhiwe iminyaka.
Ukuncokola kwi-Intanethi
Maxa wambi sithi unomdla ukunxibelelana social networks ukuba akukho saziso siya kukuxelela indlela komnye umntu oko, ukuba bangamazi kwigama ngokupheleleyo, umzekelo, indawo yakho, inqanaba ingeniso kunye nobume bomtshato ntoni. Awunakho nokucinga ukuba izabala ze-Intanethi zingahamba.
Sukuphucula imali kubudlelwane nabahlobo.
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Ukulondolozwa kweemfihlo zabanye
Umntu okukuzama imfihlo, unethemba lokuba yonke le nto iza kuhlala phakathi kwakho. Kule meko, ukuphakanyiswa kweenyani ezincinci kuvunyelwe. Ukuba umntu uza kuqhubeka enomdla, unokuthi ngokuzithemba ukuba awuyazi into, kwaye ngokubanzi, inzala enjalo, i-IDle ayifanelekanga.