Nokuba uyithanda kangakanani indoda yakho, ubudlelwane bakho akufuneki buzise nantoni na ngaphandle kolonwabo kunye nolwaneliseko. Abafazi abaninzi baxolela amaqabane abo kakhulu, ukuze bagcine ecaleni kwabo, kodwa amaqhinga anjalo aya kutshabalalisa umanyano lwakho. Siqokelele izinto ezibalaseleyo ukuba ungaxoleli nayiphi na indoda.
Ubundlobongela
Kutshanje, esi sihloko siye saba sesonye seyona ngxaki iphambili kwihlabathi liphela. Ngaphambili, kwathathwa njengehlazo elihlekisayo lokukhalaza ngesiqingatha sakhe sesibini, eyayingaqhelanga ukunqanda utyekelo olubi. Ibhinqa elinengxaki yendoda yakhe lacetyiswa ukuba libonise "ubulumko babasetyhini" kunye nokuqonda. Ngaba kufanelekile ukutsho ukuba isibongozo asinakuthathwa kwasoyo naphantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko. Ubundlobongela abunakwenzeka kungekuphela nje ngokunxulumene nomntu obhinqileyo, kodwa nendoda, kwaye ngenxa yoko awunakubalwa umntu kuphela. Ukuba kwisibini sakho, kulisiko ukuphatha i-stap okanye injalo ngokusongela nje, ngaphandle kokucinga ngokwaphula ubudlelwane.
Ubudlelwane bufanele buzisa Uvuyo
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I-narcissism
Njengomthetho, kunye namadoda anjalo, abafazi bajongana nabo: ukuba le ntombazana iyathandwa kwaye yamkela abazali ebuntwaneni, kwintombazana yabantu abadala, intombazana ayizukujonga kwi-Egorik. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba indoda ehlawulwe ngumntu ayinakuze ifumane inkxaso entle kusapho lwakhe ukuba uceba ukudala umanyano olunamandla, indoda enjalo ayifaneleki ukuba ibe yindima yomyeni owazinikeleyo kunye notata onothando. Lumnka.
Ukubawa
Sukudidanisa uqoqosho kunye nokubawa kwe-pathogical. Ukuba ekuqaleni ubudlelwane bakho, indoda iyala ukuthenga ikofu, ibhekisa ngokungafanelekanga, isebenza njenge "intsimbi" kwinto yokuba nayiphi na enye into ebonakala ngayo ayizukufumana ifomu yempawu zakhe. Amadoda abawathandayo angathandanga nje ukuba, kodwa ukugxila kwiindleko eziphezulu zezinto. Qiniseka ukuba umntu onjalo uya kwenza amancinci amancinci kwaye akazukuvumela ukuba uphile ngendlela oqhele ngayo okanye ungathanda.
Umlutha
Mhlawumbi okwesibini kwingozi yengozi emva kogonyamelo. Konke kuqalisa kancinci: Indoda yakho ayikhathali ibhiya yokusela kwaye nokuba awuyi kuyiphosa kumnandi, kuphela ngokoluvo lwakhe, umkhwa. Uninzi lweziselo eziphosakeleyo ezikhanyayo, indoda ingenayo ukuya kwiidigri eziphezulu ukuba awuthathi amanyathelo kule nqanaba, ukunceda umntu abe nzima kakhulu. Sonke siyawazi amatyala xa iintsapho zizama ukusindisa isalamane sabo ukuxhomekeka, sibingelela wonke umntu. Ukuba awuzivanga amandla okulwa nokuxhomekeka kwalo naluphi na uhlobo, yeka ubudlelwane obuya kukulibazisa ezantsi.