Imeko ayithandekiyo, nangona kunjalo, inokwenzeka kuye wonke umntu otshatileyo. Ilizwe lethu lihlala kwenye yezikhundla ezikhokelayo kwizibalo zoqhawulo-mtshato: × 58%. Ilizwe elinezona mitshato inamandla kakhulu ayingonyaka wokuqala waseJapan ngama-26% oqhawule umtshato. Ngokweenkcukacha-manani, umtshato wesibini ngamnye uphelisa uqhawulo-mtshato, nangona utshatile emva komtshato wesithathu wancancisa enye kwiminyaka eli-10 eyadlulayo.
Iingcali zentlalo zikuphikisa ukuba akukho nto imangalisayo, okwangoku okwangoku xa isizukulwane se-90s siza kumtshato, kwaye sazi malunga nemeko yabantu abahlelelekileyo ngelo xesha. Nangona kunjalo, esi asisosizathu siphambili.
Usapho ngalunye, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, lunezizathu zayo zekhefu, ngenxa yoko bekungachanekanga ukuba ubize inye. Mhlawumbi abantu abanakuwela kwimbono ngemizuzu yenkolo, ezentlalo, kwezopolitiko, njalo njalo. Nangona kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukwahlula iindidi zoonobangela kunokuba siyakwenza:
Ukutshata kwangoko kunqabile ukulawula
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Ukutshata kwangoko
Esona sizathu sithandwa kakhulu. Inyani yile yokuba ekuqaleni kweminyaka yobudala, amathuba okwamkela isigqibo esingachanekanga ngokubhekisele kwiqabane eliphezulu. Ulutsha alucingi ukuba luluphi na ubomi babantu abadala, ngoko emva kokuba i-ofisi yerejista kukho izinto ezimbalwa ezifunyenwe kwaye zihlala zimnandi. Amaphupha aphukileyo kunye nolindelo oluhlala lukhokelela ekuphelisweni komtshato okhawulezayo.
Ukuvukela
Isizathu sesibini esithandwayo. Ukwamkelwa kwamadoda, ukuba uyakholelwa ukuba ngaba amanani. Asingawo wonke umfazi okulungele umyeni wakhe isithuko esinje, kodwa esongeza imvakalelo yobufazi, sifumana isikali esihle kunye nekhefu elipheleleyo lobudlelwane. Ewe, ukuba yonke into imida yoqhawulo-mtshato kuphela, abantu basetyhini abaninzi baqala ukwenza umyeni wangaphambili, bezama ukuziphindezela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Imbonakalo yomntwana ihlala inzima enkulu
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Utshintsho kutshintsho
Khangela iimvakalelo ezintsha ecaleni. Emva kweminyaka emininzi somtshato, abantu beza ubomi obulinganiswa, abanye bathunyelwa ukuba bathande ukubamba, ukulibala ngokupheleleyo ngemiphumo.
Ukungoneliseki ngesondo. Xa ubomi obusondeleyo ngesi sizathu sibe sisinyibilikisi okanye ngokubanzi bungabikho, abantu baqala '"ukuba nendlala", kodwa bafumane intuthuzelo kwiingalo zomntu ongaphandle.
Uqhawulo-mtshato olunxulumene nokufika komntwana
Oku kubhekisa kumgangatho omkhulu kwizibini eziselula, esisele sizitshilo, asisoloko sisazi ubunzulu bolwalamano lomtshato. Abantu bazama 'ukuya "omnye komnye, kwaye ukuvela kwelungu losapho elitsha kuhlala kuxinzelelo olukhulu. Ke ngoko, uninzi, hayi ngokuchasene nomthwalo wengqondo, shiya usapho.
Ukwahluka kwabalinganiswa
Ukunqongophala kwezihloko ngokubanzi kukuchaphazela kakubi ukwakhiwa kosapho elizayo. Oku akuthethi ukuba umntu obhinqileyo ufanele ukuba athande ibhola kwiinyanga ezimbalwa kwaye uye kuyo yonke imidlalo nomyeni wakhe, umyeni wakhe akanyanzelekanga ukuba abe ngumboniso wemveliso yeqonga lodidi. Kwiintsapho zale mihla, ugxininiso olukhulu lubekwa ekugcinweni kwethuba lobuqu apho kungaqondakaliyo kulongo elinye kumaqabane, oko kubangela okuqinileyo.
Esona sizathu siphambili - ukuvukela
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Iingxaki ebomini
Ewe, iisokisi zasasazwa emhlabeni zihlala zisisizathu esihle sokungenisa isicelo soqhawulo mtshato. Nangona kunjalo, ubukhulu becala, abantu bayakwazi ukuvumelana ngokunxulumana nentsimi enye, ngaphandle kokuba sithetha ngabafana abangafunekiyo.
Umtshato Wokulula
Intshutshiso yeenjongo zomlinganiso azikaze iphele ngenye into elungileyo. Vumelani, umtshato, owakhelwe ukulindelwa koncedo lwezezimali okanye onobuchule kwiqabane, akunakubizwa ngokuba sempilweni.
Inombolo encinci
Masibuyele kwiingcali zethu zezentlalo ezithiyo ukuba iminyaka emininzi zithathwa njengelona xesha linamandla lomtshato ukusuka kwiminyaka engama-20 ukuya kwengama-30 ubudala. Kwaye inyani yile yokuba umntu omdala uneemfuno ezininzi zeqabane, kwaye kunqabile ukuba, ngubani na onako ukuthobela ezi mfuno.
Ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka engama-50, abafazi bangabaqeqeshi abaphambili boqhawulo-mtshato, ngelixa imeko iguquka, kwaye amadoda sele elungele ukubaleka aze enze isicelo. Uqhawulo-mtshato olufikelekileyo luyingenelo kwimbono yezinto ezibonakalayo, kuba abantwana benyuka, kwaye ke i-alimony ayisayi kufuneka ihlawule.